condoms and oral

[sweet_tna]

For kicks and giggles, I tried giving Mr. Sweet a blowjob with a flavored condom on, and it was much like chewing on a rubber band. He wasn't all that thrilled about the experience, either.

We don't require condoms for oral, but we do for intercourse. That's the level of risk we're willing to accept.

=)

[mervsmom97]

thanks so much for all the responses! I guess I still have a lot to consider. I will say that the time we did play we used a Durex flavored condom and it wasn't too bad for me, but I can't imagine that the guy was getting the full benefit

[Chris&Amelia]

I doubt he would complain either way....

[highlander]

Originally Posted by sweet_tna

We don't require condoms for oral, but we do for intercourse. That's the level of risk we're willing to accept.

If you combine bareback oral with exchange of test results, I'd suspect you are VERY safe compared to the general population.

Basically the population of swinging couples has a moderate level of risk. Basically a lot of VERY high risk folks can't sustain a stable couple relationship because they are constantly having new partners(I knew of one prominent Silicon Valley CEO that had as his major life goal to have sex with as many women as humanly possible, which meant 5-15 partners per week, which is the kind of thing a Billionaire can do).

Anyhow, what you have to remember when looking at the "general" population, a big chunk of those folks that aren't swingers have a partner at one point or another that has contact with a partner from a higher risk population(i.e. a man that has sex with a drug addicted prostitute or a woman that has sex with a boss at work or a religious leader who has been doing the same thing with a LOT of ladies).