creampie???

[SluttyWife]

Lorrie,

Dear Lorrie,

Sorry to have missed this thread, but I just found it again.

To answer your question...
I trust that he's monogamous when we are not playing with others cos we are together 24/7. So creampie from hubby is
as safe as safe can be, me thinks.

I have a very healthy interest is group sex... and I believe that can be had more safely which means no cream pies with other partners. Pretty much impossible with a condom on.
So if I'm in a mood for a creampie...hubby does the honors not just once, but twice or more.



Love and licks ;-*

Slutty Wife

[magnum]

Originally Posted by redchicago

My husband and I our pretty picky about who we play with. We have two couples that we see every couple of weeks.

Recently our group has talked about not using condoms since we all just play with each other. We have all been STD tested in the last year and our negative.

Also the ladies are fixed our in my case on the pill

I don't like condoms put we have always played with them. I love the feel of a man exploding inside me and feeling the warmth pour out after.

I have two questions our thoughts.

1. Are there any dangers Im missing?

2. Are there any couples that do this already out there, and is it worth it?



Thanks,


Amy

I thought "creampie" involves anal sex not viginal sex. The couple that I play with we do not us condoms, although I do not cum inside her, we both pull out and cum on her face and have her suck the head of my cock.

Magnum

[catherine1962]

Allowing only my husband inside me without a condom says that it is only him that I love and trust.

[JacobSky]

Originally Posted by highlander

I would look at the studies on HIV prevalence among prositutes in Nevada. The last one I saw said the HIV risk there was pretty low.

I think you also need to do some math here.

Is there risk? Sure. Still, I'm not ready to say that someone who consistency uses tests with partners they go bareback with and swings occaisionally with condoms is at a high risk for disease compared to folks that take their partner's word they are monogamous.

When I look at the math, tests as imperfect as they are, lower the odds of transmission quite a bit. The reason? A significant fraction of folks show antibodies to HIV within a few weeks of infection--and the odds of getting HIV from any single encounter with an HIV+ partner is something like 1/1000. That means that if you consistency test say every 3 months, then the odds of transmission before the infection shows up in a test is less than 3%(even if you were having sex with that person twice a month). Other diseases are a lot more contagious-but they show up in tests a lot sooner.

Basically, by using tests, you remove your chances of exposure to over 95% of the HIV+ folks _and_ the odds transmission from the folks that are infected but not HIV yet are pretty small.

If you consistently choose partners that in term get their partners tested, the odds improve even more.

Thank you for your analysis of the risk of std's.

[funtoplay]

Originally Posted by Lorrie

I'm concerned about it too, hence the reason why I don't swing. But that's not the main reason I don't swing; I just rather have sex with friends.

Thank you! I love that line

That prety much sums up our feelings on the matter. While we haven't actually experienced "sloppy seconds" yet...it is aomething Mr. F and I have talked about. We would love to find another couple that we are comfortable enough with to actually do it with....still looking, although we are getting closer to a decision

[lcjtsd]

Originally Posted by BettyAnnMBSC

1) Some argue that using a condom instils a false sense of security which increases risky behavior. Others argue that disease transmission is only minimized by the use of condoms and not negated entirely.

I look at it this way. My wife is an excellent driver. However, whenever we go somewhere together, I have to drive. Why? It's that "illusion" of control that I need. When she is driving and I am the passanger, I am a nervous wreck.

For those here who do oral without protection and insist on condoms for intercourse, I see condoms as the same. It provides the "illusion" of being "safe".

No full body latex suits and air masks for us...Skin-on-skin sex and creampies forever!!!

[Chris&Amelia]

Originally Posted by lcjtsd

I look at it this way. My wife is an excellent driver. However, whenever we go somewhere together, I have to drive. Why? It's that "illusion" of control that I need. When she is driving and I am the passanger, I am a nervous wreck.

Really? I just get nauseous.

(disclaimer: Amelia's an excellent driver. I'm just not used to sitting in the passenger seat. Especially with the steep and curvy mountain roads we have up here.)

[peabody]

I hate using condoms and will only use them for new contact...Once we trust each other then condoms are not used because I like the feel of the penis inside me with no protection between us.

[redleader12]

My reply is to just go bareback with people you trust my wife and I go bareback with a buddy of mine who i have known since the 7th grade and will continue to do so with other people we learn to trust. We enjoy bareback a lot better than a condom

[JDApopka]

we go bare back with our partners. we know its a risk its one that we accept.

[TerryforSex]

bareback with out group only.

[bigcod]

Originally Posted by lovers

We will go bareback with couples we know and trust (which to date number 2) and wear condoms with new contacts.

Frankly, we both prefer going bareback. It's more of a rush.

as long as there is a clean bill of health bareback is the deal....but if the other couple is leary protection is a must.

[eyemneeding1]

my wife and i had a friend that was recently divorce they were together for 17 yrs i n a monogamous relationship. we trusted him and we were sure he was safe so we didnot use condoms. he was a min man with quick recovery i ended up with many creampies before it ended . i loved doing her after she was with him