oral sex?

[tribbles]

The internet says yes...Trich can be passed orally. So can many others -

[cuzzeyesaidso]

Blowjob with a condom?

Doesn't that violate the constitution?

[imsherona2]

Yes, my questions also is: do people really wear condoms for oral sex? For as long as I have been swinging, I have never run into that situation or request either...!!

[screaminggood]

I've never seen it yet....

[Bama0468]

I have not as yet seen it yet, nor requested or been requested to.

[webbguy]

Can you get HIV or any other disease by receiving oral sex from a girl, and, if so, could you name the diseases please?


Answer

You cannot get HIV from contact with saliva alone, so insertive oral sex (that is a man receiving oral sex) is safe. The only way insertive oral sex could present some risk is if your sex partner had sufficient amounts of blood in her mouth (from recent dental work or other dental problems for example) and your penis came into direct contact with blood. But you?d hopefully notice if your partner had blood in her mouth.

You can get other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) from insertive oral sex. The more common ones include gonorrhea, chlamydia, and non-gonococcal urethritis (NGU). These usually can be treated easily with antibiotics. You may also get syphilis (which usually can be treated easily with antibiotics (if identified early enough) and herpes (which can?t be cured but can be treated). A useful table of STDs and associated risks can be found online. It also contains detailed information about each STD.

If you?re a sexually active young man, you should probably get screened at least once a year for STDs. Many STDs do not have symptoms and can go unnoticed. Talk to your doctor about screening for STDs, or, if you are uncomfortable talking with him or her, you can go to a city or county STD clinic.

[personal416]

Originally Posted by tribbles

The internet says yes...Trich can be passed orally. So can many others -

I've read some conflicting information recently that claims trich can't survive the bacteria in the mouth. {shrug}

[nhcpl1968]

We haven't seen anybody glove up for oral

[MrsHidalgo]

A couple of things.....

First, having the guy cum in my mouth is the reason I like giving oral. That's part of MY reward for doing a good job. I'll admit it. I love the sensation and taste. And I've never had a guy complain when I swallowed his semen.

Secondly, I hate the taste of condoms. No matter WHAT you put on them to give them flavor.....they still taste awful.

No condoms in my mouth. If I have doubts about the guy I won't go down on him in the first place.

JMO.

[twoready4fun]

Nope. No condoms during oral sex for us. We only swing with a very small circle of friends though.

[Tarponn]

Oral unprotected sex can and does spread lots of things, friendship, erotic feelings, enhanced self image, positive physical control, and some tiny bugs as well. If you want a little more protection do what many gays do use an antiseptic mouth wash close to completion. It may not do any good, but you'll feel better.

[dayhiker]

This is what amazes me. We hear there are a lot of STDs going around. Most swingers don't use condoms for oral and sometimes don't for intercouse. So how come there are so few reported cases of STD's in the swinging comunity? There seems to be a real disconnect in the two sets of data.


Any thoughts?
dayhiker

[N8ture Girl]

Originally Posted by dayhiker

This is what amazes me. We hear there are a lot of STDs going around. Most swingers don't use condoms for oral and sometimes don't for intercouse. So how come there are so few reported cases of STD's in the swinging comunity? There seems to be a real disconnect in the two sets of data.


Any thoughts?
dayhiker

Interesting question. My first thought would be that yes there are alot of STD's going around, but maybe not so much in the swinging world. While there are STD's in the lifestyle, it seems that those in the LS are just more careful and take a proactive approach towards getting tested and choosing their play partners more carefully. In the vanilla world its not always the case.

Also there is a possibility that if a person had an STD in the LS and tired to hide it and was found out it would likely be social suicide as word would spread amongst the swinging circles. And who knows, if a person open admitted to a STD, and was cured if the case allowed, people may shy away from that person or anyone who they have played with.
So not only is it important health wise but also important socially to remain bug free.
In another words more people will know about your STD in the swinging world than in the vanilla world, so it is more likely that one will be more careful in the LS.

That's just one possible perspective....

[lulowa]

Same my wifes idea

[RDfnd]

This issue has been a difficult one for us. We understand that seldom are condoms used or required for oral, even if to completion with cum in mouth and/ or swallow. If oral is performed w/o a condom even to the point of significant arousal and precum production significant risk has occurred. Then why not just bareback the whole way? We continually re-address this and still find it a conflict that is challenging to resolve.