Poll For Women Regarding Condoms

lookingfornow · 10-20-2006, 12:16 PM

Most serious swinging couples have well developed rules regarding safe sex practices, condom use, etc. And there are plenty of threads discussing the differing views on using or not using condoms. However, we have run into a few couples who have profiles claiming they are a safe sex only couples only to find out that the rule is "more of a guideline" (sort of like how some couples say that they will not play at the first meeting). This has us wondering:

Ladies how you really, really feel about condom use and swinging.

lookingfornow · 10-21-2006, 05:38 PM

ShellyM · 10-21-2006, 07:54 PM

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Originally Posted by lookingfornow

Most serious swinging couples have well developed rules regarding safe sex practices, condom use, etc. And there are plenty of threads discussing the differing views on using or not using condoms. However, we have run into a few couples who have profiles claiming they are a safe sex only couples only to find out that the rule is "more of a guideline" (sort of like how some couples say that they will not play at the first meeting). This has us wondering:

Ladies how you really, really feel about condom use and swinging.

I feel like this. If I don't know the couple, or trust the couple, I need a condom. Once we have established a relationship its different completely, and okay to go bareback. I don't personally like the feel of them, but for safety reasons I prefer them because of safety reasons.

Tybee Swing · 10-22-2006, 11:40 AM

I voted for the second choice: "I get turned on feeling a man cuming in me, but it NEVER happens when we swing because we ALWAYS use condoms."

However, I would have worded this differently or voted "other". Feeling a man cumming in me is fine, but that's not the big deal, it's not the big difference between condom use and non-condom use. The REAL difference, the thing that's missed with condom use, is the skin-on-skin feeling, the feel of a real cock in me vs. the feel of a rubber. It's not about his cum, it's about the friction of a real cock. The condom has a real cock in it, of course, but it just doesn't feel the same. Not that it doesn't still feel good, it does. Just not AS good.

We use condoms always for intercourse in swinging, no exceptions. However, it always feels a lot better with my husband.

nice_cpl_n_bama · 10-22-2006, 08:16 PM

For Laurie and I All of our profiles say "safe sex always." The truth is she loves getting cream pied and I think it's sexy too. Currently there are two couples we know we would consider doing the bareback thing with and one we NEVER would.
The NEVER couple are nice people, but the first time we ever played with them, when we didn't really know much about them the lady tried to talk me into bare-backing her. We'd barely met and she was ready to go first time. If she's willing to do that then it must be policy so NEVER with them.
The two couples who we would consider it in the future are FAR more careful. One is never going to do bareback with us because that's an intimacy they save for marriage.
In that case the reason we'd be willing to go bare with them is the exact reason why it will never happen.

The other couple is also very careful about safe sex but mentioned that they do make exceptions for couples they know well after getting to know them well enough to discuss sexual histories. We really like them and if that discussion of history went well we would probably make that exception for them.
Jeff & Laurie

HappyPeople · 10-22-2006, 08:18 PM

Condoms only, no execptions.

lookingfornow · 10-31-2006, 03:06 PM

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View Poll Results: Ladies: How do you really, really feel about condom use and swinging?
Feeling the guy cum in me is not much of a turn on, and it NEVER happens when we play because we ALWAYS use condoms.	8	10.53%
I get turned on feeling a man cuming in me, but it NEVER happens when we swing because we ALWAYS use condoms.	15	19.74%
Feeling the man cum doesn't matter to me, and it rarely happens when we swing because we mostly use condoms.	5	6.58%
I enjoy feeling the man cum in me, but it happens rarely when we swing because we mostly use condoms.	12	15.79%
I am OK having the guy cum in me, but I know the guys like it; So we allow it about 50% of the time.	0	0%
I really enjoy feeling the guy cum in me, and I play bareback about 50% of the time.	2	2.63%
I really, really love feeling the guy cum in me and play bareback whenever possible!	11	14.47%
Feeling the guy cum in me is the biggest turn on for me, and I won't play unless it is bareback.	1	1.32%
I'm a guy, and I just want to see the results.	22	28.95%
Voters: 76. You may not vote on this poll

10-20-2006, 12:16 PM	#1 (permalink)
lookingfornow Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 155 Location: N.E.Ohio Status: Couple SLS Name:lookingfornow	Poll For Women Regarding Condoms Most serious swinging couples have well developed rules regarding safe sex practices, condom use, etc. And there are plenty of threads discussing the differing views on using or not using condoms. However, we have run into a few couples who have profiles claiming they are a safe sex only couples only to find out that the rule is "more of a guideline" (sort of like how some couples say that they will not play at the first meeting). This has us wondering: Ladies how you really, really feel about condom use and swinging.

10-21-2006, 05:38 PM	#2 (permalink)
lookingfornow Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 155 Location: N.E.Ohio Status: Couple SLS Name:lookingfornow	Re: Poll For Women Regarding Condoms bump

10-22-2006, 11:40 AM	#4 (permalink)
Tybee Swing wild at heart Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 1,837 Location: coastal Georgia Status: couple	Re: Poll For Women Regarding Condoms I voted for the second choice: "I get turned on feeling a man cuming in me, but it NEVER happens when we swing because we ALWAYS use condoms." However, I would have worded this differently or voted "other". Feeling a man cumming in me is fine, but that's not the big deal, it's not the big difference between condom use and non-condom use. The REAL difference, the thing that's missed with condom use, is the skin-on-skin feeling, the feel of a real cock in me vs. the feel of a rubber. It's not about his cum, it's about the friction of a real cock. The condom has a real cock in it, of course, but it just doesn't feel the same. Not that it doesn't still feel good, it does. Just not AS good. We use condoms always for intercourse in swinging, no exceptions. However, it always feels a lot better with my husband.

10-22-2006, 08:16 PM	#5 (permalink)
nice_cpl_n_bama Where's the party! Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 198 Location: Huntsville, AL Status: Couple SLS Name:nice_cpl_n_bama	Re: Poll For Women Regarding Condoms For Laurie and I All of our profiles say "safe sex always." The truth is she loves getting cream pied and I think it's sexy too. Currently there are two couples we know we would consider doing the bareback thing with and one we NEVER would. The NEVER couple are nice people, but the first time we ever played with them, when we didn't really know much about them the lady tried to talk me into bare-backing her. We'd barely met and she was ready to go first time. If she's willing to do that then it must be policy so NEVER with them. The two couples who we would consider it in the future are FAR more careful. One is never going to do bareback with us because that's an intimacy they save for marriage. In that case the reason we'd be willing to go bare with them is the exact reason why it will never happen. The other couple is also very careful about safe sex but mentioned that they do make exceptions for couples they know well after getting to know them well enough to discuss sexual histories. We really like them and if that discussion of history went well we would probably make that exception for them. Jeff & Laurie __________________ FATAL ERROR: WITTY LINE NOT FOUND (A)bort, (R)etry, (F)ail

10-22-2006, 08:18 PM	#6 (permalink)
HappyPeople Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 390 Location: Tampa	Re: Poll For Women Regarding Condoms Condoms only, no execptions.

10-31-2006, 03:06 PM	#7 (permalink)
lookingfornow Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 155 Location: N.E.Ohio Status: Couple SLS Name:lookingfornow	Re: Poll For Women Regarding Condoms bump

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