For those who dont use condoms

[SheLovesTheSun]

My boyfriend and I've discussed this thoroughly. While we do not use condomns when together, we will be requiring if and when we're with other people. There's too much risk, even if someone is tested regularly. Sometimes the std doesn't show up immediately. Sorry, but I"ve seen what can happen when a person gets a std. I'm going to reduce that chance as much as possible.

[carrysmith]

we allways use 100% with other couples, the thought of catchin a deasises scares the hellout of us!...the we go to hardly anybody usses condoms & we've heard of several dieases & many pregnancys, as we foundout most couples at the club have 4 & 5kids i wounder why? Hmmmmmm.

[xxxboxy]

I'd recommend that you find a new group of friends to hang out with.

[ggymm]

I dont like comdoms. But some questions scares me when other men could cum inside my wife. I will not like to penetrate her to feel a lot of "strange" cum filling her vagina. Nor go down on her to swallow another man ejaculate.
Nor even fingering her.

[Professor_Zoom]

I prefer bareback. But If I don't know you, I'm wearing a condom. I had a threesome with a couple I knew, and I knew that they were exclusive to each other. So when the wife said she prefered that I not wear a condom, I didn't mind.

[Shelia]

I don,t like condom,but for safety reason we use them
Shelia

[slevin]

Originally Posted by xxxboxy

I'd recommend that you find a new group of friends to hang out with.

Yes, I have to be honest: I am wondering why carry is still swinging. If I'd been exposed to all of the drama and fucked up stuff they've posted about we would have been done with swinging long ago.

Fortunately none of that has been our experience

[couplers]

No condoms for us. I am on the pill and have sex with only my husband and boyfriend who is monogamous. Hubby has sex with a few other women, but it has been only with women I have known fairly well to very well. Part of the process (it has actually become part of a extended, exciting ritual now) is that I search for, recruit, and screen potential sex partners for hubby. After the initial interest from her and discussing them with hubby, I keep her talking with me about sex over a period of time to confirm she is healthy, on birth control and won't create a lot of drama. We all, both girls and boys, enjoy ejaculation inside our vaginas too much to consider otherwise.

[bbarnsworth]

Originally Posted by slevin

Yes, I have to be honest: I am wondering why carry is still swinging. If I'd been exposed to all of the drama and fucked up stuff they've posted about we would have been done with swinging long ago.

Fortunately none of that has been our experience

Carry's experiences as posted here have no connection to the reality in swinging we have experienced, nor the reality we see others posting about here. Diseases rampant? No. Unintended pregnancies? No (only read of one here). Drugs put in people's drink? It happens in real life, and has nothing to do with swinging itself. Men suddenly wanting to have sex with the husband unannounced? Er, no.

None of this adds up to any sort of swinging setting I've even remotely heard of.

[HardTongue]

Quite a lengthy thread and some very good posts. However, most all of them refer.to the prevention of SDS, and few mention the advantages of bareback sex. For one thing my wife loves the feel of another mans cock when it spurts cum deep inside her cunt and I love the sight, smell, and yes taste of her cum filled pussy. It is also a turn on when she has fucked another man and returns to me for another dance and tells me to guess what is running down her thighs. Needless to say I get to confirm what it is when I kiss her and taste the other fellows cock and cum on her lips.

We started many years ago, way before the AIDs scare and Mary has always fucked her lovers bareback. Condoms were never an issue as she was on the pill and after she started to take lovers she knew how much of a turn on it was for me to have her return from a date with a smile on her face, cock on hjer breath and cum in her cunt. It just wouldn't be the same if she returned from a date an the only taste I got from her cunt was latex.. Would love to hear more from others that find bareback a turn on. ht6977@yahoo.omm

[SheLovesTheSun]

My boyfriend and I don't use condoms when we're together. But there's too much risk not to use a condom when with others. Yes, bareback does feel good, but it's not worth the risk.

[SecretAsianMan]

Originally Posted by HardTongue

Quite a lengthy thread and some very good posts. However, most all of them refer.to the prevention of SDS, and few mention the advantages of bareback sex. For one thing my wife loves the feel of another mans cock when it spurts cum deep inside her cunt and I love the sight, smell, and yes taste of her cum filled pussy. It is also a turn on when she has fucked another man and returns to me for another dance and tells me to guess what is running down her thighs. Needless to say I get to confirm what it is when I kiss her and taste the other fellows cock and cum on her lips.

We started many years ago, way before the AIDs scare and Mary has always fucked her lovers bareback. Condoms were never an issue as she was on the pill and after she started to take lovers she knew how much of a turn on it was for me to have her return from a date with a smile on her face, cock on hjer breath and cum in her cunt. It just wouldn't be the same if she returned from a date an the only taste I got from her cunt was latex.. Would love to hear more from others that find bareback a turn on. ht6977@yahoo.omm

In an ideal situation ... yes, doing it bareback is definately preferred.

[rick181au]

When we started swinging it was bare back all the time, the wife had her tubes tied when she was 30 and we did not start swinging until we were 35. We have adjusted our still of swinging as time goes on so we have gone bare back all the time (we have not used a condom since I was a teen).

As we got older we decided to stop swinging as it was just too much bother trying to meet compatible couples where you could have a lasting relationship after the initial lust wore off and it was just getting to risky meeting new people all the time, we decided to stick with M F M threesomes, the wife surprised me when she said that she would like to form a relationship with a married guy or two as their was less risk of them straying and more chance of them remaining clean as they had to go home to their wife, (I thought she would have had a problem going with another woman’s husband behind his wife’s back) but not so. That’s the way we have been doing it for 10 or so years now, all up we have been in the scene for 25 + years and have not caught an STD, I think we have been careful, “and lucky!

A woman (X swinging) friend of ours caught Herpes last year and that has put the wind up us a bit and we have decided to just stick with the people we know from now on and not go looking for new partners anymore. I think 25 years has been a pretty good run and we have been married over 40 years.

[RDfnd]

The bareback issue always seems to be a debatable one from both sides. Especially since it seems to be the norm for unprotected oral which carries enough risk that some would argue, once that occurs F on M in particular, why bother for penetration.

On another note, feeling MFM's with cheating husbands is OK is difficult to understand? Probably a discussion for a different thread.

R

[Menage_a_Trois]

We have been in the lifestyle for several years. This is a subject that we have discussed many times with people over the years. It is actually makes for great conversation. We have found that with most people that insist on condom use, when they talk one on one it really comes down to territorial issues(and insecurity). They always say it is for protection against STD's and I am sure to a small degree that is true. However they also say some other things that really boils down to some territorial issues such as some of the following....." I don't want another man's sperm inside my wife", " I don't want my husband sharing his seed with another woman, that belongs to me", I don't want another man's cum inside me", and "with a condom there really isn't actual skin to skin contact inside of her, we only want skin to skin between the two of us, we think that is just too intimate. With a condom on then this isn't an issue". These are just a few of the ones we have heard over the years. But most when in a non playing situation and just having conversation will admit to this being a huge factor. Some have even gone so far as to say that the "only playing safe" was just an easier way of dealing with the situation without having to go into any reason. Some couples have said it really wasn't a subject that they discussed much past "we will use condoms with everyone else" because of not really wanting another man ejaculating inside of her or vise versa. That it was just widely accepted without question because of STD protection. Like I said when I started this it can make for some very interesting conversation, notice I said CONVERSATION, not converting, arguing or debating. Just good old fashion conversation.

Just my two cents,
Tom