Our friends show signs, but denied they are.

[realcplub2]

Originally Posted by J & K

We have made friends with some neighbors down the street. We have played a few drinking TRUTH or DARE games with them and they make it all sexual. His wife loves to show her boobs and make sexual comments to us. Some of her dares have been flashing boobs, getting naked, kissing, etc.

So my wife confronts the MR asking if they are swingers. OMG---he freaked out and said they would never do that, but he loves to see my wife's tits, ass, and playing with her body parts with his wife there and she encourages it.

Lastnight we played again (truth or dare) and she wanted me to kiss her sexually and her husband was all for it. Now I am really thinking they show all the signs, but may be just closet swingers even though they know we swing. They are cool with it, but I just feel they are swingers, but don't trust us enough to tell us. We are not sexually attracted to them, but they are fun to hang with.

So what do you all think?

J and K

Ok.. lets imagine the new couple down the street becomes great friends with you, over the course of a few months.. Then comes out and asks if you are swingers..

Do you admit it the first time asked? Are you comfortable enough with BEING OUTTED by people you live on the same street a few houses down from?

Did I answer your question?

[interested-05]

Originally Posted by J & K

.... Now I am really thinking they show all the signs, but may be just closet swingers even though they know we swing.....
J and K

OK they know you swing. They are getting sexual with you.
A number of people who we know play with others make it clear," they are not swingers, It is not a lifestyle for them, They just like to add a little spice"

OK, So what does it matter, what they call themselves?
For your next truth or dare, Ask them how far they would like to go, do they want to party naked and play as a foursome without intercourse. I suspect they would like to soft play, but full swap would be to much for them, at least this week.

[J & K]

Well, come to find out that 13 yrs ago the wife wanted to "swing", but the hubby wasn't up for it. He pinged it as a trust issue after that and she approach him 2 weeks after they got married. Come to find out she has had many affairs and he puts up with it and still does knowing she has cheated.

A few weeks ago the husband told us they are getting a divorce. She was having sex with the next door neighbor. He didn't like that, but does not want a divorce. She pushed the issue with the Big "D" word.

So...I guess this topic is closed. LOL

J and K