condoms or not

supafriq · 06-03-2005, 06:14 PM

this is our first exp. im not on birthcontrol and never intend on it. I also have hang ups about rubbers cause im irritated by them. I am so like what should i do ?
My husband and our new couple are all 100% disease free. and they are on birthcontrol. we talked about my situation but never made a final decision. Im willing to use the condoms because i dont intend on getting pregnant or taking risks. But at home we dont use anything but withdrawl and it has been pretty damn successful. We do have 2 cuties we love but dont want anymore. Suggestions anyone 6-4 is the big day please respond quick.
Thank you

jennandjamesinm · 06-03-2005, 06:30 PM

CONDOMS, CONDOMS, CONDOMS!!!!!!! Unless you are 100% sure that they don't have a STD and you don't want anymore children, but don't want to use BC then you have to use condoms. Not to be personal, but have you thought about getting your tubes tied since you do not want more children? If that's not the avenue for you, then possibly having an IUD inserted would be another option. Even at that, you need to protect yourself from STD's. There are lots of threads that deal with STD's. A person can have one and not even know it!!!!! Please, please don't take that risk. Like you said - you have 2 cuties (I am the mom of 3) and you want to be around to see them grow up - remember that HIV can lay dormant for quite sometime. Hope this helps and Have fun on the 4th!!!!!

Jenn

**LikeMinds321** · 06-03-2005, 07:37 PM

If I were you and not on birth control pills I would not have intercourse when swinging unless I felt 99% certain that I was not ovulating, plus, I'd always use a condom no matter what time of the month it was.

Getting pregnant by accident is nothing to take lightly, especially when it could be from a man other than your husband.

I feel there are lots of fun sexy things you can do with people when you are at a high risk of getting pregnant (during ovulation) besides intercourse.

Play safely. Play creatively.

LM

DBL D · 06-04-2005, 12:53 AM

You should put up with the discomfort of condoms at least until you get to know them and their habits a bit better. Fem D and I are willing to play without condoms with couples who are safe (Disease free and as far as fertilization goes) and who we've seen before.

On the first date I suppose some would say you would be at risk.

Male D

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06-03-2005, 06:14 PM	#1 (permalink)
supafriq Registered Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 4 Location: Stockton Ca	condoms or not this is our first exp. im not on birthcontrol and never intend on it. I also have hang ups about rubbers cause im irritated by them. I am so like what should i do ? My husband and our new couple are all 100% disease free. and they are on birthcontrol. we talked about my situation but never made a final decision. Im willing to use the condoms because i dont intend on getting pregnant or taking risks. But at home we dont use anything but withdrawl and it has been pretty damn successful. We do have 2 cuties we love but dont want anymore. Suggestions anyone 6-4 is the big day please respond quick. Thank you

06-03-2005, 06:30 PM	#2 (permalink)
jennandjamesinm Care to join us??? Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 1,454 Location: Northwest Mississippi Status: Couple SLS Name:jennandjamesinms	Re: condoms or not CONDOMS, CONDOMS, CONDOMS!!!!!!! Unless you are 100% sure that they don't have a STD and you don't want anymore children, but don't want to use BC then you have to use condoms. Not to be personal, but have you thought about getting your tubes tied since you do not want more children? If that's not the avenue for you, then possibly having an IUD inserted would be another option. Even at that, you need to protect yourself from STD's. There are lots of threads that deal with STD's. A person can have one and not even know it!!!!! Please, please don't take that risk. Like you said - you have 2 cuties (I am the mom of 3) and you want to be around to see them grow up - remember that HIV can lay dormant for quite sometime. Hope this helps and Have fun on the 4th!!!!! Jenn __________________ "Swinging is the women's amusement park, and men are just along for the thrill ride." ~ James

06-03-2005, 07:37 PM	#3 (permalink)
LikeMinds321 Let's get comfortable... Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 8,542 Location: On the couch Status: Married to Mr LM	Re: condoms or not If I were you and not on birth control pills I would not have intercourse when swinging unless I felt 99% certain that I was not ovulating, plus, I'd always use a condom no matter what time of the month it was. Getting pregnant by accident is nothing to take lightly, especially when it could be from a man other than your husband. I feel there are lots of fun sexy things you can do with people when you are at a high risk of getting pregnant (during ovulation) besides intercourse. Play safely. Play creatively. LM

06-04-2005, 12:53 AM	#4 (permalink)
DBL D Oh...Why not?... Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 2,312 Location: Northern Call-ee-forn-ee-ah Status: Married Couple	Re: condoms or not You should put up with the discomfort of condoms at least until you get to know them and their habits a bit better. Fem D and I are willing to play without condoms with couples who are safe (Disease free and as far as fertilization goes) and who *we've seen before. On the first date I suppose some would say you would be at risk. Male D __________________ "Just nod if you can hear me..." David Gilmour*

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