V-safe

[twocandan]

I know many couples post that he's V-safe, and many like bareback.
How many use this phrase in their profile with the intention of bareback?
It only protects from pregnancy, nothing to do with being safe and healthy.
That phrase is an instant showstopper when surfing profiles, as I firmly believe that's the only reason to post V-safe, an attempt at finding bareback sex.
It's ignorant and dangerous and can be very deadly.
Just wondered how many others feel the same, or opposite (and why you feel it's OK)

[Sweet_Candy]

We dont post it but it is nice to know the other male is v-safe. Candy is still fertile and condoms are not 100% safe. For us you better sack and save if you want to play with us.

[VanHlebar]

Well we have in our profile that I am v-safe, however we aslo have in our profile that we always use protection. The reason for this, is what you just posted about. Just because I am not going to get someone pregnant (hopefully) doesn't mean that my partner is still clean. Just can't be too safe.

That being said, MrsVan and I have talked and I would love to find a couple that we are extremely comfortable with that we could go bareback with, but I don't see that happening anytime soon. She doesn't really have any desire for another male to play without a condom and I would never play without one if she was uncomforotable with me doing so.

We do not put v-safe in our ad in an effort to get couples that would allow me to play without protection.

-Van

[Spoomonkey]

V-safe is just a tidbit of info - though I get the same vibe when I see it. I tend to shrug it off, though because I know that is a bit of an assumption on my part.

As Candy and Van have stated, there could be other reasons why people point that fact out. I am V-safe, but we rarely play without condoms. We certainly aren't "fishing" for that - it just happens with couples we feel very comfortable with. But, when it does happen, that is one less thing to fret over...

Spoomonkey

[Mr. Better Half]

Originally Posted by twocandan

That phrase is an instant showstopper when surfing profiles, as I firmly believe that's the only reason to post V-safe, an attempt at finding bareback sex.

I agree with Spoomonkey; we just ignore the phrase when we see it in others' profiles. We don't post it in our profile because it doesn't seem useful. But it may, IMO, be inaccurate to say categorically that if someone says it in their profile, they are trying to find bareback sex.

[VanHlebar]

You know up until this thread I never even gave it much thought. Now you people have me wondering if we should remove it from our profile. We don't play without condoms and are not searching for that at all.. now I need to think

-Van

[djjwp]

We post it and it is NOT for bareback. She is not on the pill and condoms can fail. We are telling it in hopes that we find other males who are V safe in case of an opps and well as to let them know if mine failed, there would be no little issue running around later. We never do unprotected sex and having been military and her medical, we are tested safe and plan to stay that way.

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by djjwp

We post it and it is NOT for bareback....

Same here.

If I were still able to become pregnant (I'm past menopause) I would feel all the better knowing that the man I am having sex with couldn't get me pregnant if the condom failed.

I've never considered that those who mention being V-safe are hinting at playing bareback.

LM

[TerryforSex]

V-safe.....guys do lie.....

[TheSwingerSet]

We have it in some of our profiles, (they are not the same on every site) and we have no intention of ever going bare back! we mention it as "we are snipped and tied" to add to the comfort level of those who are not. Condoms do fail, not long ago I had one break and knowing that I am "V-safe" saved the evening for the young lady and I.

We also get tested every 3 to 6 months for every STD and we keep the proof of our statis in my wallet in case someone wants to see.

Typing this brought to mind that I have seen this question before, and at that time it made me think that so many of us have "D/D free" in our profiles and I have never heard that that phrase made people wonder if those useing that were looking for bareback?

K