Guys taking condoms off part way through?!

Amanda69 · 08-07-2006, 07:37 PM

We were at a party on the weekend and we got chatting with a few couples. One of the ladies was giving some advice on the use of condoms.

She told us that her husband had told her to always check to make sure that the person you are with keeps their condom on. Apparently it is a known tactic for males to switch position or just pull out for a second and remove the condom unknown to their partner.

She said over the years she caught one male attempt this. To say the least that evening ended early.

Anyone else hear of or experience this??

Chris&Amelia · 08-07-2006, 08:57 PM

I've had, on times, the condom slide off accidentally when I switch positions. But I always tell my partner (everybody gets a good laugh out of it) and I re-apply the condom.

Playing Devil's Advocate: Are we sure it was done intentionally?

Amanda69 · 08-08-2006, 06:10 PM

Yes it was, the guy really wanted to have sex bareback but she said no. He was trying to slip one past her so to speak.

meandher2go · 08-08-2006, 06:54 PM

that guy would never do THAT again if we caught him doing that while with MY wife. it wouldn't be pretty.

JTcamp05 · 08-09-2006, 03:32 AM

Yes some men arn't so trustworthy...... This happened to us once .....luckely my wife caught it quickly and said "what the #### happened to the condom"....he acted supprised and appologized said over and over he didn't know..... well he didn't get taken care of that night...

A man can tell if its on or not.......period..... We don't get involved with people we don't trust or just meet...too many things like this happen anymore

StacyCat · 08-09-2006, 07:42 PM

I know my lifestyle can be dangerous sexually. I have much better sex with guys that know that protection is best, if guys ask for bareback having not been in a long relationship with me, then I probably would not have sex with that person.

rachan · 08-10-2006, 04:43 AM

The wife prefers sex without condoms but our threesome partner used condoms for a while and after we got tested and were comfortable and felt safe no more condoms. We have a new friend and he's been using condoms but he's been checked so this weekend the condoms may go.

Andy

Amanda69 · 08-10-2006, 07:39 AM

So as of the moment they were checked they were fine but how do you know they will never have sex with anyone else in the mean time bareback??? and please don't tell me that "because they said so." Famous last words of many a person in a "allegedly solid", relationship.

People do cheat, fact of life, people do cheat without condoms on because they were drunk, in a rush, in a car, because the other person said it was okay etc....

Have fun and play safe....

kush2112 · 08-10-2006, 10:58 AM

there is not way to tell, at least until you can find someone that you can really trust.

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08-07-2006, 07:37 PM	#1 (permalink)
Amanda69 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 907 Location: Mississauga, ON Canada Status: couple	Guys taking condoms off part way through?! We were at a party on the weekend and we got chatting with a few couples. One of the ladies was giving some advice on the use of condoms. She told us that her husband had told her to always check to make sure that the person you are with keeps their condom on. Apparently it is a known tactic for males to switch position or just pull out for a second and remove the condom unknown to their partner. She said over the years she caught one male attempt this. To say the least that evening ended early. Anyone else hear of or experience this??
	__________________ Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself. "Harvey Fierstein"

08-07-2006, 08:57 PM	#2 (permalink)
Chris&Amelia Don't poke an eye out! Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 1,450 Location: Pennsylvania - The Poconos Status: The C of C&A Swing Lifestyle Name:PA_Panache	Re: Starting with Condom..then...!! I've had, on times, the condom slide off accidentally when I switch positions. But I always tell my partner (everybody gets a good laugh out of it) and I re-apply the condom. Playing Devil's Advocate: Are we sure it was done intentionally?

08-08-2006, 06:10 PM	#3 (permalink)
Amanda69 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 907 Location: Mississauga, ON Canada Status: couple	Re: Starting with Condom..then...!! Yes it was, the guy really wanted to have sex bareback but she said no. He was trying to slip one past her so to speak.
	__________________ Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself. "Harvey Fierstein"

08-08-2006, 06:54 PM	#4 (permalink)
meandher2go Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 307 Location: mass Status: Couple	Re: Starting with Condom..then...!! that guy would never do THAT again if we caught him doing that while with MY wife. it wouldn't be pretty.
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08-09-2006, 03:32 AM	#5 (permalink)
JTcamp05 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 285 Location: Ohio Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:JtCamp05	Re: Starting with Condom..then...!! Yes some men arn't so trustworthy...... This happened to us once .....luckely my wife caught it quickly and said "what the #### happened to the condom"....he acted supprised and appologized said over and over he didn't know..... well he didn't get taken care of that night... A man can tell if its on or not.......period..... We don't get involved with people we don't trust or just meet...too many things like this happen anymore

08-09-2006, 07:42 PM	#6 (permalink)
StacyCat Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 114 Location: Texas Status: Single Bi Female	Re: Starting with Condom..then...!! I know my lifestyle can be dangerous sexually. I have much better sex with guys that know that protection is best, if guys ask for bareback having not been in a long relationship with me, then I probably would not have sex with that person.

08-10-2006, 04:43 AM	#7 (permalink)
rachan Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 151 Location: florida Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:raekay	Re: Starting with Condom..then...!! The wife prefers sex without condoms but our threesome partner used condoms for a while and after we got tested and were comfortable and felt safe no more condoms. We have a new friend and he's been using condoms but he's been checked so this weekend the condoms may go. Andy

08-10-2006, 07:39 AM	#8 (permalink)
Amanda69 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 907 Location: Mississauga, ON Canada Status: couple	Re: Starting with Condom..then...!! So as of the moment they were checked they were fine but how do you know they will never have sex with anyone else in the mean time bareback??? and please don't tell me that "because they said so." Famous last words of many a person in a "allegedly solid", relationship. People do cheat, fact of life, people do cheat without condoms on because they were drunk, in a rush, in a car, because the other person said it was okay etc.... Have fun and play safe....
	__________________ Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself. "Harvey Fierstein"

08-10-2006, 10:58 AM	#9 (permalink)
kush2112 Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 50 Location: none of your business Status: None of your business	Re: Starting with Condom..then...!! there is not way to tell, at least until you can find someone that you can really trust.

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