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| STD/Safe Sex Questions regarding STD's and safe sex (protection from STD's). |
| View Poll Results: Do you use condoms when you swing? | |||
| Yes, I always use a condom | | 92 | 40.35% |
| No, I refuse to use a condom and I am over 45yo | | 10 | 4.39% |
| No, I refuse to use a condom and I am under 45yo | | 9 | 3.95% |
| I go bareback only within our close circle of friends | | 82 | 35.96% |
| I will use a condom but only if the woman insists | | 35 | 15.35% |
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| | #46 (permalink) |
| South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,973 Location: Utah Status: Single Male
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We always use condoms... No glove, no love. For STD reasons, the remote possibilty of pregnancy (if the pill is used), and as I've posted before, I'm very funny about other guys cumming in my wife. I don't like playing in another man's cum. That's just my preference. And my wife feels it a little to intimate also to have another man cum in her. She says that's my territory only. We had a good giggle over it this weekend though. We used condoms with a desensitizer with another couple, and after I had sex with the other woman I pulled-out and went down on her. Within a minute my lips and tongue were numb! Lessons learned. Mr. WS |
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| Active Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 24 Location: GA Status: Couple
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Same here...No condom, no sex We always use condoms durring penitration with others for protection from STD's & an unwanted pregnancy(can't use the pill/patch/shot due to blood clots.)I make my husband pull out 90% of the time. Even if this were a perfect world, I still wouldn't let anyone cum in my vagina, it feels gross. |
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| Active Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 30 Location: Maryland (Washington/Baltimore) Status: Couple
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But, even if I were to humor you by accepting your claims...I'd rather have a latex allergy than an STD. Period. -- Krusty | |
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Okay. I'm over 45 by at least six years. We haven't swung together yet but are in the process of discussing the "do's and don'ts" so we don't wind up pissing each other off. You know, the communication thingy. Before we met, I never used a condom and she did only rarely. Considering we are both military couples, I'm rather surprised neither of us ever caught any STD's. Me personally, it was a different "working girl" or several on my first tour in Korea. What the hell, bareback sex is the greatest. We have set one rule already, the first one. No sex without a condom. Though I will point out that "IF" we setteled with one steady couple, I would like both of us to ride bareback. She says that when she feels me shoot my load it feels really great. Quite frankly, I agree. Cheers. I've been a bad, bad, bad wittle boy. -Elmer Fud |
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| Active Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 16 Location: PA Status: Couple
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| | #51 (permalink) | |
| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 217 Location: Portland,OR
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It should be noted, Reality, the "female condom", is a polyurethane condom. Quote:
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| | #52 (permalink) | |
| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 125 Location: NO LONGER PARTICIPATING!!! Status: Couple
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We couldn't have said this better!! Personally, we feel that anyone who does oral on a guy without a rubber or a woman without everything covered in plastic wrap but insists on a rubber for penetration are only fooling themselves. If anyone does have anything you don't want to catch, guess what, you just caught it from the oral!! Please don't flamethrow us for this. This is OUR opinion. Yes, from what I've read on these posts, the risk is less from oral but it is still a risk. The pregnancy issue for those women who can't take the pill, etc? That's fine, except rubbers do break. Yes, everyone has their own views on this issue and this is ours. Besides, I (Mr. LCJTSD) just loves watching another guy explode in my wife and, yes, it does feel different with another mans cum in there. I feels wonderful!!! | |
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| Don't poke an eye out! Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 1,450 Location: Pennsylvania - The Poconos Status: The C of C&A Swing Lifestyle Name:PA_Panache
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Let's be honest here. Is going bareback a more pleasurable experience? Yo betcha! Is it always the best idea? Hardly. I'm not going to lie... we go au natural from time to time with another two couples we've known for quite a while and that we trust. It helps that all the men have also been "snipped" as well. Do we like going without condoms? Hell yeah! Personally, what I like the best and watching the other guy's face grimace and seeing him thrust as he ejaculates into my wife, especially watching that look of sublime pleasure on her face has she feels his semen flowing into her vagina. I think I find it so fun because when I orgasm, I usually have my eyes closed, and I miss that look on her face. There's also something else incredibly erotic about the afterglow afterwards, just hanging out and relaxing, knowing that his cum is deep inside of her while my cum is deep inside of his wife. This usually results in everybody getting naked again and making love to our own spouses, depositing another load of cum into her. But this is not an everyday... or even every month occurrence. We go bareback on special occasions with very select people. With everybody else, we use a condom for intercourse. Because there are some pretty funky diseases out there. |
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| | #54 (permalink) |
| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2000 Posts: 426 Location: ORANGE COUNTY, CA Status: Married Fem.
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we are soft, no intercourse, swingers. so we have not used condoms in the past If we ever decide to fully swap im sure would, but I am also allergic to latex so the whole experience would be not worth having! |
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