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My Wife, Me, and a Toy

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Old 07-10-2007, 08:31 AM   #1 (permalink)
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My wife has had several dreams during her last pregnancy where she sucked me and fucked a toy at the same time as well as having me inside her and having a dildo rubbing "near her butt" to quote her. I had made the suggestion to her and within a few days she had these dreams. I was very surprised since 8 yrs ago when we got married she would have never thought of using a dildo. She has come a LONG WAY.

Well, our second child is 4 months old now and after looking at dildos for some time, she found one she wants to try. We ordered it and should arrive Wednesday. It's called "Stormy's Favorite Dick." She still doesn't have her libido back (sleepless nights, breastfeeding, etc) but is coming along. I want this experience to be at least close to as good as it was in her dreams.

I'm looking for some pics online showing DP using a dildo and a real cock. Does anyone know of sites to find pics in this genre?

I've looked through tons of free sites and have not yet found any. I know it's a very specific request, but viewing such pics will get my wife more comfortable with the idea.

Any suggestions on good positions?

I doubt she will ever try anal. She is dead set against it. She said she usally visualizes sitting on the dildo on a chair while giving me a bj. The dildo we ordered has a suction cup bottom so this should work.

As much as she wants to try the dildo, seeing her use it will get me really excited.

Do women who use a dildo during sex or oral sex with a man tend to fantasize about a mfm situation?

Thanks for you help folks and enjoy your Sunday!
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Old 07-10-2007, 09:01 AM   #2 (permalink)
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I see the little tyke isn't letting you two get any sleep............it's already Tuesday

As to your question, I haven't the foggiest idea where.
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Old 07-10-2007, 10:56 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Do women who use a dildo during sex or oral sex with a man tend to fantasize about a mfm situation?
A lot of women like to use a toy during sex, while receiving oral sex, or while performing it. I don't know that it makes them any more likely to fantasize about the real deal. I like to use toys and I'm open to mfm, but I'm open to a lot of things. Good luck with your wife. I hope y'all find the spark.
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Joe,

Awesome question...don't have an answer for you but I'll keep my eyes open
I was thinking of doing the same thing with my girlfriend...I would like her to try a mfm and she's really reluctant so I figure the dildo idea (which she was completely for a while back) might get her into it..or at least create a great fantasy. Anyway, good luck with the wife

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Interesting post. My wife, dildo and I have just started doing the same after discussing my fantasy of an mfm with her. My wife too has come a long way from her traditional catholic mentality although age seems to help too.
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Old 07-11-2007, 09:21 AM   #6 (permalink)
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The dildo arrived via UPS a day early. Had a couple drinks last nights and got it on with the wife. I started rubbing her with the dildo and she helped to get the motion right. Anyway, she had a great orgasm and the whole time she was giving me oral.

During it, I mentioned how she can now say she's "had two dicks at once" and that I'm impressed how well she can "handle two dicks".

It was AWESOME...Can't wait to do it again.
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Old 07-13-2007, 04:52 PM   #7 (permalink)
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The dildo arrived via UPS a day early. Had a couple drinks last nights and got it on with the wife. I started rubbing her with the dildo and she helped to get the motion right. Anyway, she had a great orgasm and the whole time she was giving me oral.

During it, I mentioned how she can now say she's "had two dicks at once" and that I'm impressed how well she can "handle two dicks".

It was AWESOME...Can't wait to do it again.
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We also have a 4 month old at home...good luck suffering through the sleepless night that are still here . Luckily I never lost my lybido and already have a huge open mind for toys and experimenting.

As for the new DP possibility....I have some DP fantasies. It looks great, must feel great but as of yet we've only played with toys during oral or sex and working on DP with toys and hubby. I DO NOT fantasy about having it with another man at this point but wonder what it would feel like. So bring on the toys and don't worry about if your gal with soon want somebody else in the bedroom....but might be fun if that is the next step you are wanting to take.

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One of my favorites is to ride the Sybian with Mr. Jeep standing in front of me, lightly caressing my shoulders or holding my hair back, while I give him a BJ... he gets to feel the power of the Sybian too..

Because of my rather vocal and wild orgasms on the Sybian, I will either make sure he cums first, or he has to wait till I'm over, as I don't take the chance of hurting him when I cum...

We find that he better go first, cause I'm not always coherent afterward if I go first..

As for the MFM, yup it's a fantasy sometimes... but I know that NO mere man can make me cum like the Sybian can...

Subject Closed... hehe...

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Do women who use a dildo during sex or oral sex with a man tend to fantasize about a mfm situation?
In a word - Yup!

We fantasized about MFMs using toys for a long time (years) before we made MFMs a reality.

And still on occasion, when Sharona (or myself) is super horny and one cock isn't enough for her (and there is no fuck buddy around) we still use them and fantasize as though we are having an MFM. It can be very Hot
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if you are looking for pic or video you can try xtube. it is a adult utube.
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My g/f and I like to use a dildo while I'm perfomring oral sex on her and sometimes as a clit stimulator during regular intercourse. We have also used it once recently in a DP situation while I was having anal sex with her. She really loved that and had an awesome orgasm. We haven't done that one again yet, but I'm sure we will.

We have taken pictures and videos of us having sex before... perhaps I'll mention that someone is looking for a particular type of pic and see if there is any interest there.
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It's how we got started in all this, yes.

The real thing is even better...

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You want to try something different? Then after fucking your wife a while, have her suck your cock while she slowly puts that dildo up your ass... will blow your load and your mind.
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It's how we got started in all this, yes.

The real thing is even better...

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Cool....I'll hang on to that thought and keep having fun.

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