My Wife's Jealousy and Control Issues

[sweet_tna]

Originally Posted by mrfunfan

Oh I just re-read my last post and It's confusing. I'm sorry, didn't mean I want to swing now in our current situation. I agree now is not the time to swing for us. What I meant is that if we were going to swing...I'd rather it be this time when we are both really feeling young and living life to the fullest..but of course, the missing ingredient here is security.

I'm not going to want to swing or party in a few more years. There will come a time to put those days behind us and settle down. I will miss out on this experience I've always found exciting but I love my wife and she is more important.. There is always that wish she would feel the same way as me and if there was a way we can make it work and share this lifestyle happily and get what we both want out of it..great..but if not...it's not worth it. There are couples very much in love like us in the lifestyle and make it work and maybe we will get there before it's time to settle down.

Glad to hear it, and I hope you are able to work things out. I think it's a safe bet that the lifestyle will still be here when you're ready.

=)