What do couples look for in a single man

this question has come at a good time for hubby and I, we just decided that we would be interested in single guys every once in awhile. We talked about it first, here is what we decided:
he has to be straight, but not a total homophobe, because if we are doing dbl penetration and one of them slips and accidently touches the other, he wont totally freak out, and go limp.
he has to be intelligent, if all he can say is "your hot, I cant wait to fuck you, I wanna lick your pussy...etc" that is a turn off for me.
And I agree with the other cpls, I know that the only man that totally rocks my world is hubby.
Last but not least: I will NOT meet him alone, and I will not perform on a web cam for him either
I think it goes with out saying that he has to be clean, and not smell.

[TNT]

Hmmm...I just read over what I typed almost three years ago...not much has changed at all, in fact...we still look for the same things when dealing with single men, it seems to have worked out great for us since in the interim we have met some really great guys.


Teresa

[cobracpl]

Originally Posted by Greekgod

I couldn't agree with you more, but from some of the ads I've seen that couples post they want photos of well hung 8" to 9" cocks, so go figure. Second I can't post a facial photo of me on a ad because I don't want to be recognized on the Internet. I have to be discreet plus most of my friends have computers. Just recently started corresponding with a couple and the wife like the size of my penis and wanted to trade photos, didn't say anything about wanting to see my face.

Most likely you were chatting with a guy. Almost all the women we have talked to including my wife all want a G rated face pic attached to their body. Guys however request XXX pics and it don't matter what they get.

Note: Just be yourself and befriend both husband and wife not just the wife. If the husband doesn't have a good time why would he want you back.

Don't do things out of the ordinary like showing up knowing the husband is not home. Had this happen and now a good (or so thought) good play partner is no longer playing with us.

Since I (M) am on here most I read the mail and chat with potential players. If they ask if this is the M or F and hang up if its the M then they are weeded out. I don't want someone only interested in the wife...bad play partners as this is suppose to be a shared event and it shows he is only in it for himself and might try and lure her into private play...so best not to even start anything with them.

Just our take on things.

mike n casey

[johnintx1]

Polite, clean, simi attractive,with a happy/fun personality. Attentive to us both, and our needs/desires.
Not selfish to his own needs and desires.
Respects our wishes,rules and limits.
Single guys: Never ask to see the wife alone,at a later time. A sure way to never be invited agian.

[garymichelle]

trial and error?

[MrsVan]

I have to agree with this topic that the men who send R-Rated pics and who boast about either their body or how big he is or how attractive he is gets me turned off. I do not take any responses from the men who have no picture posted to their profile.

But I do have a question when it comes to picking a Single Man to share a MFM experience with. I have searched for more information and I am not finding it and feel that maybe this would be the best place to post a couple of questions regarding it. If there is something out there to help with my questions below, if you can point me in the right direction that would be great.

MrVan and I are currently looking for single men to join us in a MFM. We have a guy who has provided pics, profile says he is single and by conversation throughout the first couple of emails, seems to be a nice guy. I will not know for sure if he is the guy for us until we meet to see if there is any type of connection. But my question is, how do you really know he is single? Do you go by his word and hope that he is not married? How do you approach the meet when the time comes? Do you approach the meeting as if it was a date or just a general day out?

This is new for us and I want to make sure that on our end we are taking the necessary steps to make sure all works out the way WE want it to. I do not want to get someone who is disrespectful to MrVan and I and are only looking out for their satisfaction. Any advice would be great! If you have any personal advise to help me in the picking process you can respond to the thread or send me a PM.

MrsVan

[janaandjames]

I agree with all the other comments.
We look for a sense of humor. And we have to find someone with patience because we talk it to death before we do it lol,
jana