Family has suspicions!

[sexylady1970]

Originally Posted by bicuriocpl

make sure all your LS friends wear their pineapple t-shirts. When asked just say its a very exclusive club.

Cute idea! Not sure any of them would go for it though. LOL

[WildMiCouple]

Originally Posted by sexylady1970

All of our lifestyle friends which amounts to about 75% of the adults who will be there know to be very vanilla that day. Hmmmmmm wonder is she will see through it?

She won't have a clue. I'm sure she thinks those of us in the lifestyle are deviants and the scum of the earth. But those that she meets will be outgoing, fun, and enjoyable to be around I'm betting she'd be horrified later to find out the folks she met were swingers

Have a great party and don't worry a bit about S-I-L

Brett

[ratimadan]

People who have not been in, or, experienced the swinging lifestyle, simply show their ignorance when they assume that for a married couple to exchange partners and have sexual intercourse with someone other one's own spouse is sinful. It is futile to make an effort to change the opinion of people who are ignorant and of closed mind. It's a waste of one's valuable time. People with this attitude almost certainly are insecure about their own relationships.

I would simply let your sister-in-law wallow in her own ignorance. There is no need' as far as we can see, to justify what you do and don't do with your and your wife's private lives, and that includes who you may socialize with and have sex with.

[sexylady1970]

PARTY WAS YESTERDAY.....UPDATE

Okay so here is the lowdown......All of the lifestyle friends are at the house including those with little kiddies. BBQ is going, kids running around, and friends being vanilla. Some watching the game, others just chatting and drinking sodas or a little beer. In walks "stick up the ass sister in law" with her husband and kids. Not much other than a few pleasantries and some snacking on foods.

Somewhere during the course of the day one of the female members of our friends comes over to the mrs and I telling us that sister in law asked for her number since they are neighbors and would like to get together for an evening. LOL She apparently told her to get her number from the mrs. Good move on her part.

Later in the day I was talking with sis in law and mentioned that I heard she asked for her number so they could go out. She replied....yes, they are so nice and we are neighbors so we figured we could get together sometime. I told her that is great and I was glad you liked them since they are nice people and alot of fun to be around. The party ended and everyone went home.

Thinking to myself as I am saying goodbye, wouldn't it have been a trip to tell her something like......Oh yeah, they are great fun to go out with and even more fun to have sex with!

[fun4Ds]

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Originally Posted by sexylady1970;[QUOTE

Thinking to myself as I am saying goodbye, wouldn't it have been a trip to tell her something like......Oh yeah, they are great fun to go out with and even more fun to have sex with!

Don't ever do that, even if you want to

[sexylady1970]

Wasn't going to but it would have been something to see.

[fun4Ds]

Glad your party was a success

[WildMiCouple]

Originally Posted by sexylady1970

[B]Later in the day I was talking with sis in law and mentioned that I heard she asked for her number so they could go out. She replied....yes, they are so nice and we are neighbors so we figured we could get together sometime. I told her that is great and I was glad you liked them since they are nice people and alot of fun to be around.

Saw that coming.

[lott]

Originally Posted by sexylady1970

PARTY WAS YESTERDAY.....UPDATE

Okay so here is the lowdown......All of the lifestyle friends are at the house including those with little kiddies. BBQ is going, kids running around, and friends being vanilla. Some watching the game, others just chatting and drinking sodas or a little beer. In walks "stick up the ass sister in law" with her husband and kids. Not much other than a few pleasantries and some snacking on foods.

Somewhere during the course of the day one of the female members of our friends comes over to the mrs and I telling us that sister in law asked for her number since they are neighbors and would like to get together for an evening. LOL She apparently told her to get her number from the mrs. Good move on her part.

Later in the day I was talking with sis in law and mentioned that I heard she asked for her number so they could go out. She replied....yes, they are so nice and we are neighbors so we figured we could get together sometime. I told her that is great and I was glad you liked them since they are nice people and alot of fun to be around. The party ended and everyone went home.

Thinking to myself as I am saying goodbye, wouldn't it have been a trip to tell her something like......Oh yeah, they are great fun to go out with and even more fun to have sex with!

Maybe I'm paranoid but if your sister in law is malicious like she sounds, I think she asked for the number so she can be nosy and find out if they were swingers and who else at the party were swingers or maybe to gossip about you and find out more. She will just do it in a friendly way by becoming a friend to the female, act like she wants to know about swinging, and then actually have something to talk about as it pertains to you as far as where you frequent and who you hang with. She will love to have someone to blame for the "problems in the world". Misery loves company.


I think if you don't want to be the talk of the town make sure that your swinger friends are aware of the type of person she is and how to react to her manipulative ways. It will save all of you from stress.

[NWAtlSwing]

Originally Posted by lott

I think if you don't want to be the talk of the town make sure that your swinger friends are aware of the type of person she is and how to react to her manipulative ways. It will save all of you from stress.

I agree there. Call me Paranoid too.

[VanHlebar]

Originally Posted by WildMiCouple

She won't have a clue. I'm sure she thinks those of us in the lifestyle are deviants and the scum of the earth. But those that she meets will be outgoing, fun, and enjoyable to be around I'm betting she'd be horrified later to find out the folks she met were swingers
Brett

How so true this is! We have a male friend (vanilla) that nows about us being in the lifestyle and we invite him regularly to our pool, christmas, 4th of July parties. Every time he is with us we watch him and we can see the wheels turning in his mind. He has only come out once and asked me if a particular couple where playmates of ours and I just said to him no. At that time this was true, however that is quickly changing and it is only a matter of time, but he will never know that.

-Van

[sweet_tna]

If I were Mrs. Sexy, I would keep forgetting to give SIL that phone number. I too, would be suspicious of the motives behind that request.

My sister found out about us not long ago. She'd been hinting around at stuff, asking if I'd ever done this or that, when she knows darned well I only had one sex partner before Mr. Sweet. I dodged the questions as best I could, but I am a lousy liar. So when she asked me straight out whether we were swingers, I told her the truth. She seemed relieved, because she wanted someone to talk to, as she had already cheated on her husband of barely four months. I made a point of reminding her that Mr. Sweet and I aren't cheating, blah blah blah.

Well, as her marriage began to crumble a few months later, she got mad at me for not holding her hand and taking her "side"--I told her I was staying the hell out of it. She, in turn, outs us to my mom.

Thankfully, my mom's response was, "I completely disapprove, but you're adults and it's your life, that's all I'm going to say about it."

So yeah, I'd watch my back with SIL.

=)