Snap Judgments and Heartless Responses.

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by Merric

so keep screaming “urban myth” all you like because again facts remain facts and aren’t dependent on your belief.

There may very well be folks out there who are into this sort of thing... Then again - you linked to a porn site. Now, do you really think that what you see on porn sites are real? That women want sex with the pizza delivery guy who shows up with a "Big Sausage Pizza" or that "My Best Friends Mom" just happens to be a woman who has already performed in well over 200 porn flicks?

I hardly think that this would pass as "evidence" - but considering your approach to "theology", I am not surprised that you might.

Truth is, I am sure that these things occur - that this kink exists. I tend to think that the folks who post here about it are either trolls, liars or completely confused about what swinging really is. But that doesn't mean such things don't happen.

It is still fucked up, though. :rollseyes

Spoomonkey

[havefuninsun]

Why do you find it so important to educate us judgmental people?

I find the concept of breeding parties sick. That is my personal opinion. No number of words will make me feel differently.

Any subject that would require 12452 words on a bb (first post) to try to convince others that the subject manner is NOT sick is sick.

I have no problem with people being judgmental. I think ALL people are judgmental if the subject hits a spot with them. Think of how many people would be judgmental of my extracurricular activities. Guess what? I don't try to convince people otherwise. I don't really CARE what others think. Why do you care what we think about your activities?

[lovinher]

I hate to think where humanity would be if societies throughout human development were not judgmental in some way.

[fun4Ds]

merric, im still folowing this, and maby....

i just don't understand all i know about it.

your pretty cool . thanks

[swinger5]

Geez, it just goes to show that there are really, REALLY, a lot more people out in the world that are wierder than me!!! Seriously!

[fun4Ds]

Originally Posted by swinger5

Geez, it just goes to show that there are really, REALLY, a lot more people out in the world that are wierder than me!!! Seriously!

being different doesn't necessarily mean weird. well OK maybe weird and different, co-exists.

Mrs.fun has said and at times,and mentioned that what other people feel sexually doesn't freak me out. lots of things i don't find sexual, and to some degree might even turn my stomach or make me angry. at least i know my place. what i like or don't like.

i don't see Merric's post as someone trying to convince me that i should agree.to me, she knows who she is, where she is. how she feels and why.that deserves some merit.

[ourrockstarlife]

I have to say that I have forgotten the purpose of this thread..........

[MRnMSbhaven]

roflmao

Ms. B

[LikeMinds321]

Merric ~

When I come across long-winded posts like yours, it becomes apparent early on if they contain any original thinking, and if any of the writer’s practical experience stands behind it.

On reading your posts I was reminded of a young man I knew in college who, after writing a very long paper for class, proudly asked me to read it. It was filled with statements from many sources he had researched, yet there was no fresh thought of his own to be found. Disconnected, wandering, and contradictory in places, it sadly lacked. He was so proud of it. I could see that copying other’s words made him feel empowered, worldly, and bright.


Based on your introduction post here from April 2006 I have to ask, have you and your SO ever been involved in swinging?

If you are not speaking from experience as a swinger, have never included swinging with your SO as part of your life, you are a man on the outside looking in. Until you live as a swinger, you can’t know it as those of us who post - and are swingers - understand swinging in the real sense.

Asking swingers to embrace some sexual activity and then, if they don’t, accusing them of being “heartless” and making “snap judgments” tells me that you have no clue about swingers. I see nothing real in your ramblings as a self-proclaimed “theologian of amateur standing” other than a man who has made erudition his hobby. You are pontificating theories and bombarding us with a blather of stuff that has little or no relevance to living life as a swinger.

LM

[meandher2go]

what a tool for posting that (original poster)

[fun4Ds]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

Asking swingers to embrace some sexual activity and then, if they don’t, accusing them of being “heartless” and making “snap judgments” tells me that you have no clue about swingers. I see nothing real in your ramblings as a self-proclaimed “theologian of amateur standing” other than a man who has made erudition his hobby. You are pontificating theories and bombarding us with a blather of stuff that has little or no relevance to living life as a swinger.

LM

i find this thread interesting, i think there is an underlying twist to all of this.maybe I'm wrong? but i would find a conversation with merric even more interesting.

[sweet_tna]

So lemme' get this straight. Those of us who agreed with Spoomonkey and the other posters who do not fully embrace or at least condone the whole breeding thing (or any other sexual fetish or preference) are betraying the ideals of the swing lifestyle and are just as judgemental as "everyone else"?

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

And you know what - I am entitled to my opinion about it.

As is everyone else who you quoted in your post.

Spoomonkey

If that's the case, call me a chimp and kick me off the board.

[tscpl]

We just think that swinging was meant to be a pleasurable activity between
consenting adults.We are not participating any activity for breeding purposes whatsover.We are happy to be empty nestors.Thats our 02 cents worth!

[fun4Ds]

Originally Posted by Merric

Snap Judgments and Heartless Responses.

QUOTE] because just as swinger mores don’t coincide with societies, despite there’s no true difference, between swinger and breeder activities as I hope to prove.

Why?

[havefuninsun]

This thread just needs to retire.