Surgically safe, making the decision

[SNHDave1958]

When we were swinging, pregnancy was always on our minds. Since she was more interested in the women, if the other male was not safe, it turned into soft swing.

Years ago we used an IUD for birth control, and it was great. I could occasionally feel the nylon cord during sex, but it did not detract much from the sex and did not happen often.

Why not an IUD and condoms. That would give a birth control that is very effective, and reduce the likelyhood of infection.

[onenosbest]

Got my tubes tied after my last child was born and that was five years ago. I went in I guess it took roughly thirty minutes and I was put to sleep. Woke up stayed in the hospital for a few hours and went home.. You will feel some discomfort for at least two wks but it is worth it. I now have a little over an inch incision under my belly botton. Hub got fixed almost a year later no questions asked by the insurance co.. We figured we did not want any accidents with other wives while swinging..

Good Luck!

[wildwife1010]

We have two kids, both of which were conceived while I was on the pill. It is not the best method.