Singles: What have been your greatest Stumbling Blocks

[SexyNSingle]

Originally Posted by Clandestine

I think my biggest stumbling block is the fact that I'm single...or swingle as I call it

A lot of people truly believe that you can't swing if you're single.

To a certain extent I agree. The term swinging basically brings to mind the old keys in a bowl scenario and that's what couples do.

But, if I'm playing with a couple, 2 couples....or whatever situation, I'm swinging.

If I'm playing one on one...I'm not but I'm still a swinger.

So basically being accepted is my biggest stumbling block.

There are others of course but most of them I've overcome. For instance: Fear of rejection, confidence issues.

I am in agreeance with you. I have recently become single after leaving a long term relationship, and a lot of things have crept into my mind about this. I do have a couple that I play with and have spoken in depth with them about this very topic, I am lucky all is very good with them regardless if I am in a relationship or not.

[Mr.Essex]

I'm a single male. By definition, I'm a living and breathing Chris Rock joke, the omnipresent "Dick in a Glass Jar. Break open when necessary." And as long as the lifestyle mainly consists of couples who want full swap and/or FMF, I have to get in where I fit in.

[Farcanal]

There is a stumbling block being single and male.

I'm actively involved with two couples that I have known for some years.

It seems to be a lesser prob in Europe where singles (both gender) are more accepted.

In our two clubs singles are welcomed on the Friday night free-for-alls! Rest of the time single males are limited to keep a balance.