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Old 05-27-2004, 03:47 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I know it is a noob question but, What does this mean???
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Old 05-27-2004, 04:05 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I know it is a noob question but, What does this mean???
It means whatever you want it to mean. For practical purposes anything that doesn't involve intercourse is soft swap. For some swingers this means everything but and for others it could mean just being in the same room and watching without any contact between couples, or anything in between. If you are going to meet a soft swap couple then you need to find out what they do or don't do so there is no misunderstanding as to how they define it.

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Old 05-27-2004, 05:11 PM   #3 (permalink)
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It means sharing pillows...



Generally, it means no sex between couples... ie. I don't get your wife, you don't get mine... BUT - N&G is right on the money - clarify... That was how we meant it when we started, but you never know.

That said - if you guys would like to swap pillows - PM us... We'll keep 'em cool until we hear from ya...

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Depends on if that is soft swap with. . . or without, sprinkles. . . .

"For every sprinkle I find. . . I shall kill you." (okay, who knows that quote?)
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"For every sprinkle I find. . . I shall kill you." (okay, who knows that quote?)
I have no idea where this quote is from, but I will not sleep until someone gets this right...

I have to put this on my scrolling marquee screen saver at work...

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it's from stewey of the family guy - i love that show and am so glad to hear it's going to be on the air again!
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For us soft swap meant no intercourse with others .


If I remember correctly that is what Mrs naughty and I had agreed on when we first got into swinging. That lasted till our second date......
 
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For us soft swap meant no intercourse with others .
Yes...That's what it means to us too, and that's how we started out when we first got into this lifestyle.. Well...that's all changed now!!! Whoooo hoooo!
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same for us. Everything but intercourse.
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it's from stewey of the family guy - i love that show and am so glad to hear it's going to be on the air again!
Right now it's playing on cartoon netword sunday though thursday at 11:30 edt.

are they new episodes?
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For us soft swap meant no intercourse with others .

If I remember correctly that is what Mrs naughty and I had agreed on when we first got into swinging. That lasted till our second date......
Dito Yeah, I think we made it to the second date too <EG> But it is/was a good way to start out.

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Yeah, I think we made it to the second date too <EG> But it is/was a good way to start out.

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We currently soft swap at this time..... We haven't crossed over yet. We have been playing with other couples for about a year.

What made any of you comfortable enought to full swap? What do you feel you had to come to terms with before you swapped, or did you just wake up one day and yell "SWITCH"?
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What made any of you comfortable enought to full swap? What do you feel you had to come to terms with before you swapped, or did you just wake up one day and yell "SWITCH"?
For me, I knew that when we first started, feelings might come up after the soft swap that would need to be dealt with......and that would be a lot easier if we had not already done a full swap.

After the first time I thought "WHAT FUN" facelick Let's do more!!!! The Mr. agreed, & off we went!!

So, I suppose the soft swap was just testing the water & seeing where our comfort level was. Once we realized we were ready, we went for it.
 
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We currently soft swap at this time..... We haven't crossed over yet. We have been playing with other couples for about a year.

What made any of you comfortable enought to full swap? What do you feel you had to come to terms with before you swapped, or did you just wake up one day and yell "SWITCH"?

We actually got into soft swinging kind of by accident (involved some close friends and a lot of alchohol). after we had done it a few times and Mrs. and I had many long discussions about it we decided that it would be more fun if their was a chance we would actually swap. After about a year of discussing it and mustering up the nerve we went to the club and have been having a good time with full swap ever since.
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