Mixed feelings about swinging with my new boyfriend - Page 2

**Alura** · 03-11-2010, 03:13 PM

So Long, Youngswingz!

"May the prairie's (or, in your case, ocean's) gentle breezes stir your life that you live joyfully but not enough to blow you down." — Stands Firm with Pony

Alura

Sunswept · 03-11-2010, 03:25 PM

Youngswingz, I was hoping you would come to the decision you have.

And thanks for your thanks.

It was the time that my partner and I were together just ourselves that I remember and cherish the most.

Who knows what will happen in the future. The best we can do is hope and listen to our gut, it is the expecting part where caution is the wise thing. Swinging is always an option when or if the time is right for that. As you know, the relationship is the main course, swinging is merely desert.

If you know that swinging will always be an interest for you, buy Julies Book, "The Swinging Manual". I have not read it yet, but plan on ordering it soon. I have read every post Julie has made on this site -she has a talent for giving the subject of "just having sex" -a lot of heart and clarity.
The Swinger Manual - your guide to all things swinger lifestyle

Take care, remember the door is always open here.

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03-11-2010, 03:13 PM	#16 (permalink)
Alura Just a hick Okie Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 8,136 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Widower	Re: Mixed feelings So Long, Youngswingz! "May the prairie's (or, in your case, ocean's) gentle breezes stir your life that you live joyfully but not enough to blow you down." — Stands Firm with Pony Alura
	__________________ "They may call me a rube and a hick, but I'd a lot rather be the man who bought the Brooklyn Bridge than the man who sold it." —Will Rogers Last edited by Alura; 03-12-2010 at 10:52 AM. Reason: punctuation

03-11-2010, 03:25 PM	#17 (permalink)
Sunswept Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 111 Location: Washington Status: Single Male	Re: Mixed feelings Youngswingz, I was hoping you would come to the decision you have. And thanks for your thanks. It was the time that my partner and I were together just ourselves that I remember and cherish the most. Who knows what will happen in the future. The best we can do is hope and listen to our gut, it is the expecting part where caution is the wise thing. Swinging is always an option when or if the time is right for that. As you know, the relationship is the main course, swinging is merely desert. If you know that swinging will always be an interest for you, buy Julies Book, "The Swinging Manual". I have not read it yet, but plan on ordering it soon. I have read every post Julie has made on this site -she has a talent for giving the subject of "just having sex" -a lot of heart and clarity. The Swinger Manual - your guide to all things swinger lifestyle Take care, remember the door is always open here.
	__________________ "I always have a wonderful time, wherever I am, whoever I'm with." Elwood P. Dowd.

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