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| Wearing a evil grin Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 1,198 Location: Fort Wayne Status: Married Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Thetrueloves
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Anyone have any tips for increasing sensitivity while using condoms? I've heard some people put a little extra lube on the inside of the condom, but I'd be a little worried it would fall off during intercourse then. We've been using lifestyles skyn and some other assortments of lifestyles condoms, and they all seemed pretty much the same to me. The people we tend to play with almost always have a latex allergy so non-latex is the way to go. keeping hard isn't the problem... but getting "there" is! I usually get tired, call it a night, and plan on finishing with my wife after. But it's just a little downer not to be able to get there with a play partner. I've only came twice so far using condoms with play partners and it's quite frustrating. I'm sure a big part of it is mental and not just the condoms, but it sure could help to have a little help. lol! |
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| Way too opinionated Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 1,826 Location: Southeastern Virginia Status: Single Female Swing Lifestyle Name:The_Fuse
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Mr. Fuse would also be interested in recommendations. Seems like he is the same type as Mr. Truelove. He has no problem getting hard or staying hard, but with a condom it's difficult for him to have an orgasm. It tends to frustrate his partners, especially because he likes oral a different way than most guys, so very few playmates have gotten him off that way either.
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 360 Location: Near Seattle Status: Male half of couple Swing Lifestyle Name:xxxboxy
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Have sex at home with a condom too. After awhile his sensitivity will reset to have an orgasm with a condom more easily. The downside will be having a short trigger without a condom after the reset.
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| Wearing a evil grin Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 1,198 Location: Fort Wayne Status: Married Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Thetrueloves
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I thought about that, but I dunno. Condoms at home seem so not fun!! lol
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Have you tried Kimono MicroThin? I started using these after they where recommended by someone on here a few years ago. I believe I ordered them online at one point, but these are about the only condom that I have ever used that I was able to climax with. -Van |
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| Way too opinionated Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 1,826 Location: Southeastern Virginia Status: Single Female Swing Lifestyle Name:The_Fuse
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| Wearing a evil grin Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 1,198 Location: Fort Wayne Status: Married Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Thetrueloves
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| Active Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 19 Location: Nyc Status: Couple
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Well I guess what you want: 1. Increased sensitivity - short intercourse 2. Less sensitivity - longer intercourse and always open the condom before you go to bed ..opening the stuff in the middle of the game is just pain in the neck especially if your fingers are wet..:-) |
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| Tastes Great Less Filling Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,467 Location: Los Angeles Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Secret_Asian_Man
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My only caveat to this statement... Quote:
I've needed months to re-train myself to the sensation of intercourse with a condom (being in a monogamous relationship for three years did have SOME benefits) ... and those first few times back under the latex were really frustrating!! I recently heard someone mention that trying "magnum" sized condoms might be better (even though I am hardly of ...ahem... magnum-proportions) ... it did help a bit - there wasn't the same tight restrictiveness that I was feeling with some of the others I've tried ...but it also wasn't as much sensation. And in my own personal experience... those "reduce sensation" condoms which are chemically treated with a minor numbing agent... just end up making me feel like I had no penis at all!!! | |
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| Active Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 19 Location: Nyc Status: Couple
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did u try LifeStyle ultraslim or may I suggest skins..i tryed the last it needs some practice but man its like real thing but it may fail for preventing STD..
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With there being more and more people with latex sensitvity, i've taken to using non-latex condoms. Trojan Supras seems to work with good response from the women. I don't usually come with a condom, and sometimes don't come at all (see related threads). I don't mind fucking longer... ![]() Dont like the real tight ones tho.......... |
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| Way too opinionated Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 1,826 Location: Southeastern Virginia Status: Single Female Swing Lifestyle Name:The_Fuse
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Mr. Fuse ordered some Kimono MicroThins (don't worry, he's not getting the "used" ones referenced to above). We'll report back!
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 850 Location: York, PA Status: Couple - he posts/reads Swing Lifestyle Name:hereforfunrm
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I have found that the best way for me to cum is to take is to take it slow and focus..sometimes hard in the heat of things! | |
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| Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,919 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times Swing Lifestyle Name:randp
| That was probably me who recommended them, they are the only ones that work at all for me. All the others I have tried is like a shot of Novocain, can't feel a darn thing. On the down side though, they are latex, so they won't work if someone has latex allergies.
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| Wearing a evil grin Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 1,198 Location: Fort Wayne Status: Married Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Thetrueloves
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I might have to try those. According to their website, looks like most drugstores carry them, maybe I'll stop in a grab a pack...
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