what are couples looking for in a single guy for a 3some?

[JDApopka]

well we perfer someone close to our own age they must be single not wife/girlfriend cheaters. They really get our attention if they stay in touch via e-mail or IM to show that they are interested. we've had a couple here lately that they wife felt they just wanted to fuck as soon as they see her. she likes to be warmed up first with kissing and fondling and the seduction is part of what really turns me on.
I always express this to the guys and a few have been good at it but it seems most are just wham-bamm thank you mam and they don't get a second chance

[rc toys]

We personally prefer playing with single males. What we are looking for is a gentleman who can be respectful to the two of us, can carry on a conversation and someone who can appreciate the fact that we are sharing something special with them. Our sex life is already great, and we aren't playing to try and fill in for something that is missing. We are there because it's fun for us. There does have to be some level of physical attraction, but that isn't the most important thing. A pleasant personality will go a lot further with the Mrs. than anything else. We also appreciate the honesty we get from our playmates, too. In our regular lives we can't be that honest about some of our hobbies and we don't want to taint this one.

[LFM2]

Originally Posted by BettyAnnMBSC

when "looking for" a single M playmate....

well, first, we don't often look for M playmates -- we get plenty of invitations to go through from the various boards. Most start with something akin to "hey slut, wanna f**k?" and are immediately deleted.

The next big group explains how he can "teach you things you never immagined" or that he has "the biggest c*ck you've ever seen" -- yeah! get real.... delete

Next are those that come with a pic of a penis. Nothing else, just a penis. To me that says "hey look! I'm a dick!" delete

The ones that get a reply start something like "Hi. I read your profile at xyz and like that part about abcd. My profile is at www.something if you're interested in chatting" This generally gets a reply looking for a little more -- then maybe an invitation to meet.....

I liken it to meeting people in person. You don't have much luck walking up to someone and saying "hey b*tch let's screw" but you might have much luck if you start with "hi! I'm John" and look her in the eyes and smile. So why not do the same online -- "Hi, I'm Betty... "

looks, size, age, etc... not important. Ability to communicate like a decent person and maybe a little personality go a long long way....

good luck

Dito We have talked about having a single male, and this is exactly what we look for. Someone polite, respectful to both of us. Personality and communication go a long way.

[Estaque]

Good looking, physically fit, good hygiene, fashion sense, charisma, personality, and a big penis.

[rpu3]

Originally Posted by Estaque

... and a big penis.

Not necessarily - not all of us women like having our insides banged up...

[MoonLightKiss]

A big penis you say? Why? You think you can do something with it my husband can not do for me?

See this is a good example of why we do not look for single men. There is not a single man out there that can do to me what my husband does, and it has nothing to do with a penis, large small or otherwise.

Its funny how life works. Of all the men on all the ad sites, not one has caught my eye enough for me to even approach my husband with the idea of a MFM. Most of them boast of large dicks, have only crotch shots in their pic folder, brag about how many women/couples they have had, and think they are the ultimate lover. :rollseyes However, here at SB, several have piqued my interest enough to wish they were closer to us. Those of you single men who are good, decent, respectable, men, and members of this forum, know who you are. Because through reading the posts belonging to those single men both the hubby and I have said "If we could find someone like this, this would be a man we could both be comfortable enough with out of the bed, to want to do a MFM with. Too bad more men aren't like him."

Oh well I suppose...

[Estaque]

Originally Posted by rpu3

Not necessarily - not all of us women like having our insides banged up...

I wasn't speaking for you. I wasn't speaking for "all women". I was speaking for what my wife and I look for when we're in the market for a single man (which isn't very often).

And I myself am not particulary large, which may be why I prefer seeing my wife with a well endowed partner.

But I think it's funny that mentioning penis size gets some people flustered enough to harangue about it on the internet. As a man I like women with big boobs, why is it so unsettling to some of you that penis size matters to some people?

[rpu3]

Originally Posted by Estaque

I wasn't speaking for you. I wasn't speaking for "all women". I was speaking for what my wife and I look for when we're in the market for a single man (which isn't very often).

And I myself am not particulary large, which may be why I prefer seeing my wife with a well endowed partner.

But I think it's funny that mentioning penis size gets some people flustered enough to harangue about it on the internet. As a man I like women with big boobs, why is it so unsettling to some of you that penis size matters to some people?

I'm not sure how my statement is considered haranguing. It was an opinion, just like yours was. Obviously we both agree - penis size does matter - and clearly neither you or I have no problem expressing our preference. You and your wife happen to prefer big. I prefer average to somewhat above average. And it's definitely not unsettling to me to state my preference about penis size. My apologies if you were offended by my preference/opinion. Surrender

Rebecca