How to meet an older woman???

MrLibido · 10-29-2002, 02:41 PM

I am 27, good looking, in good shape and I love older women. Any advice on what approach to take or even the best place to find an older woman interested in a younger man?BTW I am in California (If that makes a difference).

RnKin Fla · 10-29-2002, 03:03 PM

I doubt that being in Calif. makes much of a difference.

I think the best place for you to start is with online advertisements. You will probably have to sort through all kinds of spam, but with luck and time you might find what you're looking for.

I can tell you that K and I tried Adult Friend Finder initially, when we started looking to meet people, and had NO luck through that site.

Best of luck to you!
R

OhioCouple · 10-29-2002, 04:16 PM

quote:
Originally posted by RnKin Fla:
I doubt that being in Calif. makes much of a difference.

Have to agree here. You are a single male, therefore you have an uphill battle.

AFF that RnKin mentioned is probably one of the worst and biggest ripoffs running the internet.

We have had a lot of success with Swappernet and Connection On Line. More so with Swappernet as their membership data base is larger. You might try checking them out and placing an ad on there.

Lori ~ (Never thought about it before, is that allowed to put other website info on here?)

***JustAskJulie*** · 10-29-2002, 04:45 PM

I don't think swinger sites are going to do any good for him. WE are talking single male seeks single female here.

There are plenty of high quality dating sites on the net, like Http://www.matchmaker.com, Yahoo Personals and others.

This is a swinger site, what you are looking for really has nothing to do with swinging so this probably isn't the best place to ask for advice.

ciscosv · 10-29-2002, 05:33 PM

You might be able to find chat rooms that cater specifically to older ladies seeking younger men. I know they are out there. Just never searched. I have a fetish for "older women" as well so you are not alone.

sexualhealingmn · 10-30-2002, 12:33 AM

Mr Libito - are you asking to meet a older woman in a threesome situation or just an older woman to date? I think an older woman (someone in her 40's) would feel uncomfortable being in public (well, maybe not in California) with a younger guy in his late 20's. But if you're asking if an older "couple" is looking for a young single stud such as yourself in a threesome -- then I think you shouldn't have any problems finding one through the various ad sites. You'll need to have a photo available for replying to ads and understand the rules of playing in a threesome (which can vary from couple to couple). Some couples do play together and others allow the wife to have one on one time - especially if that young guy becomes a regular....anyway, just my two cents...
The other half of SexualHealingMN -- [kiss]

Flori_DAMAN · 10-30-2002, 04:09 AM

Its not how bit it is its how you use it....its now how old you are but how you use it.

No one with a sexual liberal attitude would be embarassed with a younger man....it happens all the time....just get around.

I know many swinging females that are over my age.....well thats old..and love to have a young guy hanging from their arm..and they arent a bit embarassed......

thongLover · 10-30-2002, 08:12 AM

I guess I'm looking for the same thing, BUT, but, I am very happy with the relationship me and my girlfriend have, but she and I have talked and she would like me to find a cou0ple looking for a single male, for now, so that I can come back and tell her what it's like and such.

I just have to FIND that couple looking for a single male, which isnt going to be easy. hell I'm even willing to just start off rather slow and meet and just chit cjat online for now.

**Alura** · 10-30-2002, 03:07 PM

quote:
Originally posted by MrLibido:
I am 27, good looking, in good shape and I love older women. Any advice on what approach to take or even the best place to find an older woman interested in a younger man?BTW I am in California (If that makes a difference).

When you see an older woman you find attractive in a social setting, walk up to her smiling and say, "Hi, I'm Mr. Libido."

I dated a lot of older women in my single days but ended up marrying a woman fifteen years younger. Go figure.

Mr. Alura

thongLover · 10-30-2002, 04:51 PM

I prefer older women anyway, they're past the bullshit!

Plus, if you make one "feel good" under the sheets, oh BABY, she'll love you to death!! hehe!

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10-29-2002, 02:41 PM	#1 (permalink)
MrLibido Registered User Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 1 Location: Campbell,CA	How to meet an older woman??? I am 27, good looking, in good shape and I love older women. Any advice on what approach to take or even the best place to find an older woman interested in a younger man?BTW I am in California (If that makes a difference).

10-29-2002, 03:03 PM	#2 (permalink)
RnKin Fla Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 201 Location: North Florida Status: Couple	I doubt that being in Calif. makes much of a difference. I think the best place for you to start is with online advertisements. You will probably have to sort through all kinds of spam, but with luck and time you might find what you're looking for. I can tell you that K and I tried Adult Friend Finder initially, when we started looking to meet people, and had NO luck through that site. Best of luck to you! R __________________ We like to do things a little differently...

10-29-2002, 04:16 PM	#3 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,616 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	quote: Originally posted by RnKin Fla: I doubt that being in Calif. makes much of a difference. Have to agree here. You are a single male, therefore you have an uphill battle. AFF that RnKin mentioned is probably one of the worst and biggest ripoffs running the internet. We have had a lot of success with Swappernet and Connection On Line. More so with Swappernet as their membership data base is larger. You might try checking them out and placing an ad on there. Lori ~ (Never thought about it before, is that allowed to put other website info on here?) __________________ Remember that human beings are complicated creatures. We like our bedtime routines but dislike routine in our bed times. - Sallie Foley, M.S.W.

10-29-2002, 04:45 PM	#4 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,268 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	I don't think swinger sites are going to do any good for him. WE are talking single male seeks single female here. There are plenty of high quality dating sites on the net, like Http://www.matchmaker.com, Yahoo Personals and others. This is a swinger site, what you are looking for really has nothing to do with swinging so this probably isn't the best place to ask for advice. __________________ Julie Owner/ Admin http://www.swingersboard.com

10-29-2002, 05:33 PM	#5 (permalink)
ciscosv Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 750 Location: Redford, Michigan Status: Married Couple	You might be able to find chat rooms that cater specifically to older ladies seeking younger men. I know they are out there. Just never searched. I have a fetish for "older women" as well so you are not alone. __________________ M&M Melts in your mouth, not in your hand

10-30-2002, 12:33 AM	#6 (permalink)
sexualhealingmn Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 42 Location: Minneapolis, Minnesota USA Status: Couple	Mr Libito - are you asking to meet a older woman in a threesome situation or just an older woman to date? I think an older woman (someone in her 40's) would feel uncomfortable being in public (well, maybe not in California) with a younger guy in his late 20's. But if you're asking if an older "couple" is looking for a young single stud such as yourself in a threesome -- then I think you shouldn't have any problems finding one through the various ad sites. You'll need to have a photo available for replying to ads and understand the rules of playing in a threesome (which can vary from couple to couple). Some couples do play together and others allow the wife to have one on one time - especially if that young guy becomes a regular....anyway, just my two cents... The other half of SexualHealingMN -- __________________ ... when i get that feel-ing ... i want .. SEX.. UAL HEALING .... [Marvin Gaye]

10-30-2002, 04:09 AM	#7 (permalink)
Flori_DAMAN Previously of MichiganCouple Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 2,100 Location: Vero Beach Florida Status: Single Male	Its not how bit it is its how you use it....its now how old you are but how you use it. No one with a sexual liberal attitude would be embarassed with a younger man....it happens all the time....just get around. I know many swinging females that are over my age.....well thats old..and love to have a young guy hanging from their arm..and they arent a bit embarassed......

10-30-2002, 08:12 AM	#8 (permalink)
thongLover Active Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 36 Location: somewhere	I guess I'm looking for the same thing, BUT, but, I am very happy with the relationship me and my girlfriend have, but she and I have talked and she would like me to find a cou0ple looking for a single male, for now, so that I can come back and tell her what it's like and such. I just have to FIND that couple looking for a single male, which isnt going to be easy. hell I'm even willing to just start off rather slow and meet and just chit cjat online for now. __________________ "Is it bigger than a baby's arm?"

10-30-2002, 03:07 PM	#9 (permalink)
Alura T-Town Playmates Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 6,122 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Married to Mrs. Alura	quote: Originally posted by MrLibido: I am 27, good looking, in good shape and I love older women. Any advice on what approach to take or even the best place to find an older woman interested in a younger man?BTW I am in California (If that makes a difference). When you see an older woman you find attractive in a social setting, walk up to her smiling and say, "Hi, I'm Mr. Libido." I dated a lot of older women in my single days but ended up marrying a woman fifteen years younger. Go figure. Mr. Alura __________________ "They may call me a rube and a hick, but I'd a lot rather be the man who bought the Brooklyn Bridge than the man who sold it." —Will Rogers

10-30-2002, 04:51 PM	#10 (permalink)
thongLover Active Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 36 Location: somewhere	I prefer older women anyway, they're past the bullshit! Plus, if you make one "feel good" under the sheets, oh BABY, she'll love you to death!! hehe! __________________ "Is it bigger than a baby's arm?"

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