How single male finds single female into swinging

[OhioCouple]

Originally posted by Seymore
...and what would be the purpose of that?

A while back one particular ad on the pay site we belong to caused quite an uproar. She was posing as (now get this) the squad leader for a high school cheerleading team. Said she was eighteen and just loved anal sex and prefered it over vaginal sex. She couldn't count the number of people she had had sex with and she just couldn't get enough of it. Within 3 days of her trial membership she had well over 2000 hits on her ad and over 400 letters sent to her. (oh did I forget to mention that she has her own personal web site?) Her pictures looked as though she were at least 25 or older. If she was eighteen she had been rode hard and put away wet. Last I looked at her profile she had had well over 5000 hits on her ad and Way over a thousand letters sent to her. To her credit she had responded to nearly all of them but I am sure it was a canned letter that led them to belive she could be better contacted via either her site or another address. This was less than 30 days of her being a member, currently she is a paying member for two more months.

As many cheating males as there are on the paysite I'll bet she has earned some big bucks off directing them to her site which another member fell for and it was a indeed a pay site. I would highly doubt the webmasters are paying her to be on the site, she/he (whichever) just saw an opportunity to attract a lot of horny men and those that are seeking the elusive single bi.

As Danc69 said, there is a sucker born every minute on the web.

Lori

[Flori_DAMAN]

It is sooo easy to get guys on the web. I went online as suzysilkythings in a yahoo chatroom once....man the Pm's I got were unbelievable....they would have pulled their visa out in a second if they thought I would just meet them....

I actually considered the return for time invested and in the long run it would have made me more money than I make doing what I do.

I don't understand how dumb guys are though.

They all wanted to cybersex with me. I could have been a 67 yr old overweight black male with the name rufus, but they thought I was suzysilkythigs..and they were willing to get intimate with me online in one second.

I wonder how many guys have dumped their jackpot online with gay guys that pose as females.

And for the sake of clarification, I only got one guy to come.

John, who is J/k and didnt do that to anyone but could have.

[agoodmassage]

if those "real dolls" become robotic-beings like cherry 2000, peple might actually start having relationships with them. but for now, i see alot of dummies falling in love with chat bots, lol.

thanks lori and john for clearing that up...ive seen ads on swinglifestyle that i knew had to be fake...i just couldnt figure out what they were after...

i saw one ad where the "single woman" said "ive done it all and have the pics to prove it"...i was thinking "yeah, so what?"...it makes sense now...

[BradAndJanet]

Originally posted by Flori_DAMAN
...And for the sake of clarification, I only got one guy to come.

John, who is J/k and didnt do that to anyone but could have. ...

John, that was great!

-B

[OhioCouple]

Originally posted by Flori_DAMAN
And for the sake of clarification, I only got one guy to come.

John, who is J/k and didnt do that to anyone but could have.

OMGoodness!!! LMAO!!! John, if I ever make it to Florida you are gonna get a big smack from me for making me spew my coke all over the desk... AGAIN!!!

LMAO!!!

Lori

[OhioCouple]

Originally posted by Seymore
thanks lori and john for clearing that up...ive seen ads on swinglifestyle that i knew had to be fake...i just couldnt figure out what they were after...

i saw one ad where the "single woman" said "ive done it all and have the pics to prove it"...i was thinking "yeah, so what?"...it makes sense now...

It is amazing what people will fall for over the web. When I first began investigating this lifestyle I used another IM name from my own ('bout the only smart thing I'd ever done regarding names) and I would make whatever name I wanted to use for the day something sexy sounding, like "Sasha" or "Margarite". Simple but yet very effective in getting any and all information that I wanted and then some. That is actually how I found out that swinging was actually a "sport" (for lack of better words). From there a legit couple (as we have met them at a local swing club in passing) gave us some info on swinging and turned us on to a website that they belong to. We had an ad on that one but let our membership expire as we found one we like much better.

The number of IM's though that I would get while visiting these chat rooms were incredible. Sometimes I would just have to shut the entire computer down as it gave me a headach to hear the "chimes" for each new one. My screen name was in essence fresh meat for those looking to cyber. Since we have found the information that we wanted, we have not entered a chat room since.

Lori

[EternallySingle]

Originally posted by Seymore
Ive seen ads like those too which seemed bogus...but i dont get it. Do the owners of the site pay her to post the ad to attract people to the site? ...and what would be the purpose of that? I dont see why bogus ads would do anything but discourage people from using the site.

Can someone explain this?

WEll, the truth of the matter is that the internet, after nearly a decade, is STILL mainly a 20something to 30something single male dominated environment. What do single 20-40 year olf males like? Sex, sports, video games, and finding new ways of making lots of money so they have more time for sex, sports, and video games. So, what do you think will draw the majority of internet users to a website? (Please, don't make me repeat myself. I'm using my wireless keyboard from my bed and can't see my screen that well.) That is why there are so many single females advertising on swinger sites. Most site administrators know that if there is anyone claiming to be a single female on a site single men will join, even for a month, to check out the profile and write a letter in hopes of getting a reply. In fact, some sites actually ask couples interested in single males to change their ad or make an additional one that reads as a single femal to draw single males. Not the big ones, but the smaller regional ones are notorious for that (or were a few years ago.)

[Flori_DAMAN]

Even dating services do this. They send you a reply just before you expiration expires. You renew it and of course never hear from the woman of your dreams again.

Im gonna try the 8 dates in one night thing next tuesday. You have 8 dates in one evening. Each one lasts for 8 minutes. You don't exchange phone numbers but get on the computer later and see if any of them are interested in hooking up. It is geared for middle aged professional divorcees. What the hell, its only 29.00 and you actually get to meet 8 people eye to eye...sounds kinda neat to me.

John

[Roxysbayou]

That sounds like a blast! I saw something like that on TV only it was on a larger scale. I wish that I could have done that while I was still single, just for the experience of it.

[jen]

Being single has advantages.

Being single also has disadvantages.
Sometimes I'd like a guy to swing with, as apposed to always being the third party.

The posting or responding to an add idea just isn't for me.

8 minute dates??

[Ashley]

John,
I've heard it's called "speed-dating". Let us know how it goes, sounds like an interesting concept. Maybe one of your questions should be, "have you ever had sex with a stranger?" ....lol

[EternallySingle]

Good luck on that speed dating thing. I could never do it because I could never relax if I only had 8 minutes to impress someone of my worth over that of seven other guys. Guess my self-esteem is not that high. I am the greatest man in the world, but it usually takes a few days for people to realize that.

[Flori_DAMAN]

Originally posted by EternallySingle
Good luck on that speed dating thing. I could never do it because I could never relax if I only had 8 minutes to impress someone of my worth over that of seven other guys. Guess my self-esteem is not that high. I am the greatest man in the world, but it usually takes a few days for people to realize that.

LOL....hey I'm nowhere near the greatest so it should be no problem for me. It got posponed one week due to an unexpected interference in my schedule though.

In 8 minutes all I expect is to find out if there is any chemistry. On her part of course, cuz in the state I'm in I find chemistry in poodles dressed right...sigh.

John.

[PaulKing]

" Any suggestions on finding swinging partners? "

A few years ago I had great success by advertising in one magazine (West Coast Swingers). Over a period of about two years I met about five single females and well over forty couples. I actually did better as a single then as a couple which I also tried with the same magazine (at a later date).

I found the secret was to include a direct phone number as most couples act on impulse. The wording of the ad., is also very important.

Finding the right magazine is critical as I had no success whatsoever with other publications.

Good luck