status quo MFM vs FMF

Chicup · 10-22-2002, 01:42 AM

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Originally posted by michigancouple:
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Id bet that many couples that put in large caps NO SINGLE MEN...started that way too.

Coul any of those NO SINGLE MEN posters comment?

I am amazed at the outward anomosity against them to be honest.

We started with couples, and will only swing with couples still. Any MFM is related to that couple and only after we get to know them very well. We never had a desire for a single male, never asked for them, and always clearly stated we wanted couples.

In SECONDS after posting our first swingers add we get a single male asking to come over that night. Um no thank you.

Our next 5 responces are all single males.

Ok change profiles. We repeat what so many adds we see do and put *****NO SINGLE MALES***** all over it.

We STILL got single males. Some would say 'I know you said no single males but...'
Others just sent their normal spam letter.

So maybe there are 'good' single males out there, I'd guess that there are, but after getting spammed by pathetic desperate losers you can understand why some couples put NO SINGLE MALES all over their profiles.

[ October 22, 2002, 01:47 AM: Message edited by: Chicup ]

**TNT** · 10-22-2002, 01:30 PM

As a couple who does enjoy the company of single men, I fully understand why couples will post NO SINGLE MEN in their ads.

On the few ads we have out most state that we do enjoy the company of single men. On the ones that state no single men, couples only, we still receive responses. These I just ignore as I feel that if they can't read, they deserve no response from me.

It does get very aggravating having to respond to all the email we receive from single men, espeically for myself as I am the one that answers 99 % of all our email, but I figure it goes with the territory if we are going to advertise we like single men.

My best advise for couples who state NO SINGLE MEN and still get responses from them, delete and move on, they don't deserve an answer if they can't respect your wishes in the first place by not responding to your ad when it clearly states not to do so.

We have met a couple of really nice men over the internet, but they are few and far between and we would rather meet them at socials or clubs where single men are allowed. It seems to cut out a lot of the BS you have to put up with over the internet.

Singe men are not for everyone, but for those who do like including them in their playtime, there are some really great ones out there, you just have to scearch for them.

Teresa

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10-22-2002, 01:42 AM	#16 (permalink)
Chicup Not a potential *** Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 2,342 Location: Under the bed Status: Tired	quote: Originally posted by michigancouple: . Id bet that many couples that put in large caps NO SINGLE MEN...started that way too. Coul any of those NO SINGLE MEN posters comment? I am amazed at the outward anomosity against them to be honest. We started with couples, and will only swing with couples still. Any MFM is related to that couple and only after we get to know them very well. We never had a desire for a single male, never asked for them, and always clearly stated we wanted couples. In SECONDS after posting our first swingers add we get a single male asking to come over that night. Um no thank you. Our next 5 responces are all single males. Ok change profiles. We repeat what so many adds we see do and put ***NO SINGLE MALES*** all over it. We STILL got single males. Some would say 'I know you said no single males but...' Others just sent their normal spam letter. So maybe there are 'good' single males out there, I'd guess that there are, but after getting spammed by pathetic desperate losers you can understand why some couples put NO SINGLE MALES all over their profiles. [ October 22, 2002, 01:47 AM: Message edited by: Chicup ]

10-22-2002, 01:30 PM	#17 (permalink)
TNT Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 4,191 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple SLS Name:tblonde312 Blog Entries: 31	As a couple who does enjoy the company of single men, I fully understand why couples will post NO SINGLE MEN in their ads. On the few ads we have out most state that we do enjoy the company of single men. On the ones that state no single men, couples only, we still receive responses. These I just ignore as I feel that if they can't read, they deserve no response from me. It does get very aggravating having to respond to all the email we receive from single men, espeically for myself as I am the one that answers 99 % of all our email, but I figure it goes with the territory if we are going to advertise we like single men. My best advise for couples who state NO SINGLE MEN and still get responses from them, delete and move on, they don't deserve an answer if they can't respect your wishes in the first place by not responding to your ad when it clearly states not to do so. We have met a couple of really nice men over the internet, but they are few and far between and we would rather meet them at socials or clubs where single men are allowed. It seems to cut out a lot of the BS you have to put up with over the internet. Singe men are not for everyone, but for those who do like including them in their playtime, there are some really great ones out there, you just have to scearch for them. Teresa __________________ Ted and Teresa No lifetime is enough unless you live it in such a way as to make it enough.

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