Question about Anal

[Bourbonjimbo]

Me and my girlfriend of seven years recently tried to have anal sex. When I put my penis in she said it hurt too bad, so we decided to go back to vaginal. I made sure to clean myself really well.

Now my girlfriend is telling me that she has this yellowish discharge coming from her vagina.

Does anyone know what this could be from. She was with one other person before me, and all they did was oral,I lost my virginity to her. I am not having any problems going to the bathroom, no discharge, etc.

Any help would be appreciated.

[jeff n nikki]

first did you put your cock in her vagina after your attempt at anal?? if so she probably caught a urinary and or bladder infection....the rectum is full of bacteria which thrive in the dark,warm and moist environment. the key is pre sex preperation. get a hot water bottle or nozzlebottle. get a jar of lube(if using condoms get water based as oil based may burn holes through the condom)...have her give herself(or you can give her) 3 or 4 enemas to make sure that the anal canal is free of bacteria and fecal matter. the next step is relaxation. using fingers and small to progressively larger toys(with plenty of lube) get her loosened up and well lubricated(and by this time probably horny)....fucking her doggy style while you are doing this is even better because when she is ready(well lubed,horny and most importantly ..relaxed!) slide your cock from her pussy to her at this point well receptive asshole! start slow and shallow and progressively work it in and etc etc....the rectum/anal canal is very accomodating and flexable but you still must be very careful(deep,hard, pointed strokes may not be too good for a first timer).......the main keys are preperation,lubrication and most importantly RELAXATION....no matter how well prepared, if you cant relax it will hurt!....the thing i worry about most is make sure you never reinsert your cock into her vagina after its had contact with the inside of her ass(careful with ass to mouth as well).. when it comes to sex (esp. anal) cleanliness is very important! always keep fingers,holes,cock,mouth free of potential bacteria! well i hope i helped you with your anal future and maybe to what the post anal vaginal discharge is! happy anal humping!

[jeff n nikki]

i reread your post and saw that you did reinsert in her vagina after cleaning your penis.. it still probably had bacteria on it and am guessing it is an infection.thats what dr.s are for..dont be scared to tell your doctor anything! they have heard sillier,scarier and everything in between!

[txduo2000]

Yes, this is a very common occurrence when reinserting vaginally after even a little anal penetration has taken place. I am living it right now. :rollseyes

It's not enough to just rinse really well. If you plan on going back to vaginal after trying or performing anal, you MUST wash really well with SOAP and warm water, preferably anti-bacterial soap.

This is a bacterial infection, so yeast medications won't work. Antibiotics are the sure bet, though with me, I usually just let it run it's course. The vagina has all kinds of "good" bacteria that fight away the simple bad bacteria, which is the primary reason that it's not a good idea to douche with commercial douches .... it washes out the "good" bacteria with the bad and the vagina cannot fight infection as well.

If she chooses to let it run its course, hold off on oral sex for awhile, use condoms for traditional vaginal sex, and tell her to douche (if she douches) with warm water ONLY and use Hibiclens or any other macrobial cleanser to wash that area. Usually takes about a week as long as these types of treatments are followed.

As a side note: if she is really very interested in anal, it can be very pleasurable, but the receiving person has to be VERY VERY relaxed for it to be so. When my husband and I started doing anal, I HAD to be drunk .... I could not will my mind and body to relax at all while sober. And do take the helpful hints that the previous poster suggested .... work her up to it, start with finger, small toy play to get her to relax. I can do it just fine now, but my husband and I have been together for 7 years now, so it was a process for me to be able to be sober and do it.
Or she can go to the doctor, have him examine the infection. He will most likely diagnose "bacterial vaginosis" and put her on penicillen.

[BorisNatasha]

Just to follow up on what txduo said, we agree that alcohol can actually help when it comes to anal. Natasha is always more in the mood for anal after she's had a couple of drinks.

The most important thing is to go slow. Slower than you think. Spend fifteen minutes just petting her asshole with your finger and some lube before you even insert. With Natasha, the more I play with her the more relaxed and excited she gets. If I wait too long she starts begging for it!

It's great to even insert your finger for a few minutes before you move on to intercourse. This allows the sphincter to spasm and get tired, which makes it more relaxed and easier to penetrate with larger objects.

One thing we do NOT recommend is using toys on a woman new to anal. It's much to hard to gauge the woman's comfort level in our experience. Much better to go with a finger because you can feel when she relaxes.

Just because she is liking the finger doesn't mean you can just start pumping with Mr. Happy either. When you move to intercourse, keep the pace slow. It can be hard on the guy because you are getting so excited, but you must go slow to keep your partner relaxed.

When done right it's a wonderful thing. Take your time. If you do it right she will be begging for more!

After reading all that over, Natasha wants to add that you must be in tune with the woman and pay attention especially to her facial expressions to see whether it's okay to pick up the tempo. This is one place women do not want to feel any pain!

Boris & Natasha

[Mrs Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by Bourbonjimbo

Me and my girlfriend of seven years recently tried to have anal sex. When I put my penis in she said it hurt too bad, so we decided to go back to vaginal. I made sure to clean myself really well.

Now my girlfriend is telling me that she has this yellowish discharge coming from her vagina.

Does anyone know what this could be from. She was with one other person before me, and all they did was oral,I lost my virginity to her. I am not having any problems going to the bathroom, no discharge, etc.

Any help would be appreciated.

You said you cleaned yourself really well so I am going to assume you went and used soap and water if not that could be the problem. It sounds to me like a yeast infection not uncommon and can be caused by lots of things. Women can get them from being on antibiotics. I've gotten them from our summer vacation staying in a wet bathing suit all week (moist and dark). She needs to see her OBGYN and he can give her something for it. Chances are that is all it is, either way it's an infection from something and needs a doctor and prescription to clear it up.

As for anal sex ..... the main things are relax and lots and lots of lube!!!! Alcohol to relax can help but also be careful not to get to inibreated since you need to have the control to go easy and not tear or injure her.

Good luck

Mrs Spoomonkey

[lovedoctor]

A yellowish discharge is more likely to be bacterial than yeast. She probably just needs a short course of antibiotics to clear it up. Have her see her doctor; if untreated the infection could progress. Also, I would suggest wearing a condom for anal in the future, it will protect her as you can remove it if you go from the back door to the front; and it will protect you from prostatitis.

[Carol_Danny]

It could be either a bacterial infection from anal transference, or it could be just a good ol' Yeast Infection (a vaginal discharge resulting from a yeast infection can range from white to yellow in color and may have a "cheese-like" consistency).

The best (and really only) thing to do is see your doctor. He can take a swab, and diagnose the problem. Then provide the proper medication. Tell him what happened to better assist him in his diagnosis.

[..R&M..]

i'd also vote for a bacterial infection or yeast infection. if she gets other urinary track infection symptoms and they don't go away with basic cleaning and such, she should go to the doc. as soon as possible because that can spread to her kidneys and cause major pain.

also a vaganal discharge can be a sign of pregnancy, noticed no one posted that, but of course that has nothing to do with the anal. lol

[Carol_Danny]

Whenever I have had a yellow discharge, it has always been a yeast infection. Ever since I gave birth to our third child, I get them on a semi regular basis. It is just a natural thing that happens to some women. I would check with a doctor. I always do even though I know what it is

Carol xoxoxo

[WesternSwing]

I agree with everyone here. You MUST wash with soap and water after any anal activity. Don't even insert fingers that have been in her ass into her vagina without washing.

As far as anal sex goes, get a great book called The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women by Tristen Taormino.

Mr. WS