Oral verses Intercourse

[adventureUS2]

Someone else posted this question before and didn't get much of a response. So I will pose the question again.

My wife and I are always worried about STDs. We find oral sex with condoms to be very awkward not to mention a bit of a turn off. And who the hell really uses plastic rap to eat pussy?????????????Yet we still feel the need to use condoms for intercourse. Doesn't make a lot of sense to put on a condom after you just had 2 hours of oral sex with no protection(fertility issues aside). Seems to me alot of swingers have unprotected oral sex and use condoms for intercourse.Does it really do any good. We struggle with the question every once in a while. Is there less of a risk for STDs with swingers then in the single dating comunity. I think some of us believe that couples are less of a risk for some reason. not sure why though.

What do you guys think. Do you do everything protect. Only intercouse. or bare backed all the way, and what are your reasons.

[lcjtsd]

We have said this before. "Double Standard" sex (unprotected oral and protected intercourse) makes absolutely no sense to us. We play every 6 months or so and the last guy we played with insisted on using a condom for sex. Of course, the oral was unprotected. Guess what, he gave us chlymadia. A trip to the Dr. and everything was cleared up.

Yes, sex with other people is risky. You can get STD's from oral. Bareback feels a heck of a lot better than condoms. If you're going to do oral unprotected, you may as well do it all unprotected as if they have anything you have already caught it from the oral.

What we have learned is that the next single/couple we meet who insists on condoms, we will say no thanks as we don't want to catch whatever it is they think they may have.

No more "Double Standard" sex for us.