How far would you go with the right couple??

Flori_DAMAN · 06-04-2002, 02:42 PM

Ok heres the scenario. You hook up with a couple with a drop dead georgous wife and they want to get together with ya.
She mentions that she likes to watch her hubby have oral with other men.
How would you react?
This is assuming you consider yourself straight but....not a homophobe or homo-hater.
Would you say ok....just recieving oral though? .....just OK....or just ok oral? Or no deal! John

anandjeff2 · 06-04-2002, 04:11 PM

Well Look at it this way...say you were tied up and blindfolded and that was agrred upon..you would still have no idea who was ginving you oral right? Think about it..why is it ok for some women to be socially bi(to receive but not give) but not men?

An

Greekgod · 06-05-2002, 08:22 AM

I would decline even if the wife was a Playboy model. It wouldn't turn me on to see a guy sucking my cock because of the visual. [Eek!]

Just like a straight woman wouldn't want a bi female to touch her.

gourmet cook · 06-05-2002, 11:26 PM

" How Right a Couple is " is a relative term. Do you mean right in the respect that sex protection of ANY kind is unecessary? Do you mean if they fit ALL of the requirements that one is seeking, such as HWP, bi-curious? Are they new to couple swapping or experienced?
Wifey and I have never swapped, soft swung, licked, or touched another couple, BUT! we have an INCREDIBLE imagination!! I personally probably (and so would she) do just about anything if I were GUARANTEED beyond a shadow of a doubt that they were disease free.
Yeah, i'd probly do a MAN (oh my gawd) if I were so geeked up on sex. Orally not anally (i'vr got roids, anal sex with her or a man, in me or in him does not turn me on. I watch my wife do me and I have seen countless porn vids, and I am curious what the cock sucking attraction is. I am not gay, bi or homosexually inclined. I am just a very sexual human being.
Is there really any difference if a man does a woman that has been fucked by her husband moments ago? Is this waht we USED to call sloppy seconds?
I think your question can be interpreted in many ways. It's up to the personal and sexual conviction of each participant to know if he or she is man/woman enough to GO THERE.

gourmet cook · 06-05-2002, 11:40 PM

Any way about the question of how far I would go. I get pretty geeked up with my wife in the bedroom. We LOVE the feeling of sexual contact, and fantasizing. And we have a VERY good imagination. I have wondered what it would be like to suck another man. I have watched wifey do me and have watched countless porn vids and I am curious as to what the attraction is to a woman. I am not gay or even what I would call bi-curious. I am just a very sexual human being.
Enough men DO a woman after she has been fucked by another man, right? But of course she probaly must wipe out her vagina first. (wouldn't want to get that cum in our male mouth)but a woman will likely SWALLOW. How many men will give their wife/SO a blow job after fucking them and cumming in her?
How far would I go with the right couple? They damn well better be DISEASE free first and be able to prove it first! If that could be satisfied and we ALL hit it off ok, wifey and I say, the sky is the limit.

clrwtrcpl · 06-17-2002, 10:46 AM

Good question! Usually it's the wife who gets stuck making the hard decisions. I never understood the concept of "taking one for the team". Since my husband and I do this together, presumably I would be there to interject an emphatic "Heck NO"! Watching my husband with another woman is a turn on for me. My being with another woman or man is a turn on for both of us, but Guy on Guy action just doesn't do it for me or him. Hopefully this beautiful woman would respect our decision and make with the love anyway, sans the bi-guy action.

JoeMama · 06-19-2002, 11:03 AM

Well, I don't consider myself straight, bi, gay or a homo-hater, but I do consider myself try-sexual. If everyone is comfortable with each other, I'm all for it. I get incredibly turned on just thinking about this scenerio. And if she just wants to watch, well I have the perfect seat........and it can humm her favorite tune

)

Joe

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Tellya Later · 06-19-2002, 11:27 PM

This has actually happened to me. The couple told me even before we met so they gave me the oppurtunity to back out ahead of time. We met. Hit it off and before we went to their room they asked me my stance and said it wasn't required. I declined and no ones feelings were hurt.

TomF_22033 · 07-07-2002, 02:05 PM

Well as someone who had the chance to be sucked off by a guy and didn't I'd have to say that it really depends. Normally it would be no. But you just never know.

07-07-2002, 05:28 PM

I have been reading this forum for quite awhile now. And have thought of this question a lot. The answer is though it doesn't matter what the other next guy thinks in that situation. It is what the person thinks that is in that situation that matters.

This lifstyle is a hedonistic type lifestyle and the difintion of hedonistic to me is self pleasuring you will do what is pleasuring to you. And only that person can make that decison. My wife and I haven't started to swing yet. But it has giving us a lot to discuss the last couple of years. And if the occasion presents it to us I'm sure we will indulge. And if I was in that postion I'm not going to stop call home and ask Dad for is approval LOL. But if it does feel good at that time i would check do it. Reevalute in the morning but it doesn't meen I have to share that expierance with anybody but him .

***JustAskJulie*** · 07-07-2002, 06:19 PM

quote:
Originally posted by <C@Y>:
I have been reading this forum for quite awhile now. And have thought of this question a lot. The answer is though it doesn't matter what the other next guy thinks in that situation. It is what the person thinks that is in that situation that matters.

This question isn't about what the other guy thinks. It's about what YOU think. Granted you may not know how you would react in that situation until you are there. But this question is asking you to think about that... "what would YOU do if you were in this situation?"

ddrewd · 07-08-2002, 02:02 AM

I have no bisexual exp, but I'm growing more and more curious. But I think I'd only feel comfortable with a very balanced, relaxed couple, where the man takes a simple "let's all just have great sex" attitude. So many gay men I've met are sexually aggressive that I'm turned off to that. So, I guess I'd be more willing if it was the woman that was directing the action.

Drew

07-08-2002, 06:52 PM

(This question isn't about what the other guy thinks. It's about what YOU think quote un quote)
I think i know what you are saying Julie. But if a person is secure in there own decsion why would you even care what the other person thinks. I do like your way of getting people to express themselfs and your web site, Julie and I hope I expressed my opinion a bit more understandable way. We have heard this argument about women and now the men side and rightfully so.

OhioCouple · 07-08-2002, 10:47 PM

quote:
Originally posted by JoeMama:
Well, I don't consider myself straight, bi, gay or a homo-hater, but I do consider myself try-sexual. If everyone is comfortable with each other, I'm all for it. I get incredibly turned on just thinking about this scenerio. And if she just wants to watch, well I have the perfect seat........and it can humm her favorite tune )

Joe )

Joe,

My husband would now be considered as "try-sexual". Several years ago he would have been very offended by any MM contact whatsoever, but then he never dreamed that he would be openly swinging with his wife. His prejudical ideas diminished with the continual pounding into his brain...."OK So you love seeing me with another woman....Please tell me the difference and make your argument good"!!! LOL

It does not matter to me whether or not we ever experiment in that area, but our options and lines of communication regarding it have been opened. I personaly would love to watch. Maybe I am a voyuer at heart? [Wink]

Lori

[ 07-08-2002, 10:49 PM: Message edited by: OhioCouple ]

Flori_DAMAN · 07-13-2002, 01:09 PM

I am one of those rare breeds that isn't all heated up over watching two females enjoy each other. I like it but there are many other sexual scenarios that intrigue me much more. On the other hand Tam loves to observe me with another guy having oral. I enjoy it just because she does. She gets so hot over it I can't help but let it happen lol.
BTW i like that term trysexual, although I don't think its in Webster's its a great descriptive....lol. John.

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06-04-2002, 02:42 PM	#1 (permalink)
Flori_DAMAN Previously of MichiganCouple Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 2,100 Location: Vero Beach Florida Status: Single Male	How far would you go with the right couple?? Ok heres the scenario. You hook up with a couple with a drop dead georgous wife and they want to get together with ya. She mentions that she likes to watch her hubby have oral with other men. How would you react? This is assuming you consider yourself straight but....not a homophobe or homo-hater. Would you say ok....just recieving oral though? .....just OK....or just ok oral? Or no deal! John

06-05-2002, 08:22 AM	#3 (permalink)
Greekgod Active Member Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 26 Location: Orlando, FL	I would decline even if the wife was a Playboy model. It wouldn't turn me on to see a guy sucking my cock because of the visual. Just like a straight woman wouldn't want a bi female to touch her.

07-07-2002, 06:19 PM	#11 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,268 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	quote: Originally posted by <C@Y>: I have been reading this forum for quite awhile now. And have thought of this question a lot. The answer is though it doesn't matter what the other next guy thinks in that situation. It is what the person thinks that is in that situation that matters. This question isn't about what the other guy thinks. It's about what YOU think. Granted you may not know how you would react in that situation until you are there. But this question is asking you to think about that... "what would YOU do if you were in this situation?" __________________ Julie Owner/ Admin http://www.swingersboard.com

07-08-2002, 02:02 AM	#12 (permalink)
ddrewd Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 123 Location: On the road in Oklahoma Status: Single Male	I have no bisexual exp, but I'm growing more and more curious. But I think I'd only feel comfortable with a very balanced, relaxed couple, where the man takes a simple "let's all just have great sex" attitude. So many gay men I've met are sexually aggressive that I'm turned off to that. So, I guess I'd be more willing if it was the woman that was directing the action. Drew __________________ Drew Coming to a theatre near you!

06-04-2002, 04:11 PM	#2 (permalink)
anandjeff2 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2001 Posts: 121 Location: Western NY,USA	Well Look at it this way...say you were tied up and blindfolded and that was agrred upon..you would still have no idea who was ginving you oral right? Think about it..why is it ok for some women to be socially bi(to receive but not give) but not men? An

06-05-2002, 11:26 PM	#4 (permalink)
gourmet cook Active Member Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 15 Location: Panama City FL	" How Right a Couple is " is a relative term. Do you mean right in the respect that sex protection of ANY kind is unecessary? Do you mean if they fit ALL of the requirements that one is seeking, such as HWP, bi-curious? Are they new to couple swapping or experienced? Wifey and I have never swapped, soft swung, licked, or touched another couple, BUT! we have an INCREDIBLE imagination!! I personally probably (and so would she) do just about anything if I were GUARANTEED beyond a shadow of a doubt that they were disease free. Yeah, i'd probly do a MAN (oh my gawd) if I were so geeked up on sex. Orally not anally (i'vr got roids, anal sex with her or a man, in me or in him does not turn me on. I watch my wife do me and I have seen countless porn vids, and I am curious what the cock sucking attraction is. I am not gay, bi or homosexually inclined. I am just a very sexual human being. Is there really any difference if a man does a woman that has been fucked by her husband moments ago? Is this waht we USED to call sloppy seconds? I think your question can be interpreted in many ways. It's up to the personal and sexual conviction of each participant to know if he or she is man/woman enough to GO THERE.

06-05-2002, 11:40 PM	#5 (permalink)
gourmet cook Active Member Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 15 Location: Panama City FL	Any way about the question of how far I would go. I get pretty geeked up with my wife in the bedroom. We LOVE the feeling of sexual contact, and fantasizing. And we have a VERY good imagination. I have wondered what it would be like to suck another man. I have watched wifey do me and have watched countless porn vids and I am curious as to what the attraction is to a woman. I am not gay or even what I would call bi-curious. I am just a very sexual human being. Enough men DO a woman after she has been fucked by another man, right? But of course she probaly must wipe out her vagina first. (wouldn't want to get that cum in our male mouth)but a woman will likely SWALLOW. How many men will give their wife/SO a blow job after fucking them and cumming in her? How far would I go with the right couple? They damn well better be DISEASE free first and be able to prove it first! If that could be satisfied and we ALL hit it off ok, wifey and I say, the sky is the limit.

06-17-2002, 10:46 AM	#6 (permalink)
clrwtrcpl Registered Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 4 Location: Clearwater, FL	Good question! Usually it's the wife who gets stuck making the hard decisions. I never understood the concept of "taking one for the team". Since my husband and I do this together, presumably I would be there to interject an emphatic "Heck NO"! Watching my husband with another woman is a turn on for me. My being with another woman or man is a turn on for both of us, but Guy on Guy action just doesn't do it for me or him. Hopefully this beautiful woman would respect our decision and make with the love anyway, sans the bi-guy action.

06-19-2002, 11:03 AM	#7 (permalink)
JoeMama Registered User Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 2 Location: Michigan	Well, I don't consider myself straight, bi, gay or a homo-hater, but I do consider myself try-sexual. If everyone is comfortable with each other, I'm all for it. I get incredibly turned on just thinking about this scenerio. And if she just wants to watch, well I have the perfect seat........and it can humm her favorite tune ) Joe )

06-19-2002, 11:27 PM	#8 (permalink)
Tellya Later Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 73 Location: Chicago, IL Status: Single Male	This has actually happened to me. The couple told me even before we met so they gave me the oppurtunity to back out ahead of time. We met. Hit it off and before we went to their room they asked me my stance and said it wasn't required. I declined and no ones feelings were hurt.

07-07-2002, 02:05 PM	#9 (permalink)
TomF_22033 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 202 Location: Christiansburg, VA Status: Single Male	Well as someone who had the chance to be sucked off by a guy and didn't I'd have to say that it really depends. Normally it would be no. But you just never know.

07-07-2002, 05:28 PM	#10 (permalink)
<C@Y> Posts: n/a	I have been reading this forum for quite awhile now. And have thought of this question a lot. The answer is though it doesn't matter what the other next guy thinks in that situation. It is what the person thinks that is in that situation that matters. This lifstyle is a hedonistic type lifestyle and the difintion of hedonistic to me is self pleasuring you will do what is pleasuring to you. And only that person can make that decison. My wife and I haven't started to swing yet. But it has giving us a lot to discuss the last couple of years. And if the occasion presents it to us I'm sure we will indulge. And if I was in that postion I'm not going to stop call home and ask Dad for is approval LOL. But if it does feel good at that time i would check do it. Reevalute in the morning but it doesn't meen I have to share that expierance with anybody but him .

07-08-2002, 06:52 PM	#13 (permalink)
<C@Y> Posts: n/a	(This question isn't about what the other guy thinks. It's about what YOU think quote un quote) I think i know what you are saying Julie. But if a person is secure in there own decsion why would you even care what the other person thinks. I do like your way of getting people to express themselfs and your web site, Julie and I hope I expressed my opinion a bit more understandable way. We have heard this argument about women and now the men side and rightfully so.

07-08-2002, 10:47 PM	#14 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,616 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	quote: Originally posted by JoeMama: Well, I don't consider myself straight, bi, gay or a homo-hater, but I do consider myself try-sexual. If everyone is comfortable with each other, I'm all for it. I get incredibly turned on just thinking about this scenerio. And if she just wants to watch, well I have the perfect seat........and it can humm her favorite tune ) Joe ) Joe, My husband would now be considered as "try-sexual". Several years ago he would have been very offended by any MM contact whatsoever, but then he never dreamed that he would be openly swinging with his wife. His prejudical ideas diminished with the continual pounding into his brain...."OK So you love seeing me with another woman....Please tell me the difference and make your argument good"!!! LOL It does not matter to me whether or not we ever experiment in that area, but our options and lines of communication regarding it have been opened. I personaly would love to watch. Maybe I am a voyuer at heart? Lori [ 07-08-2002, 10:49 PM: Message edited by: OhioCouple ] __________________ Remember that human beings are complicated creatures. We like our bedtime routines but dislike routine in our bed times. - Sallie Foley, M.S.W.

07-13-2002, 01:09 PM	#15 (permalink)
Flori_DAMAN Previously of MichiganCouple Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 2,100 Location: Vero Beach Florida Status: Single Male	I am one of those rare breeds that isn't all heated up over watching two females enjoy each other. I like it but there are many other sexual scenarios that intrigue me much more. On the other hand Tam loves to observe me with another guy having oral. I enjoy it just because she does. She gets so hot over it I can't help but let it happen lol. BTW i like that term trysexual, although I don't think its in Webster's its a great descriptive....lol. John.

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