How single male finds single female into swinging

[FTnPV]

We wish there was a site or ads strictly for single guys looking for couples. We're looking and are having a hard time finding a guy that suits us. She's very selective, but she can be that way...she's really pretty, sexy and great in the sex dept.

[JustAskJulie]

Actually, there is. It's new.. so I can't say how great it is... but it is there. It's been listed in the Swingers Board swingers links section for a few months.... the site is http://www.geocities.com/singlemencouples/index.html

[Perseus]

Originally posted by michigancouple
Having had a swinging relationship for 10 years before my wife passed away I spent 5 years single. I had no problem finding females to attend swing parties with me. But I am smarter than the average bear in this department. I would love to start a site that could teach single males to develope a plan that doesnt always include internet connections to establish relationships with women to swing with. I wish someone like Julie would help me do this. I could gareentee that just about any single guy out there could find a gal to swing with within weeks if they use basic common sense and develope the instinct of knowing which women to approach on this subject. If Julie or anyone would like to help me do this I would in a heartbeat.

Ok Michigancouple, we single guys are still waiting for this site to show up. Come on, share that "Don Juan" wisdom with us.

Perseus

[Flori_DAMAN]

lol

Where did you dredge that one up at...

I did try to start a site but shelved it. I just can't seem to get through the basics of starting a real website. The computer language might as well be greek to me. I use software programs hours per day at work with ease, but when it comes to creating a site the the learning curve is a flat line. I'll leave it up to those better capable. Juan.

[curious24]

you need to get a copy of dreamweaver... it makes making a site just about as easy as using Word

[Perseus]

Dreamweaver i have heard is good, but personally, I use MS FrontPage. Definitely the simplest I have seen.

[curious24]

i've used front page before.. and IMO there it is just too much trouble.. dreamweaver writes cleaner code and you don't need your host company to install front page extentions just to get it to work...

[Maine]

i went to

http://www.geocities.com/singlemencouples/index.html

but the server or page is down is there another webpage?

[KajiKurai]

Flori_DAMAN,

This is one of my area's of expertise. Part of what I do for a living. I'd be glad to lend you some assistance with a project such as you're thinking. Afterall I'm a single male myself. Might as well do what I can to help the cause so to speak.



Kaji

[Odie043069]

Trust me....I have been looking for awhile now for a serious single male in my area!

And when I mean serious....I don't mean someone who just wants a one night stand....I mean a man that wants to be partners with me in life and the lifestyle!

[OhioCouple]

Originally posted by Odie043069
Trust me....I have been looking for awhile now for a serious single male in my area!

And when I mean serious....I don't mean someone who just wants a one night stand....I mean a man that wants to be partners with me in life and the lifestyle!

Perhaps because I did not know anything about the "lifestyle" prior to a couple of years ago, I would have to think it is hard to find someone who automatically comes with an open and willing mind of both. I would have to think that anyone that meets as singles in the lifestyle probably take time to build their own relationship for a while before delving back in as their situations and circumstances would have changed.

I suppose it is possible to meet someone in the lifestyle and continue life as you knew it, but in my opinon the two only go together after building a relationship. For me, our relationship is the most important and swinging is just something we do for recreation. Kind of like if we had only looked for a mate who enjoyed reading, bass fishing or bowling, we might have over looked the love of our lives since one of us didn't care for any of the above sport. My hubby still doens't care to read, I won't bait a hook and he finds bowling terribly boring (mostly because I can whoop his butt...) But the thing is we have learned to find some common grounds that we both enjoy.....swinging just happened to be one of them.

Lori

[dreamguy4fun]

Hi,

I live in Seattle, WA. I found that it is not easy to swing as a single male. Seems like most swingers prefer to swing with either couples or single female. I was wondering if there are any woman in the Seattle area that is interested in getting together as a swinging partner to swing with other couples? Any suggestions on finding swinging partners?

Thanks,

[Flori_DAMAN]

Originally posted by dreamguy4fun
Hi,

I live in Seattle, WA. I found that it is not easy to swing as a single male. Seems like most swingers prefer to swing with either couples or single female. I was wondering if there are any woman in the Seattle area that is interested in getting together as a swinging partner to swing with other couples? Any suggestions on finding swinging partners?

Thanks,

Seriously now.

It is not easy to swing as a single male.

This board is used to vent those frustrations or to give opinions on them but not to advertise.

If you want to advertise go to the wonderful section that Julie has made for that purpose.

It allows you to catergorize yourself by lots of categories.

John

[EternallySingle]

A long time ago I realized if I look for something too hard I will never find it. This goes for finding keys, spare change, the remote, and the ever elusive swinging single female looking for a relationship with a single swinging male. The three I met were all by chance and I found out they were also swingers only after being with them for many months as a regular couple. Of course there were clues, like the married couples that sometimes stayed the night, she had more bathing suits and lace lingerie than street clothes (even though she is a banker or nurse), and she always had a drawer full of new Everready D-Cells, but no flashlights or portable radios to use them in. Any two of those things mean that you have a chance to at least talk to them about the idea without them running for the hills.

[Flori_DAMAN]

Originally posted by EternallySingle
A long time ago I realized if I look for something too hard I will never find it. This goes for finding keys, spare change, the remote, and the ever elusive swinging single female looking for a relationship with a single swinging male. The three I met were all by chance and I found out they were also swingers only after being with them for many months as a regular couple. Of course there were clues, like the married couples that sometimes stayed the night, she had more bathing suits and lace lingerie than street clothes (even though she is a banker or nurse), and she always had a drawer full of new Everready D-Cells, but no flashlights or portable radios to use them in. Any two of those things mean that you have a chance to at least talk to them about the idea without them running for the hills.

LMBO.....too funny!!

J