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STD/Safe Sex Questions regarding STD's and safe sex (protection from STD's).

View Poll Results: Do you use condoms when you swing?
Yes, I always use a condom 92 40.35%
No, I refuse to use a condom and I am over 45yo 10 4.39%
No, I refuse to use a condom and I am under 45yo 9 3.95%
I go bareback only within our close circle of friends 82 35.96%
I will use a condom but only if the woman insists 35 15.35%
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Old 07-14-2004, 03:21 PM   #46 (permalink)
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We always use condoms... No glove, no love. For STD reasons, the remote possibilty of pregnancy (if the pill is used), and as I've posted before, I'm very funny about other guys cumming in my wife. I don't like playing in another man's cum. That's just my preference. And my wife feels it a little to intimate also to have another man cum in her. She says that's my territory only.

We had a good giggle over it this weekend though. We used condoms with a desensitizer with another couple, and after I had sex with the other woman I pulled-out and went down on her. Within a minute my lips and tongue were numb!

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Old 09-02-2004, 08:58 PM   #47 (permalink)
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Same here...No condom, no sex

We always use condoms durring penitration with others for protection from STD's & an unwanted pregnancy(can't use the pill/patch/shot due to blood clots.)I make my husband pull out 90% of the time.

Even if this were a perfect world, I still wouldn't let anyone cum in my vagina, it feels gross.
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Old 09-09-2004, 05:14 AM   #48 (permalink)
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Since 1983 17,000,000 Americans have developed latex allergies and thousands died of Type III reactions and latex induced cancers.
17 million people in the USA have developed latex allergies in the last two decades? That's roughly one out of every 16 people, including every man, woman and child in the nation. Few allergies or medical conditions are that widespread. PaulKing, I'm going to have a lot of trouble accepting that figure unless you have a source to support it.

But, even if I were to humor you by accepting your claims...I'd rather have a latex allergy than an STD. Period.

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Old 12-18-2004, 09:44 AM   #49 (permalink)
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Okay. I'm over 45 by at least six years. We haven't swung together yet but are in the process of discussing the "do's and don'ts" so we don't wind up pissing each other off. You know, the communication thingy.

Before we met, I never used a condom and she did only rarely. Considering we are both military couples, I'm rather surprised neither of us ever caught any STD's. Me personally, it was a different "working girl" or several on my first tour in Korea. What the hell, bareback sex is the greatest. We have set one rule already, the first one. No sex without a condom. Though I will point out that "IF" we setteled with one steady couple, I would like both of us to ride bareback. She says that when she feels me shoot my load it feels really great. Quite frankly, I agree.
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Old 12-19-2004, 08:30 PM   #50 (permalink)
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I'd rather have a latex allergy than an STD. Period.
Hmm, maybe than HIV but a latex allergy can be deadly whereas most STDs are not. I have a friend who cannot eat foods that were prepared by someone wearing latex gloves-means she can't eat out-ever, has to be extremely careful about what brands she buys etc. Can't go to the Doctor's office due to latex particles in the ventilation system. Is basically housebound since she can't control how environment anywhere else.
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It should be noted, Reality, the "female condom", is a polyurethane condom.

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For non-latex condoms, you might want to look here or here for examples.

The new breed of condoms on the block are the non latex or polyurethane condoms. These new wave latex-free condoms are getting radical reviews with the ever growing Rip n Roll population. For those of you that are allergic to latex than this is the page for you. The polyurethane condoms are all FDA approved for pregnancy and disease prevention. Click on a name below to find a description and scroll the page at your leisure. Have fun and experience the non latex difference.
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Old 12-31-2004, 05:54 PM   #52 (permalink)
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If the man was to wear a rubber, honestly there would be little reason to have her fuck him. I mean thats the main attraction for us both. To have her enjoy feeling his hot load shoot deep in side her. Being togather afterwords with her pussy full of hopefully very thick creamy cum from another man is a definate high light. We spend very intimate moments togather as we share the guys cum togather. I especially love sloppy secounds. And then to shoot my load in her giving her what i refer to as a double load is wonderful.

Yes yes I know what many will say we take our life in our own hands and the reality of it is thats very true. But the rewards we get are well worth the risk that we feel is percentage wise for us rather small.

We couldn't have said this better!!

Personally, we feel that anyone who does oral on a guy without a rubber or a woman without everything covered in plastic wrap but insists on a rubber for penetration are only fooling themselves. If anyone does have anything you don't want to catch, guess what, you just caught it from the oral!!

Please don't flamethrow us for this. This is OUR opinion.

Yes, from what I've read on these posts, the risk is less from oral but it is still a risk.

The pregnancy issue for those women who can't take the pill, etc? That's fine, except rubbers do break.

Yes, everyone has their own views on this issue and this is ours. Besides, I (Mr. LCJTSD) just loves watching another guy explode in my wife and, yes, it does feel different with another mans cum in there. I feels wonderful!!!
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Old 01-07-2005, 04:12 AM   #53 (permalink)
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Let's be honest here.

Is going bareback a more pleasurable experience? Yo betcha! Is it always the best idea? Hardly.

I'm not going to lie... we go au natural from time to time with another two couples we've known for quite a while and that we trust. It helps that all the men have also been "snipped" as well.

Do we like going without condoms? Hell yeah! Personally, what I like the best and watching the other guy's face grimace and seeing him thrust as he ejaculates into my wife, especially watching that look of sublime pleasure on her face has she feels his semen flowing into her vagina. I think I find it so fun because when I orgasm, I usually have my eyes closed, and I miss that look on her face.

There's also something else incredibly erotic about the afterglow afterwards, just hanging out and relaxing, knowing that his cum is deep inside of her while my cum is deep inside of his wife. This usually results in everybody getting naked again and making love to our own spouses, depositing another load of cum into her.

But this is not an everyday... or even every month occurrence. We go bareback on special occasions with very select people. With everybody else, we use a condom for intercourse. Because there are some pretty funky diseases out there.
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we are soft, no intercourse, swingers. so we have not used condoms in the past

If we ever decide to fully swap im sure would, but I am also allergic to latex so the whole experience would be not worth having!
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