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| STD/Safe Sex Questions regarding STD's and safe sex (protection from STD's). |
| View Poll Results: Do you use condoms when you swing? | |||
| Yes, I always use a condom | | 92 | 40.35% |
| No, I refuse to use a condom and I am over 45yo | | 10 | 4.39% |
| No, I refuse to use a condom and I am under 45yo | | 9 | 3.95% |
| I go bareback only within our close circle of friends | | 82 | 35.96% |
| I will use a condom but only if the woman insists | | 35 | 15.35% |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 207 Location: Arizona Status: Couple
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As I've alluded to in other posts, I'm encountering more and more men with condom issues in the lifestyle. And although I hate to say it, it seems to be age related. Hence, this poll for the men only...please answer honestly...no need to reveal your identity or comment unless you want to.
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 192 Location: Georgia Status: Couple
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We believe condoms should be used by ALL parties involved in the swing-situation. We always make sure we have at least 2 condoms with us at all times (one for each male). If the other male refuses, then he loses.
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 834 Location: VA Status: Couple, Straight M, BiFem Swing Lifestyle Name:Vjklander
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We always use condoms for anal or vaginal penetration. Not for oral though. It does have an adverse affect to my technique though. At home I can go for over an hour, bringing her to orgasm several times before I let go. But during that time I might wilt a bit now and then. That would certainly lose a condom way up in there. So, when with someone else, after bringing her off several times amanually and orally, I will go for intercourse, but will get off fairly quickly. For me thats about 15-20 minutes. She might have one or two O's. One of these days I might ry the big V J |
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| Don't poke an eye out! Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 1,450 Location: Pennsylvania - The Poconos Status: The C of C&A Swing Lifestyle Name:PA_Panache
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We use condoms for all vaginal or anal penetration. No exceptions, except with one couple we've known for 13+ years, and we're very close friends with (almost like family). I can't think of us using condoms for oral contact in a long, long time. |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 344 Location: LA Status: Single Male
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I will never put myself or anyone else at risk by using a condom. I have learnt far too much about the toxins and carcinogens in latex to ever be that selfish. If it costs me a f**k, too bad! |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 1,376 Location: Louisiana Status: Married Female Swing Lifestyle Name:likethat
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__________________ I put the "grrrr" in swinger baby, yeah! --Austin Powers | ||
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| Previously of MichiganCouple Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 2,100 Location: Vero Beach Florida Status: Single Male
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 344 Location: LA Status: Single Male
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Dear Roxysbayou, You may not know this but hospitals in the U.S. have stopped using latex gloves and in many States only Mylar balloons are allow in hospitals. All vulcanized latex is toxic (natural latex is quite harmless but about as elastic as a soggy pizza). The difference between condoms and other applications is that this is the only product rubbed with great force into the most unprotected parts of the body. It is estimated that you would have to wear gloves for a month to get the same amount of toxins in the blood system as one single hour of sex. If you have latex allergies ALL latex should be avoided but in normal conditions the issue is to have the minimum exposure to latex so allergies do not develop. One can take anything too far but condom use does not fall in this category. Since 1983 17,000,000 Americans have developed latex allergies and thousands died of Type III reactions and latex induced cancers. The situation gets worse and worse and yet little action is being taken. Best wishes, Paul |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 344 Location: LA Status: Single Male
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Dear John, Thanks for the really nice post. All the attacks are making me wish I had not returned to the forum. I find it hard to stay silent on this issue and watch as more and more people suffer, simply because the media finds the subject 'too hot to handle'. Political correctness can kill! Best wishes, Paul |
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| Previously of MichiganCouple Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 2,100 Location: Vero Beach Florida Status: Single Male
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It is easy online to be so rubber steadfast but when push comes to shove most people don't use them. SO carry on ye messengers and in the meantime when we get the urge well...fuck. John who has yet to see a swinger suffer from unprotected sex...or protected for that matter. | |
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| Looking for new friends Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 207 Location: Northern MI Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Mike_n_Marie
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When we do finally exchange partners, it will be with a condom only. Life is too short already to risk shortening it anymore |
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__________________ Life's too short to not have as much fun as possible ! | |
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| Don't poke an eye out! Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 1,450 Location: Pennsylvania - The Poconos Status: The C of C&A Swing Lifestyle Name:PA_Panache
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| Previously of MichiganCouple Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 2,100 Location: Vero Beach Florida Status: Single Male
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Are they more sensitive? I picture the skin of a sheep. The sheep I have known, albiet few, seem to have skin kinda like a dogs. I have only petted sheep. Honest. I live in the south but this is grapefruit country. I like grapefruits though. They have more substance and endurance than an orange. John, who will never get over being caught by his mom molesting an orange. | |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 1,376 Location: Louisiana Status: Married Female Swing Lifestyle Name:likethat
| No the reason that I asked that question was because Paul King kept talking about how toxic latex condoms are. But then after being reminded, I realized that they serve no purpose when it comes to STDs or HIV. So I guess the question was pointless.Unless of course you were just wondering what a sheep would feel like. Roxy |
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