How far would you go with the right couple??

swingmanrc · 07-14-2002, 01:01 AM

Well, I don't consider myself gay or bi-sexual by any means. But, during a certain sexual sequence involving the wife mounted on her husband's erection, with her back to him and with me licking her clitoris, I have ended licking the husbands shaft and balls. The first time started quite by accident. I was busy licking her while he was in her. As he got more rapid in his thrusts, my tongue slipped down to his shaft. I tried to correct this slip at first trying to keep my tongue focused on the wife, but whenever I would slip, the husband would moan. Pretty soon it was obvious he wanted me licking him too. So, in keeping with the moment, I did. And now, when we are in that situation, I continue to do that. While he hasn't reciporacated, I don't think I would mind if he did. But, then the three of us have a very special friendship. Definitely the right couple. Would I perform oral on him? If it would please both of them, probably.

Flori_DAMAN · 07-17-2002, 11:10 AM

Thank you all for the great responses on this subject. Some have been real eye openers to me. I have gone through the guilt of fantasizing about MM but after having a few encounters with MMF situations my old way of thinking changed.

I can see the point of caution concerning anal sex with gay men, especially unprotected but I still believe there is quite a bit of unnecessary fear of bi or bi-curious men in the lifestyle which is such a controversial subject in itself. People would climb to the highest mountain and scream with riteous indignation if their lifestyle is attacked but would condemn those that choose a form of swinging that they don't indulge in.

Even many gay communities abhor bi-men claiming for instance that you are either gay or hetero. They say there is no in between. This is comparable to swinging couples discriminating against openly bi/bi-curious men. I am not attacking anyone here but attempting to look at both sides of this issue.

Perseus · 09-07-2002, 08:52 AM

Unprotected anal sex, with anyone, even your wife is highly ill advised. There are so many germs in the in the digestive system that it can cause problems even between two healthy people. Add an environment of risky sexual practices and you are asking for trouble. At least that is the way I see it.

Sorry, I forgot to put the unprotectect part...

[ September 08, 2002, 09:05 AM: Message edited by: Perseus ]

RnKin Fla · 10-23-2002, 07:08 PM

K would love to see R getting oral from another man. R, however, is NOT into that. He flatly refuses to even consider it. *sigh*

Maybe one day.

Chicup · 10-23-2002, 07:22 PM

I'd view gettings a bj from another man as an unpleasent experiance. I don't care how hot the wife is it isn't going to happen.

I'm also a realist, I think about $500K would be about my price for that. (Unpleasent experiance vrs cash reward).

I'm not sure what my price for giving one would be, but it would make indecent proposal seem like small change [lol]

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10-23-2002, 07:08 PM	#19 (permalink)
RnKin Fla Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 201 Location: North Florida Status: Couple	K would love to see R getting oral from another man. R, however, is NOT into that. He flatly refuses to even consider it. sigh Maybe one day. __________________ We like to do things a little differently...

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07-14-2002, 01:01 AM	#16 (permalink)
swingmanrc Active Member Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 10 Location: Midwest Status: Single Male	Well, I don't consider myself gay or bi-sexual by any means. But, during a certain sexual sequence involving the wife mounted on her husband's erection, with her back to him and with me licking her clitoris, I have ended licking the husbands shaft and balls. The first time started quite by accident. I was busy licking her while he was in her. As he got more rapid in his thrusts, my tongue slipped down to his shaft. I tried to correct this slip at first trying to keep my tongue focused on the wife, but whenever I would slip, the husband would moan. Pretty soon it was obvious he wanted me licking him too. So, in keeping with the moment, I did. And now, when we are in that situation, I continue to do that. While he hasn't reciporacated, I don't think I would mind if he did. But, then the three of us have a very special friendship. Definitely the right couple. Would I perform oral on him? If it would please both of them, probably.

07-17-2002, 11:10 AM	#17 (permalink)
Flori_DAMAN Previously of MichiganCouple Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 2,100 Location: Vero Beach Florida Status: Single Male	Thank you all for the great responses on this subject. Some have been real eye openers to me. I have gone through the guilt of fantasizing about MM but after having a few encounters with MMF situations my old way of thinking changed. I can see the point of caution concerning anal sex with gay men, especially unprotected but I still believe there is quite a bit of unnecessary fear of bi or bi-curious men in the lifestyle which is such a controversial subject in itself. People would climb to the highest mountain and scream with riteous indignation if their lifestyle is attacked but would condemn those that choose a form of swinging that they don't indulge in. Even many gay communities abhor bi-men claiming for instance that you are either gay or hetero. They say there is no in between. This is comparable to swinging couples discriminating against openly bi/bi-curious men. I am not attacking anyone here but attempting to look at both sides of this issue.

09-07-2002, 08:52 AM	#18 (permalink)
Perseus Long Timer Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 161 Location: Winter Park, Fl Status: S. Male seeking Couples and S. Females for good times and possible LTR SLS Name:Perseus	Unprotected anal sex, with anyone, even your wife is highly ill advised. There are so many germs in the in the digestive system that it can cause problems even between two healthy people. Add an environment of risky sexual practices and you are asking for trouble. At least that is the way I see it. Sorry, I forgot to put the unprotectect part... [ September 08, 2002, 09:05 AM: Message edited by: Perseus ]

10-23-2002, 07:22 PM	#20 (permalink)
Chicup Not a potential *** Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 2,342 Location: Under the bed Status: Tired	I'd view gettings a bj from another man as an unpleasent experiance. I don't care how hot the wife is it isn't going to happen. I'm also a realist, I think about $500K would be about my price for that. (Unpleasent experiance vrs cash reward). I'm not sure what my price for giving one would be, but it would make indecent proposal seem like small change