For those who dont use condoms

[foozballnow]

First off please note I am not trying to restart a debate on bareback vs. condoms. We practice safe sex and am not here to preach. I was just a little curious and thought I would ask the community. So PLEASE don't turn this into a statistics thread again.

For those of you that do go bareback with other couples, be it on a regular basis or with only select people, how did you get started doing bareback? Was it always something you have done since you entered the lifestyle, or something that came over time and experience?

Also, where does the mini-community of bareback swingers tend to ejaculate? Do couples have rules about that or is it generally just done inside the woman?

Last, how did going bareback change your experiences in the lifestyle, good or bad, assuming you havent been a bareback couple since inception. Thanks for the info

[good times]

Originally Posted by foozballnow

For those of you that do go bareback with other couples, be it on a regular basis or with only select people, how did you get started doing bareback? Was it always something you have done since you entered the lifestyle, or something that came over time and experience?

Like a lot of people just getting started in the lifestyle, when we first started we just assumed everyone would use condoms. As it happened our first couple of full swaps we did just that. Then we met a couple that we really wanted to hook up with and they refused to play with anyone who used condoms. I then started researching STD's for a couple hours a day and after about 2-3 months of research decided that for the types of STD's we were worried about, condoms were all but useless. We also had the problem of Mrs, GT still being fertile at the time though, so at that time we would only play with couples bareback that the husband was fixed, like myself. Then after swinging for a couple of years Mrs. GT had to have an operation and it turned out that the doctor could tie her tubes at the same time. Now since we have no worries regarding pregnancy we only use condoms with those couples that request us to.

Originally Posted by foozballnow

Also, where does the mini-community of bareback swingers tend to ejaculate? Do couples have rules about that or is it generally just done inside the woman?

I wouldn't say it is a mini-community as well over 50% of the swingers we know either will never play using condoms or consider it optional and only do it when requested. Generally we ejaculate inside the woman.

Originally Posted by foozballnow

Last, how did going bareback change your experiences in the lifestyle, good or bad, assuming you havent been a bareback couple since inception. Thanks for the info

That is a hard question to answer, sex without condoms is definitely better, but it usually isn't a deciding factor when choosing our playmates. The only time it makes any difference to us is if their are two equally desirable couples to play with and we had to choose one or the other. In that case, we would choose the one who do not require condoms over the one that requires them.

[screaminggood]

We have fantasies that require bareback...we just haven't found the right people yet.

[tribbles]

Originally Posted by foozballnow View Post
For those of you that do go bareback with other couples, be it on a regular basis or with only select people, how did you get started doing bareback? Was it always something you have done since you entered the lifestyle, or something that came over time and experience?

We met a number of couples who were fun but a bit older than us. They had more experience in the LS and they didn't use condoms. We looked up what condoms were protecting us from and now, we use them if people want and don't use them if others don't want to.

Also, where does the mini-community of bareback swingers tend to ejaculate? Do couples have rules about that or is it generally just done inside the woman?

We have not met any who go bareback who have rules about it. Often inside the woman but mouths are still fun and sometimes on breasts.

Last, how did going bareback change your experiences in the lifestyle, good or bad, assuming you havent been a bareback couple since inception.

It lets us play with people who don't use condoms. That has been fun.

Our lastest thoughts on the risks are this: Evel Knievel died of natural causes.

[JP51]

We tend to ride bareback since we only play with a little group of close friends. We are not much of the club goers, or house parties types so we have a closer relationships where we "appear" to have a reduced risk. Yea I know it is a appearance but not a fact of the math so to speak. We do use condoms when it makes the other couple feel better and relaxed. I have noticed after time that the closer you get to others the less condoms are used as everyone gets more relaxed about the whole thing.

Oh well this topic is always one that causes me to

[foozballnow]

we havent been in the situation where someone preferred not to use condoms. All the people we have been with have been condom only people. Thats fine with us. I just see a lot of people talking about how they dont use them and i was trying to figure how we hadn't run into that.

[Randies']

We have both had sergical procedures that will forever keep us from having more children.

That being said, I (mrs.Randies') greatly perfer the full feeling I get from bareback. Condoms kind of turn me off a bit.

[rachan]

We are selective in our partners and have been doing this for over 5 years and prefer not to use condoms except for anal. We have a doctor that we go to and we are tested for stds. I know it's risky but it's our preference.

[fun4Ds]

we prefer no condoms, we would use them with anyone we don't know well. like at a club or such. but we do like to know play partners well enough to go with out.

if its a case of them asking for me to wear one, then its only fair that the other male wear one also. we had a couple that felt that since Mrs.fun is safe .. it was for him, oh goody he didn't have to wear one. but wanted me to wear one because his wife wasn't safe. thats just wrong. if i wear one so do you.

[xxoticangel]

If we're playing bareback I/we prefer to cum deep inside the woman. I really love that part. If we're covered I prefer to finish my partner orally or have him cum on my back/stomach depending on the position. Having a partner finish inside a condom takes something from the expierence.

[Wildthingplus]

My husband and I started the lifestyle using condoms. I really didn’t enjoy sex with condoms as I am deathly allergic to latex and the other kind are uncomfortable. So, I investigated the risks of not using condoms. I found that condoms don’t really protect much against STDs; I started not using condoms about 10 years ago with no problems.
My experience in most of the clubs my husband and I go to is that over 50% do not use condoms.

As for where to allow ejaculation, couples have their own rules, but I only allow for ejaculation inside me – anywhere else just isn’t for me.

Since I stopped using condoms I enjoy the lifestyle a lot more.

[couplewanting50]

Originally Posted by foozballnow

For those of you that do go bareback with other couples, be it on a regular basis or with only select people, how did you get started doing bareback? Was it always something you have done since you entered the lifestyle, or something that came over time and experience?

It is a very natural thing. Spontaneous. Real.

Also, where does the mini-community of bareback swingers tend to ejaculate? Do couples have rules about that or is it generally just done inside the woman?

Inside the woman. Again, natural.

[ShellyM]

We no longer do bareback at all because I have had issues with recurrent UTI's and my urologist said that I need to have other men glove up; sorry, TMI!! LOL. Condoms have always been a rule of ours but we have had friends that we allowed bareback play with. Anyways lol. I know with me men have always been gentlemen. I don't think I have had anyone yet that just assumed he could cum inside my body. They asked me where and I said my stomach and it has always been obliged. We have had very good luck in that we have always pretty much played with couples that are very friendly and obliging to our requests during play.

[meandher2go]

I always glove up and i DO prefer to cum on a girls bellie then. besides the map of hawaii looks great on there or her back....

[bigjoehd]

Originally Posted by tribbles

Our lastest thoughts on the risks are this: Evel Knievel died of natural causes.

Best line ive heard in a long time.