One for the ladies. Do you lose respect if your man plays with a man?

[LikeMinds321]

Re: One for the ladies. Do you lose respect if your man plays with a man?

I wouldn't lose respect for Mister LM. But with my man, it would be weird and I don't think I'd want to watch.

This thread has taken some doozy turns and I'm not going to try to figure out the road it's been on, so I'll just add this:

I would really like to see two men get it on orally IF

1. They are both very masculine hunky straight/bi guys that I would want to play with afterwards.

2. They are both very delicately built gay guys, in which case I have no interest in playing with either of them (and I'm guessing they'd feel the same about me).

LM

[gsu22]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

Re: One for the ladies. Do you lose respect if your man plays with a man?

I wouldn't lose respect for Mister LM. But with my man, it would be weird and I don't think I'd want to watch.

This thread has taken some doozy turns and I'm not going to try to figure out the road it's been on, so I'll just add this:

I would really like to see two men get it on orally IF

1. They are both very masculine hunky straight/bi guys that I would want to play with afterwards.

2. They are both very delicately built gay guys, in which case I have no interest in playing with either of them (and I'm guessing they'd feel the same about me).

LM

In my few bi experiences(just oral) I've only wanted to play with a straight/bi masculine guys. One time I briefly thought about the smooth, fem type guys but had no interest whatsoever. Something about two masculine guys and a woman enjoying each other no matter who it is gets me going....mm..mfm..mf..and of course seeing FF

And the couples view, at least in my case, has always been fine...the female loved watching us 69 or one of us on our knees before jumping in and playing too. At no point did the females feel or have less respect for their men...it was very comparable to the excitement men get seeing two women.

For the longest time I was scared to pursue my fantasy for several reasons..i.e trusting the couple/not getting in over my head/finding the right people/etc....but it got to the point where I just HAD to try it and it was the best thing I ever did...to this day I haven't had full blown MM sex but during certain horny times it has crossed my mind. One fantasy has been to become comfortable with a bi couple who has a bi oral male and have it so the two guys could play and explore alone if the female wasn't available and was ok with it...and maybe we both could get the guts to go farther....none have really agreed to that for one reason or another.

[curiouscpleky]

heres something you can try, while having sex with your wife, pretend she is having sex with another man and you pretend to pull him out of her and suck him and put him back inside her and see how turned on she gets.


for me its a big turn on, no, it doesnt mean your gay by any means. you are turned on by it because u know your partner is, thats what it is all about, doing what turns your partner on,(for us anyway).

i dont concider myself a lesbian or even bi, but i lick other wemen and my partner gets turned on, and seeing him turned on , realy turns me on.(yes, he has sucked another man for me)

hope i helped some, just make sure thats what she wants.

[sexychoclit]

I used to date a couple and I asked him several times to include a gay guy in our play so that I could watch the guy suck him off. It never happened, but I do find myself turned on by MM or MMF porn. I don't want to see a guy that I am with have intercourse with another man or suck a guy off, but if one were to give him a BJ I would be o.k. with that.

[lovinher]

I just caught up on this thread. I misunderstood the intent of your second post in this thread. For that I apologize. It seems to me that the majority of women would not lose respect for their man. As a man who is turned off by it though , I have a hard time believing that so I understand why you would ask, but the tantrums were uncalled for.

[ANGEDKY(mr)]

In light of the hate and discontent on the board, I realize I was part of the root problem by posting this:

Originally Posted by ANGEDKY(mr)

There was a user account around here where the M.O. was to stir the pot a little and when conversation turned to challenge this particular user(s) they would get all condescending and haughty, disappear for a while and then come back all sweet and nice only to repeat the cycle. After a cycle or two, you apear , right in the heat of the moment, taking their side (in that particular argument). Funny thing was, you have the same writing style and gramar, using it all in that wierd thrid person(ish) sort of way that you do. After that particular shit storm, they get bitch slapped by a pro and the both of you disappear and stop posting...............strangely enough, your back, the writing is the same, topics are of the same inflamatory nature and when I throw out a little bait you swallow it, hook line and sinker. Jews? 1941? Come on you can do better than that........

BTW, none of your posts are remotely reminiscent of being a limey, of course you could be there, but not from there. Odd though, when you click your profile thru to SLS it comes up within 100 miles of Truro, Nova Scotia and Charlottetown, Prince Edwards Island-- alot closer to two jersey than the shires of UK, eh?

In short, I'm saying you're that same 'ol account stirring shit again and I'm calling you on it. Of course I could be wrong, but we'll cross that bridge if we get there.

Originally Posted by ANGEDKY(mr)

Fair enough, I can openly admit I am wrong and apologize, if needed.

During the aftermath I approached and was chatting with one of the Mods. During the ensuing conversation,they pointed out to me that they had, in fact, checked into my accusations. The conclusion was that SuAndBud's I.P. address was in fact pointing to the UK and for all practical purposes they were not who I thought they were, posting under a different username. Having discovered that, I stand corrected. I was wrong, plain and simple!

SuAndBud I offer you my personal apology for wrongfully accusing you of being someone you aren't and for doing things you were not.

Angedky(mr)

[early50couple]

We actually had our 1st MFM and I was shocked as I gave the guy a BJ. She was turned on by it and started to fight for his swollen dick. She won of course but none of us was disappointed. We just continued and all had fun. I agree, that labels are just societys negative influnce, we are in fact all "sexual". We talked afterwords and the MRS was not bothered in the least by my oral performance. In fact she cant wait to repeat the performance. Perhaps this time she will allow me more time on the stick!

[tangyspecial]

I am one of the women who would be turned on by it... A LOT!

N-Mrs.