My wife - do you think she wants to play again?

[cuminmd]

Well i just don't know how to read her. As you know if you read my old posts i was going to set her up with a friend of ours but because of what was said on here it opened up my eyes and i didn't do it and have dropped the subject. On friday night we were having a couple drinks and she asked me if i had played with our friend and i said no. the whole time that we were talking she was texting the friend that i was trying to set her up with and a ex bf telling them about the hotel across the street from the bar that we are all going to sat. she even told them that i got a room and was flirting with them. do you think its possible that she might want to play again.

[LikeMinds321]

Are you talking about the same couple you discussed in this previous thread?

wife and a friend

LM

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by cuminmd

...do you think its possible that she might want to play again.

Why not ask her?

You've played before with couples and males, you both have experience with swinging. Since swinging is not new to you I would think discussing whether you want to swing again would be easy enough. Ask her.

Reveiwing the history of your posts, you have mentioned repeatedly that your wife needs to be drunk to swing. Since you had been out drinking whe she began texting are you cocerned that she may have acted out under the influence of alcohol, and once she is sober would not consider going through with what she was suggesting through her texts?

What is holding you back from discussing swinging with your wife?

LM

[MrsPandMe]

Something funky about this. First off if wife needs to impair her judgement to swing this is a problem, if not for you then definately for any self respecting lifestyler you want to play with. If she isn't willing to do it sober it implies she will regret her decision when she is sober.

The fact that you are asking us and not your wife tells me you either don't want to know the real answer or you don't like the answer you got and you're hoping you can "read" her no to mean yes. If this is the case you are playing a dangerous game.


Mr P

[cuminmd]

Yes this is the same guy that i tried to set her up with last time. i also found out friday night that he had hit on her a cpl of times before i even thought about setting her up with him. She has told me some of the texts that they have had together but i wonder if there is more. I really think she would jump in the bed with him if she was sober because a lot of the texts she was sending she had only had one that night. No i not worried about if it happens i wish i could be there to watch but if i can't then i hope she tell me what happens.

[lustylearning]

Again, why aren't you having this discussion with your wife?

[cuminmd]

i have had this discuson with her a lot of times. she had a affair on me 15 yrs ago and just told me about it 6 months ago. she says that her marriage vows me a lot to her and that she could not cheat on me. i told her its not cheating if i new about it. she says if she did do anything with someone it would piss me off and i keep rtelling her i would not get mad