It was a good run ... now what?

[synergy]

I appreciated all of this advice and the additional perspectives. We actually didn't ever hear from them, as suspected and although we considered sending them a short and civil note to clear the air as advised by a couple of you, we have yet to do that.

We have to agree that "Jack" displayed a real concerning lack of respect for women in his actions, whatever his reasoning and we also agree that it is definitely always important to move as slow as the slowest person's pace. I guess this example proves how important it is to figure out and clearly detail your boundaries as well as develop some sort of secret communication between you and your partner that will be an SOS and also preserve the feelings of your play friends, should any issues arise.

[Cajun2Step]

Originally Posted by BiloxiCouple

Jack and Jill need to go back down the mountain. They are not ready for the full pail of water.

Find yourselves another J&J. Things happen and keep going at your speed.

We agree!

Originally Posted by Trace Ekies

I agree with moving on...they'll work it out or they won't...and you'll have no input either way...

I would send an email telling them how much we appreciated the time we spent with them and that I hoped we had not caused them to be uncomfortable.

It'll do two things...1. Show an enormous amount of civility. 2. Make them think about how they handled the situation and hopefully save themselves and others some grief in the future.

You should be applauded for how you handled the surprise cum attack Mrs. Synergy.

Not sure if we would contact them again or not. You have more personal info than we do. It might show class on your part, but then it might just bring on more drama

Originally Posted by bi4me2

(him)

Gotta agree with the others, he has some 'issues' to work out... can we say self-centered?

I wouldn't bother contacting them again either. They need to work out their issues by themselves before getting back into things.

They certainly have issues to work out. After thinking about it some more, we would not contact them. Move on and find friendly couples that do not have all the drama.