Birth Control

10-17-2001, 10:04 AM

My wife and I are active in this lifestyle however until recently we have only been envolved in "soft swinging" My wife is not on the pill because we are trying to concive however she would like to have intercourse with another man. We imagine this is a common thing so we are wondering what you people use for Birth Control in this situation. Condoms for sure however should we be considering secondary birth control. If yes What is the best. We think either a sponge or cevical cap however are a little leary about the spermicide. That stuff tastes Aweful no? What are your thoughts.

danc694u · 10-17-2001, 11:42 AM

Why not just wait until she is pregnant, or until after the child is born, to take your lifestyle to full swap??

I'm not razing you. But, I think this is what we would do, if we were in that boat.

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It's more fun than checkers.

***JustAskJulie*** · 10-17-2001, 01:57 PM

In a way I have to agree with Danc on this one... if you are trying to conceive, then most likely once you do conceive you won't want to be doing full swap for a while anyway.. so wouldn't it be better to wait until later.. rather than start something just to have to stop when it's getting fun?

In answer to your actual question tho, I don't know too many couples who use multiple forms of BC.. other than the pill an condoms.. Condoms more so for the protection from STD's..

Another thing to consider here.. if you are trying to conceive, do you really want to take the chance AT ALL of her getting pregnant by someone else? Just a thought.

Julie http://www.swingersboard.com

CanadianCouple · 10-17-2001, 07:06 PM

Bunny & Clyde --

I agree with Dance and Julie on this one. If your wife is trying to conceive, the last thing she needs right now is a another man's penis inside her.

If you do indeed find a compatable couple, might we suggest oral swapping for now? It can be a lot of fun in and of itself, and you'll all be able to anticipate having intercourse with the other couple's mate once it's safe to do so, when she's back on birth control. Remember, the anticipation is half the fun.

Dan

lycioos · 10-19-2001, 03:31 PM

There is NO birth control that is 100 percent certain, so why risk it. It's just not worth it.???? Waiting will be by far worth it.

CanadianCouple · 10-19-2001, 05:21 PM

There is NO birth control that is 100 percent certain, so why risk it. It's just not worth it.???? Waiting will be by far worth it

Are you speaking only of couples trying to conceive?

Dan

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lycioos · 10-21-2001, 04:32 PM

Sorry I wasn't clear on that one, but I definelty mean for couples who are intentionally trying to conceive. I believe there would always be that doubt in the husbands mind "Is it really mine?" And since there really isn't any way to be 100 percent positive, why risk putting ones marriage and relationship, not to mention a baby's potiential health at risk. (You never know what kind of health problems may be in these men's past.)
I say wait and alliviate the stress. They have the rest of there lives together to play.

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10-17-2001, 10:04 AM	#1 (permalink)
Bunny&Clyde Posts: n/a	Birth Control My wife and I are active in this lifestyle however until recently we have only been envolved in "soft swinging" My wife is not on the pill because we are trying to concive however she would like to have intercourse with another man. We imagine this is a common thing so we are wondering what you people use for Birth Control in this situation. Condoms for sure however should we be considering secondary birth control. If yes What is the best. We think either a sponge or cevical cap however are a little leary about the spermicide. That stuff tastes Aweful no? What are your thoughts.

10-17-2001, 11:42 AM	#2 (permalink)
danc694u Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 546 Location: Birmingham, AL Status: couple	Why not just wait until she is pregnant, or until after the child is born, to take your lifestyle to full swap?? I'm not razing you. But, I think this is what we would do, if we were in that boat. ------------------ It's more fun than checkers. __________________ Phonies and Fakes Need not apply. We're as real as it gets, and don't have time to be wasting on dumbasses.

10-17-2001, 01:57 PM	#3 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,268 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	In a way I have to agree with Danc on this one... if you are trying to conceive, then most likely once you do conceive you won't want to be doing full swap for a while anyway.. so wouldn't it be better to wait until later.. rather than start something just to have to stop when it's getting fun? In answer to your actual question tho, I don't know too many couples who use multiple forms of BC.. other than the pill an condoms.. Condoms more so for the protection from STD's.. Another thing to consider here.. if you are trying to conceive, do you really want to take the chance AT ALL of her getting pregnant by someone else? Just a thought. Julie http://www.swingersboard.com __________________ Julie Owner/ Admin http://www.swingersboard.com

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10-17-2001, 07:06 PM	#4 (permalink)
CanadianCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 1,139 Location: New Brunswick, Canada Status: Married Couple	Bunny & Clyde -- I agree with Dance and Julie on this one. If your wife is trying to conceive, the last thing she needs right now is a another man's penis inside her. If you do indeed find a compatable couple, might we suggest oral swapping for now? It can be a lot of fun in and of itself, and you'll all be able to anticipate having intercourse with the other couple's mate once it's safe to do so, when she's back on birth control. Remember, the anticipation is half the fun. Dan

10-19-2001, 03:31 PM	#5 (permalink)
lycioos Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 123	There is NO birth control that is 100 percent certain, so why risk it. It's just not worth it.???? Waiting will be by far worth it.

10-19-2001, 05:21 PM	#6 (permalink)
CanadianCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 1,139 Location: New Brunswick, Canada Status: Married Couple	There is NO birth control that is 100 percent certain, so why risk it. It's just not worth it.???? Waiting will be by far worth it Are you speaking only of couples trying to conceive? Dan [This message has been edited by CanadianCouple (edited 10-19-2001).] [This message has been edited by CanadianCouple (edited 10-19-2001).]

10-21-2001, 04:32 PM	#7 (permalink)
lycioos Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 123	Sorry I wasn't clear on that one, but I definelty mean for couples who are intentionally trying to conceive. I believe there would always be that doubt in the husbands mind "Is it really mine?" And since there really isn't any way to be 100 percent positive, why risk putting ones marriage and relationship, not to mention a baby's potiential health at risk. (You never know what kind of health problems may be in these men's past.) I say wait and alliviate the stress. They have the rest of there lives together to play.

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