How do H Couples meet other H Couples?

liskiti · 01-26-2006, 04:06 AM

Mrs. Liskiti and I both have had herpes for many years. We want to explore the lifestyle but we also want to be responsible and swing only with other H couples. (I really hate the terms "swingers" and "the lifestyle" but I guess that's another thread.) We would much rather meet other folks in a club setting than by personal ads, but it doesn't seem like it would be much fun to wear a big H button or introduce ourselves with "hi we have herpes".

To the 1/4 or so of you out there who have herpes: how do you meet other H couples? I suppose one could start a club for H swingers, but I hate exclusive clubs.

sexyshelby · 01-26-2006, 10:55 AM

Welcome to the board. I can't really offer you any advice, sorry.

But I would like to applaud you for your efforts to "swing" resonsibly.

Hopefully others will have some advice for you. All I can say is, good luck.
Hope you stick around to let us know how it goes.

~SS

Spoomonkey · 01-26-2006, 07:32 PM

I think in the club setting it would be very tough. I mean, that is some fairly personal information and you wouldn't want to share that right away. Share it with the wrong couple and you might as well wear that H button...

I would respectfully say that personal ads may be the safest, most discreet way to go.

If you said to us "we have herpes" we'd thank you for your honesty, explain that we don't and then treat you as friends. But, we have learned the hard way that there are folks at most clubs who aren't nearly so understanding.

Spoomonkey

imsnowman · 01-26-2006, 08:29 PM

Check this group. Herpes Swingers

just1gurl · 02-12-2006, 05:08 PM

applause all round for your thoughtfulness.

SnowWolf · 02-20-2006, 02:01 AM

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Originally Posted by liskiti

Mrs. Liskiti and I both have had herpes for many years. We want to explore the lifestyle but we also want to be responsible and swing only with other H couples. (I really hate the terms "swingers" and "the lifestyle" but I guess that's another thread.) We would much rather meet other folks in a club setting than by personal ads, but it doesn't seem like it would be much fun to wear a big H button or introduce ourselves with "hi we have herpes".

To the 1/4 or so of you out there who have herpes: how do you meet other H couples? I suppose one could start a club for H swingers, but I hate exclusive clubs.

HI Mrs Liskiti I have been wondering about this question as well...maybe to one day find an answer...thank you for posting this here.

SW

imsnowman · 02-20-2006, 08:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SnowWolf

HI Mrs Liskiti I have been wondering about this question as well...maybe to one day find an answer...thank you for posting this here.

SW

See my post above.

SnowWolf · 02-22-2006, 12:07 AM

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Originally Posted by imsnowman

See my post above.

yeh I did check it out and trying to become a member there....

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01-26-2006, 04:06 AM	#1 (permalink)
liskiti Registered User Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 1 Location: Bainbridge Island, WA Status: Couple	How do H Couples meet other H Couples? Mrs. Liskiti and I both have had herpes for many years. We want to explore the lifestyle but we also want to be responsible and swing only with other H couples. (I really hate the terms "swingers" and "the lifestyle" but I guess that's another thread.) We would much rather meet other folks in a club setting than by personal ads, but it doesn't seem like it would be much fun to wear a big H button or introduce ourselves with "hi we have herpes". To the 1/4 or so of you out there who have herpes: how do you meet other H couples? I suppose one could start a club for H swingers, but I hate exclusive clubs.

01-26-2006, 10:55 AM	#2 (permalink)
sexyshelby It's not easy being easy. Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 2,012 Location: In Bed Status: Person	Re: How do H Couples meet other H Couples? Welcome to the board. I can't really offer you any advice, sorry. But I would like to applaud you for your efforts to "swing" resonsibly. Hopefully others will have some advice for you. All I can say is, good luck. Hope you stick around to let us know how it goes. ~SS __________________ What's love got to do with it?

01-26-2006, 07:32 PM	#3 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,563 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? SLS Name:Spoomonkey	Re: How do H Couples meet other H Couples? I think in the club setting it would be very tough. I mean, that is some fairly personal information and you wouldn't want to share that right away. Share it with the wrong couple and you might as well wear that H button... I would respectfully say that personal ads may be the safest, most discreet way to go. If you said to us "we have herpes" we'd thank you for your honesty, explain that we don't and then treat you as friends. But, we have learned the hard way that there are folks at most clubs who aren't nearly so understanding. Spoomonkey __________________ "Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." - C. S. Lewis

01-26-2006, 08:29 PM	#4 (permalink)
imsnowman Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 429 Location: TX Status: couple	Re: How do H Couples meet other H Couples? Check this group. Herpes Swingers

02-12-2006, 05:08 PM	#5 (permalink)
just1gurl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 183 Location: washington dc area Status: single	Re: How do H Couples meet other H Couples? applause all round for your thoughtfulness.

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