Am I a cuckold?

[starryeyes]

Communication... it's not just a word, it's a must as far as we are concerned. I am a wife and consider myself to be hot, ergo I am a Hotwife!!

I believe if it makes you both happy and it's not hurting anyone... go for it!!

[willyoats]

Interesting comment from Smithp that reads, in part, "...gratitude for allowing me to be part of that." IF (and that is uncertain in this context) the wife is getting her main source of contentment and satisfaction in her sexual relationships from her husband even though she is screwing a lot of other guys, the partnership is working as it should. I wonder why she is worrying about how she thinks her husband MIGHT BE feeling when it seems pretty clear that he is not feeling cuckolded.

It reminds me a bit of how I feel many times when I enter my wife for the n-thousandth time: No matter how many other guys she screws, I am the one she prefers. That makes me feel privileged and really warm. If smithp's wife really prefers him to all others, that's the key to a good relationship. She may never know what drives him to eat other guys' cum. So what? I also like to go into my wife after one or two other guys have cum in her. Who cares why? So what?

[Hellsgate]

I'd love to be in your situation.

But my fantasies are broadly different from everyone else here as my fantasy involves pregnancy-risk and lactation/breast-play, too. So again, as everyone else said, enjoy as long as it does harm to none.

[asncpl]

We enjoy the same type of play and Mr. A likes to get off the same way you do, but what's in a label, really? We do have cuckold roleplay, but my feeling is if everyone gets off and have a good time, then it's not a problem. I do understand why your wife may be concerned, and I think it's important to talk to her. I don't think you are a cuckold because there is no humiliation involved, for whatever it's worth.

[naughtyus74]

Even if that defines you as a cuckold, so what. If it is what you like then the term "cuckold" is really irrelevant. Isn't it? As long as you are being safe you have nothing to worry about. Just enjoy yourselves.

[wfsl48]

Cuckolding has the implication of husband humiliation of some type, usually attacks on his "manliness" and possibly some type of sissification.

Just enjoying licking your wife after she's been fucked is more hotwifing than cuckolding.

I would even say that husband humiliation in some role-playing game such as a "robbery" where the wife is fucked by one of the players when the hubby is powerless wouldn't be considered classic cuckolding because it's not directed at his machismo, but rather just a situation where he's temporarily helpless.

Self described cuckolds generally are in situations where the wife, the lover, or both are making verbal attacks of some type on the hubby's manhood in a general sense, whether for "real" or in games.

[cb1982]

Hi all,

I think I can provide some perspective as one of the studs a hotwife would be having sex with, while the husband laps up the juices. I've been sexually involved with a couple for nearly 11 months now.

We are doing pretty much the exact thing that has been described. The husband likes for me to come over and fuck his wife bareback and dump my load in her pussy. Often he will eat her out afterwards. I have spoke to him about this and he says that he enjoys seeing his wife fucked and loves the taste of her pussy after she has had sex, not necessarily the taste of another man's cum.

Sometimes, him and his wife will be in 69 position and I will come up behind the wife and have sex with her while he is underneath licking her clit. He likes view and the taste of her juices dripping into his mouth while she is having sex. Many times, I have slipped out of pussy and into his mouth (obviously accidental). I do not consider him a cuckold. I consider him very in tune with what he wants sexually and what he enjoys.

From a superficial level, this appears like cuckolding, but if you dig deeper it is not. I think it is important to make that clear to the partners and your wife.