When is a condom... uh... used?

[Vespertine]

LMAO

Ya'll are too funny.

[sepacouple]

"I would consider it 'used' only after it has performed the duty for which it was intended."

Since a condom is used to prevent STD's and not just pregnancy and also since an STD could be transfered or a woman become pregnant (precum) without actual full ejaculation then I would say that a condom has "performed the duty for which it was intended" as soon as it is worn

[BodyScape02]

its a bloody ( in the british sence) bio hazard... pick it up with tongs and use clorox after...

[Mrs Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by tribbles

I even hate to see a guy open one and hand it to another.

For those who feel this way, can you say why?

As the female, I have no problem watching this and even find the cooperation between the guys to be a turn on.

Well it's great if a guy doesn't have a condom and another guy will share but does he have to unwrap it for him? Just had him the condom and let him do it.

I don't think it's good for it to be in too many hands before it's intended use.

Mrs Spoomonkey

[tribbles]

I guess I don't see a problem with guy # 1 touching it by handing it to guy #2-even out of the wrapper if it has not been unrolled yet. But then, so far I don't like the 1:1 swap stuff...I like the group stuff better....so maybe anything that hints at group cooperation gives me a little 'lift'.

What if I unwrap it and hand it to my DH to use on another woman we are both playing with? And it was just easier for me to get to the condom and cuz he was busy, I did the honors of unwrapping it? Even putting it on him? Does it feel any different -less ick or same ick factor?

This may be another one of those everyone has their own individual likes/dislikes thingy.....no real right or wrong, just what floats or sinks your boat.


S

[Mrs Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by tribbles

This may be another one of those everyone has their own individual likes/dislikes thingy.....no real right or wrong, just what floats or sinks your boat.
S

I think that is what it is. Can't always explain it, just some things kind of make you shudder at the thought

As far as unwrapping for Mr Spoo, I am usually busy with the woman's husband or if it's a single woman, keeping her occupied in other ways

Mrs Spoomonkey

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by tribbles

What if I unwrap it and hand it to my DH to use on another woman we are both playing with?

Yep - honestly - I would feel differently about that... Couldn't tell you why, really, but the scenario of my wife or female playmate unwrapping my condom and giving it to me (or putting it on me) is pretty hot...

To be honest, though, I have played many times with other men in the play room and have yet to have a guy say, "here you go, buddy" and hand me an unwrapped condom. If that happened, I say, "Thanks, but I have my own."

If he asked if I minded if he put it on me... well... *willies*

I suppose for me then a condom is used when I male touches the exposed latex of the condom - however briefly, however lightly, however casually. Once he's touched it - it is his to use, pitch or eat...

If a female touches the condom, it has more shelf life...

Now - if she rubs it on a guy's chest, plays tug of war with the guy, pulls it out of his mouth to keep him from eating it - then it is HIS condom, and quite used at that point.

A condom just kind of says penis to me...

MY condom says MY penis - and since I am all about MY penis, I'm cool with that. Someone else's condom - regardless of how fleeting the relationship between condom and wanker - says someone else's penis - which I am not particularly cool with...

Spoomonkey

[northindycpl]

To clarify.....

I have no issue with girl unwrapping condom and install on dick. I don't mind doing that taks myself, even.

There is just something about a guy unwrapping it and handing it to another guy.

[CB_n_Red]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

If he asked if I minded if he put it on me... well... *willies*

Okay.... that one left a splattering of tea all over my monitor!

So, does "willy" have the same meaning in US English slang as it does in English/British English slang?

CB

[looking2swing]

I believe that once it has been "installed" on the appropiate member, it needs to be disposed of correctly. Only one set of hands should touch the actually condom. As a female, it is kind of disgusting to think of another male touching the actually condom that will be inside of you. One female would never ask anyone to hand them their diaphram.
You should consider the condom used once it enters the female. Or another man touches it

[charms123]

All the wit on this one has mostly been played out.

I think N should offer the other male the condom if he is too stupid to remember he is to use it. She is good about that.

On the other hand, if "he" even looks at the condom, still wrapped or not, "I" considered it "used"! First up, best dressed kind of thing.

Great post.

M of M&N

[brilliantbrunet]

You people swap and do all kind of sexual things with strangers and swallow all types of body fluids and do "cream pies" and you are squeamish about a condom????

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by brilliantbrunet

You people swap and do all kind of sexual things with strangers and swallow all types of body fluids and do "cream pies" and you are squeamish about a condom????

I don't do "cream pies"

Originally Posted by CB_n_Red

So, does "willy" have the same meaning in US English slang as it does in English/British English slang?

"Willy"= American Slang for Penis.

"The Willies"= That involuntary shudder that ripples through your body when you find something "distasteful".

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by CB_n_Red

So, does "willy" have the same meaning in US English slang as it does in English/British English slang?

Actually - I didn't notice the double meaning in that...

Willy = weiner

Willies = creepy feeling



I guess willies give me the willies...

Spoomonkey

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by brilliantbrunet

You people swap and do all kind of sexual things with strangers and swallow all types of body fluids and do "cream pies" and you are squeamish about a condom????

Not ALL of us do EVERYTHING you list. Each person has different interests, different boundaries and different levels of squeamishness...

Spoomonkey