Poll For Women Regarding Condoms

[lookingfornow]

Most serious swinging couples have well developed rules regarding safe sex practices, condom use, etc. And there are plenty of threads discussing the differing views on using or not using condoms. However, we have run into a few couples who have profiles claiming they are a safe sex only couples only to find out that the rule is "more of a guideline" (sort of like how some couples say that they will not play at the first meeting). This has us wondering:

Ladies how you really, really feel about condom use and swinging.

[lookingfornow]

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[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by lookingfornow

Most serious swinging couples have well developed rules regarding safe sex practices, condom use, etc. And there are plenty of threads discussing the differing views on using or not using condoms. However, we have run into a few couples who have profiles claiming they are a safe sex only couples only to find out that the rule is "more of a guideline" (sort of like how some couples say that they will not play at the first meeting). This has us wondering:

Ladies how you really, really feel about condom use and swinging.

I feel like this. If I don't know the couple, or trust the couple, I need a condom. Once we have established a relationship its different completely, and okay to go bareback. I don't personally like the feel of them, but for safety reasons I prefer them because of safety reasons.

[Tybee Swing]

I voted for the second choice: "I get turned on feeling a man cuming in me, but it NEVER happens when we swing because we ALWAYS use condoms."

However, I would have worded this differently or voted "other". Feeling a man cumming in me is fine, but that's not the big deal, it's not the big difference between condom use and non-condom use. The REAL difference, the thing that's missed with condom use, is the skin-on-skin feeling, the feel of a real cock in me vs. the feel of a rubber. It's not about his cum, it's about the friction of a real cock. The condom has a real cock in it, of course, but it just doesn't feel the same. Not that it doesn't still feel good, it does. Just not AS good.

We use condoms always for intercourse in swinging, no exceptions. However, it always feels a lot better with my husband.

[nice_cpl_n_bama]

For Laurie and I All of our profiles say "safe sex always." The truth is she loves getting cream pied and I think it's sexy too. Currently there are two couples we know we would consider doing the bareback thing with and one we NEVER would.
The NEVER couple are nice people, but the first time we ever played with them, when we didn't really know much about them the lady tried to talk me into bare-backing her. We'd barely met and she was ready to go first time. If she's willing to do that then it must be policy so NEVER with them.
The two couples who we would consider it in the future are FAR more careful. One is never going to do bareback with us because that's an intimacy they save for marriage.
In that case the reason we'd be willing to go bare with them is the exact reason why it will never happen.
The other couple is also very careful about safe sex but mentioned that they do make exceptions for couples they know well after getting to know them well enough to discuss sexual histories. We really like them and if that discussion of history went well we would probably make that exception for them.
Jeff & Laurie

[HappyPeople]

Condoms only, no execptions.

[lookingfornow]

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