Full-Swap vs. Soft-Swinging

[coquins69]

Hello!
we are full swappers, and Mrs prefers doing it in different rooms, because she feels uncomfortable of being seen.
We only did once soft swinging with a couple that comes several times to our parties and would like some initiation.

[funCouple77]

Originally Posted by fredandwilma200

Right now we are soft swap. We have had sex in the same room as another couple and had a male join us. We are looking for a single female to join us also but never realized how hard it is going to be, so at this time we are willing to alter to a couple however, we are not willing to swap. We are willing to have four in bed together having fun all together. I would consider oral swap but not full out and out full swap. If we did do the four together...I wouldnt mind him having sex while I am as long as we are in touching range....Maybe I think of this different then others.

Well, not to worry, its totally normal to feel the way u feel.
The situation u r descrinbing is a soft swing, and if u liked it and got u some breathless thrills, u sure would love a full swap. .. of course the 'within the touching range ' would send u tingles down the spine .. we 've tried this ... We both really loved it !

[hotblonde47]

Well ya learn something new everyday! I actually thought soft-swap was two couples same room but whatever goes as long as the partners are all in the one room. Hubby and I are comparative newbies but have done full-swap, mfm, foursome .... he's waiting for his first fmf!! I find that in the foursome situation that we've experienced with now good friends, that it's great fun and a great turn-on, but it's too distracting to me to be able to cum. If I really want to let go then it has to be seperate rooms. Who knows maybe we'll come across someone that solves that problem for me!

[funCouple77]

Hi there, there's a belief that french are good lovers... n I sure vouch for this fact.. we had a threesome with a french guy and my g/f really like it.. she tells me she enjoyed the sex so much, she would love the have him live with us so we can play everyday.. I wonder what french girls are like ???????

[Pepper & Drew]

We are a full swap couple, although we've had some soft swing experiences, which were fun too. I don't know if we would really persue a relationship with a couple that only did soft swap with no intention of going to full swap, but it would really depend on the couple to say for sure. I define soft swing as same room play, but no male-female penatration.

[wildtwo4uinva]

well............this might not be common in the life style,but our first experence was full swap,same room... .......we are a jump right into everything cpl.......full swap is ok with us...as is soft swap,just watching ....in other words,we can adapt.....we won't try to push anything on anyone,and we think our ability to be flexable,opens up many possibilitys for us..different strokes with different folks.... facelick ..........anyway.....thats our input on the subject............Dave&Sherry

[JustAskJulie]

^bump^

[playtime4two]

we're basically a soft-swap couple. we have had mfm, mff, and the like, but only one real full-swap. we just prefer it that way. love to share an area with someone, some playful touching is certainly fun, but when it comes to actual m/f penetration, we prefer to keep that for ourselves. hey, its all choice.

[2jersey]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

Some questions for you......

Question 1: Do you consider yourself full-swap or soft-swingers (if you haven't swung yet go with what you hope/plan to do).

Question 2: For full-swap couples are you willing to do soft-swing only, with the right couple?

Question 3: For soft-swingers... what do you consider soft-swinging?

We consider ourselves full swap. We believe soft-swinging includes everything up to, but not including, intercourse. Female play, by definition, can only be soft (although we had one gentleman explain to us that, in his opinion, females who penetrate one another with toys are having sex - the equivalent of full swap).

We would be happy to soft-swing, on occasion. Not all of our personal sexual encounters include intercourse - sometimes we don't get past the foreplay stage. We can certainly enjoy the same routine (everything but intercourse) when playing with others.

[jandg]

We are soft swing. That has not prevented us from having a rousing good time with up to four couples at the same time. Many of the couples we play with are full swap, and have no problem at all playing with us.