Condoms as the only form of contraception???

[willyoats]

When we first started, it was the sponge for a few times./ They are messy and the feeling is like screwing a soapy blowup doll.

On to condoms for anybody who was not fixed. That worked out OK for years. Then menopause took away the need for even that.

Caution: the mother of one of our swinging friends thought she was safe after menopause but got pregnant at age 56.

[prettylady]

Both Dog and I are "fixed". So birth control is a non issue in our lives.
I can't help but worry for you both if the worse did happen, what then?
would you tell people that you are swingers, or allow for her to take the brunt of being thought of as a cheater. It's not just a pregnacy you need to concider, it is all the other stuff. I think I could handle the baby part, but the rumors would drive me mad.
What would be the worse of two "evils" in my families eyes.
Best to protect yourself as much as possible to keep from having to deal with these issues in the first place.
Best of luck
Your friend,
Prettylady