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| Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,292 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard
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If you had to choose between having a long term relationship with one person of the opposite sex or being involved in a swinging relationship with a couple, which would you prefer? This of course all things are equal and you could have one just as easily as the other. |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 130 Location: The Netherlands Status: Happy together
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I would definately prefer to have a long term realtionship. I cannot imagine how it would be like to be single forever, not having this strong bond with someone.
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 1,035 Location: Michigan Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:ABSingleMan
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I passed up a guaranteed sex session with a couple my brother used to party with in order to see a woman who said she was going to help chaperone a party. The woman who hosted the party said she showed up about five minutes after I left (she lived a couple of blocks from the center where the party was held...hmmmm) but I am only disappointed that she didn't show up, not that I passed up a night of wild sex with people who, in the end, were going to tell me to go home. So, relationship:1 swinging:0 |
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__________________ "Style is not lusting after somone because they are cool. Style is loving yourself till everyone else does too." Prince | |
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| Purveyors of Perviness Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 277 Location: Southwestern Alabama Status: He's Bisexual She's still thinking about it. They are happily married! Swing Lifestyle Name:ionsawmill
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If I was single, and I met a couple I was attracted too, I would consider a long-term polyamorous relationship.
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| Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 50 Location: texas Status: cpl Swing Lifestyle Name:winterlovin and amorell
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it would depend on the people involved... i'd go for the poly type too... hell some times i'd love to be single and just swinging... and sometimes i like being married and swinging together. so depends on the people and the mood i'm in. heheheheh
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 248 Location: Atlanta, Georgia Status: Single male
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It's hard to turn down swinging as a single BUT I think I'd pick the long term relationship being that I haven't had one in over a year now. It'd be GREAT if I met someone interested in a long term thing that A.)wanted to try swinging B.) wasn't opposed to MM or FF activity during swinging |
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We both are very much the long term relationship types. We’ve been married 34 and 28 years respectively, with six of those being to each other. I was pretty active in the lifestyle prior to becoming single, once single, I surprised myself by not being attracted to the lifestyle any longer. Also the attraction of the gentleman’s clubs lost their appeal. The discovery that window shopping was no longer enjoyable if there wasn’t someone to go home with/to was equally enlightening. Those clubs were an exercise in frustration rather than entertainment. Nice thread, Julie. |
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| A slut who likes to read Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 229 Location: Maryland, US. Status: Single Female Swing Lifestyle Name:Sebastiane
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Cant really say one or the other. Would depend on the one guy/girl, and how emotionally invested the couple and i were with each other. I'd likely lean towards the swinging though, unless I really felt something amazing for the guy and he could fulfill my other sexual needs. what can i say, im a demanding sex partner...I'm strongly bisexual with a general preference for women, im into bdsm, have a high sex drive, and like swinging. Can make it hard to find a good match, lol. |
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