Learning new things

[gsu22]

After months of waiting and trying to find a new experience, I've found a second couple to swing with.... She's 36 and incredible! She is without a doubt, the BEST sex partner I've had to this point. Its amazing what she has taught me in just two times together....... like how to be more sensual and take it slow to make the whole experience last longer/better. She said her goal is to make me into the best lover ever! Of course I'm all ready for class

I had always been interested in older women but I had no idea it could be this great. And her husband absolutely LOVES to watch her teach me and play with me. He really gets off on that stuff

Anyways, just thought I'd share my exciting experience

gsu

[TNT]

Gald to hear you are having such a great time with all your new learning experiences.

Having reached the point in my life where more times than not I am the older woman in our MFM play sessions it's good to hear that a younger man is so open and willing to learn.

The old adage " Older women make better lovers" in my opinion is definitely true. As a woman gets more comfortable with who she is and what she wants, she comes to a point where she really doesn't give a shit what others think and learns to do exactly what she wants to make herself happy. For myself, I have found this to be true with life in general and especially true when it comes to sex.

I was lucky enough that Ted and I were together at such a young age that neither of us had any preconceived notions as to what sex was suppose to be like...we basically taught each other but even with that being the case, I was still too shy in my 20s to really open my mouth and say what I wanted. Once I reached my 30s it was like a switch was turned and my mouth hasn't been shut since and I have no problem telling anyone exactly what I want, how I want it and when I want it, lol.

I have found that a lot of younger men are extremely intimidated by this in an actual play session...they are all for what I describe I want to do when in the talking phase, but once in bed and I start asking if I can do this or that, they turn shy and the word "no" starts popping up. Finding one that is truly open to learning new things and allowing a woman to really enjoy herself is a rare treat and I'm glad to hear you are one of them. I'm sure this lady is happy as well to have found you.


Teresa

[JustAskJulie]

Originally posted by TNT
Gald to hear you are having such a great time with all your new learning experiences.

Having reached the point in my life where more times than not I am the older woman in our MFM play sessions it's good to hear that a younger man is so open and willing to learn.



Teresa

This she says not letting on that while she may be the older woman, she still doesn't look the part.


GSU, glad you found a couple that you enjoy being with. Keep us updated on what you learn and how this is going for you.

[TNT]

Originally posted by JustAskJulie
This she says not letting on that while she may be the older woman, she still doesn't look the part.

Thank you, you made my day.

Teresa

[gsu22]

Thank you for the kind words. Before we met for the first time, I talked on the phone with her and through email discussing what each of us enjoy and fantasize about. And then when we all met and had our first sexual encounter, I have to say I felt so comfortable about what to do in order to please her. I made sure to focus completely on her and kinda judge from certain things I did as to rather or not it really turned her on. And of course she guided me along the way and took my hand and put here or there....while going slow and easy at the same time.

Of course, like many guys, I wanted to "pound away". I had always had it in my head that pounding away isn't always the thing to do but I'd get so worked that I couldn't help myself....well with this wonderful woman I got worked up but took a deep breath and let her lead the way. And its made all the difference in the world. We met just 2 weeks ago and just had fun today as a matter of fact!

I'd like to mention to that I've had lengthy discussions with her nice husband as well about what she enjoys and also what he likes to see when someone is playing her....gave me a sense of exactly what I should or should not do......I guess what I'm saying is that it all comes down to GREAT communication!

[SluttyWife]

Older women and younger men <sighs>

You've just tapped the greatest sex secret
known to man...and I'm so thrilled for you!

Older women (especially in their mid-thirties) are
best suited to younger men in their early twenties.
Why?? It all has to do with sex drive, and mature
sexy women being able to enjoy sex for the sake of
well...sex... How kewl is that?

I wish you a swell time and all you
beautiful, hypersexed "Mrs. Robinsons"
like Teresa a riproaring time.

Wheeee!!!

;-*

Slutty Wife

[Botcpl]

Originally posted by SluttyWife


...Older women (especially in their mid-thirties)....

Slutty Wife

I must have been alseep for quite a while because it is hard for me to get behind the idea that a woman in her thirties is "older". I guess at 52 I must be over the hill! I was at my daughter's softball practice and I was talking to a mom who had her 42nd birthday a couple of weeks ago. I was having a hard time with the conversation at times because all I could think about is how much fun she could be in the sack.

Well, the mind still thinks it is thirty.

P.

[meowkittyhascla]

I just turned 40...should I dig a hole???? LMAO

[artboy]

Originally posted by meowkittyhascla
I just turned 40...should I dig a hole???? LMAO

NOT JUST "NO"......but HELL NO!!!

40 is just a pup...I turned 40 this past Jan. best thing thats ever happened to me....older, wiser, very patient, smarter....the list goes on... 40 is great...and I hope Im as good in health at 50-60 so on as I feel now!!!!

Dig a hole????.............no way!!!!

[gsu22]

You're absolutely right sluttywife. This woman is so in touch with herself and so into sex.....its unbelieveable. I find her incredibly sexy b/c she's so into just having wonderful, fun sex....obviously I'm almost a little overwhelmed.

BTW sluttywife, I sent you a private message the other day. Don't know if you got it but I wanted to tell you I love your website! Beautiful pictures!!!

[SluttyWife]

Originally posted by Botcpl
I must have been alseep for quite a while because it is hard for me to get behind the idea that a woman in her thirties is "older". I guess at 52 I must be over the hill! I was at my daughter's softball practice and I was talking to a mom who had her 42nd birthday a couple of weeks ago. I was having a hard time with the conversation at times because all I could think about is how much fun she could be in the sack.

Well, the mind still thinks it is thirty.

P.

Oh my dears! I receive tons of "fan mail" every day some of it outrageous..most of it very positive. Never thinking my age was actualy part of "Slutty Wife's" appeal. I was floored <BIG JAW DROP> when two nineteen year olds wrote me one week
each calling me "a sexy older lady!"

I mean absolutely no offense to any of you in your 30's, 40's and beyond. But I realized I must accept my "maturity" with absolute grace and acceptance.

Sometimes I feel 14 going on 32...then I'm suddenly reminded
those days are over..thank gawd!



;-*


Slutty Wife

[availableforall]

Congrats, sometimes it takes awhile!

[mxdtxn774]

Well now I understand a part of myself that I had suspected. I often wondered why I have this greater admiration and respect for mature women. I think that the appeal is sexual in nature and wanting to be "taught". I find that highly erotic. Now to find a woman who is ready to be my teacher, for I would love to improve in this area.