Please tell me I'm not alone in my decision to only play with condoms

[mnflower]

We wouldn't play with anyone who takes the chance of going without. What if the condom breaks, and their weren't being careful just a couple of days before you?

Allergic or not....... WOW!

An allergic reaction is mild considering the alternatives. Don't mean to be harsh, but a childhood friend just past away of AIDS complications @ 33 years old, a week ago. Of course by this time he had no legs and only weighed 89 pounds (@6'2"). He used to weigh 210. He caught it from his first male lover at 17 who swore he was clean and had papers to prove it. It wasn't so bad till about the time he turned 25.
He's not the only person we've 'known', or currently know........

Chances? More like Russian roulette, without spinning the chamber between turns.

AND rules are rules, and if one rule isn’t that important to your partner, what about the other rules?

[DBL D]

Originally Posted by Alura

Y'know, I think the problem here is not with NeverSayNever. I think it is with the internet and, more specifically, the attitude common on many message boards.

We've spent years making this board a friendly place. It disappoints me severely when folks insult others and take it personally when someone disagrees with them.

So long, NeverSayNever! I'd add "good riddance" but it is never good to lose a member who has the ability to contribute. We love reading your opinions but shrink from your attitude.

Please keep it friendly, folks. It's what sets us apart.

Mr. Alura

The other day, we had to say we were sorry to a couple..the chemistry wasn't there. We told them that we loved their intro and that they looked like a great couple who was having fun exploring but we didn't have enough chemistry. They wrote back a nice thank you saying that the consideration we gave them was sometihing they were missing on SLS...

I tried to give NeverSayNever as much consideration, if not more, than she gave us. Being a vet, I've seen lot's of other posts that looked the same but there seemed to be something underlying her post. Sorry about that NSN...she wanted a simple answer, an agreement with her, which we gave but just basically wanted to open the door for her to get more help for something if she needed it. It wasn't personal and I don't think she was a troll. She just got sensitive about a set of responses she wasn't ready for. We all get those. Sometimes we get no response which is almost the same. Hey, if Spoo or Alura doesn't respond...well, you get the point. We can't always be everything a person wants. That is why we love to have interaction of the best kind. One that invites discussion instead of turning the tables.

I think this is a great board. Not always "friendly", but there for you anyway. There are PM's available for those that want to use it. Most of us find that this board is good enough to express ourselves though.

I hope this lady reconsiders her decision; hey we all agreed with her, we just wanted to know if there was more. A simple "NO" would have sufficed.

Male D

[DBL D]

I must have missed something...Is NSN the Hubby? Didn't mean to say she was a "she" if she wasn't. My comments were really addressed to Hammerit but I don't know who is leaving.

Male D

Ok, now it is the Mr's turn to say something. It is rare that I come on this board (more interested in another non related board and spend my time there). I had not seen this until just now. Mrs Hammer showed me. I have to say you all sound a little, no a lot rough on me. Let me give you more facts! First, we never met said couple so no need to even go into what their deal was. Second, I am not the person you all make me out to be. tncinmd, no I would not throw the condoms out the window when my wifes back is turned. You do not know me so please dont ass-ume this about me! bodyscape02, no I Really, REALLY am not a me me type person and do not pout about this or any other issue. Again an ass-umption! intuition897, no I dont thank my lucky stars to have sex with other women. I have a wife and even after 10 years together we have sex 4 to 5 times a week, even if it is a "quickie" when she may not be "in the mood". Double D and Boris, well what can I say that would not get Mrs hammer thrown off here so I'll leave it alone. I just wanted to clear the air on what everyone here keeps going on about. Condoms are the rule and if we decide to play sometime, condoms it will be!! Hope this helps clear the air, or at least my name....

[intuition897]

Originally Posted by hammerit12

intuition897, no I dont thank my lucky stars to have sex with other women. I have a wife and even after 10 years together we have sex 4 to 5 times a week, even if it is a "quickie" when she may not be "in the mood".

Okay, let me rephrase that: anyone who swings should be appreciative of the fact that their spouse is open-minded enough and secure enough to allow him or her to explore his or her sexuality with other partners.

Oh, and NeverSayNever, if you're still around, I'd be interested to know what other sites you've found that are more intelligent and open-minded than this one. 'Cause I just can't seem to find any.

[DBL D]

Originally Posted by hammerit12

Double D and Boris, well what can I say that would not get Mrs hammer thrown off here so I'll leave it alone....Condoms are the rule and if we decide to play sometime, condoms it will be!! Hope this helps clear the air, or at least my name....

I can't for the life of me see that anything you can say that would get your wife thrown off this board. I agree with Inuition897 that this is a pretty open-minded board. (Have you checked out some of the others where it's just shit flung around?)

Hey man...we're tryin'

Just what is it that has got you sooo upset?

Mr Shitty...AKA: Male D