What do you think of young male virgins?

youngandfun19m · 04-23-2002, 02:15 PM

I don't know, what the deal is, I know this sounds odd but, nobody seems to like young bi males. I'm 19 and bicurious, and virgin...I'd like to think that people would appreciate someone not broken in and basically be sure that they have no diseases and things but I guess not. What do you fellas think? I don't know, I give up he he. Does anyone feel the same way?

MiCpl · 04-23-2002, 06:23 PM

Why would someone want to take the time to have to teach a virgin how to do things when they could be enjoying sex with an experienced partner?

Single males are a dime a dozen. We do play with them but we'd never play with a virgin for several reasons.

1. Someone's virginity is a very special thing that should not be wasted. Find a girl you really care about and want to share that with and make a memory of it.

2. When we do play with single guys we want guys that know what they are doing and can help make the evening enjoyable for all of us.

S&J

highlander · 08-26-2002, 07:45 AM

For men, loosing your virginity is an event that can have a profound effect on the rest of your life. I've known a lot of guys that had rather horrible experiences in this regard(i.e. their first sexual experiences were with prostitutes or women trying to get another boyfriend jealous). I really don't think this society has much empathy or compassion for younger men-particularly in the sexual arena.

My own advice: try to find an older woman that is very giving and has a good relationship with a man you respect. Many younger girls want more experienced partners--and one thing you don't offer as a virgin is experience. Even women that are outwardly very traditional don't really have much patience for men that are less sexually experienced than they are.

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Originally posted by youngandfun19m:
I don't know, what the deal is, I know this sounds odd but, nobody seems to like young bi males. I'm 19 and bicurious, and virgin...I'd like to think that people would appreciate someone not broken in and basically be sure that they have no diseases and things but I guess not. What do you fellas think? I don't know, I give up he he. Does anyone feel the same way?

rainpuppy50 · 08-31-2002, 03:20 PM

Well, I will probably get crucified for this one, but, here goes. I am a 44yr. old female. I Love having sex with younger men. The thought of a virgin is something that I think I would enjoy tremendously. Thr reason being, I like men that are willing to do what I like and I like most all sex, but I also like the idea of showing a man exactly how and what to do.Most older and experienced men feel threatened or pressured by this. Also, I like the idea of knowing that some younger woman down the line may have a lot better experience because someone took the time to show her man how to really please her rather than just let him guess and hope he is doing good. Personally, I do NOT want a bi-male, whether young or older. I want my men to be Straight. My women ...now,that is another story.

Flori_DAMAN · 09-02-2002, 07:39 AM

I'm just curious rainpuppy.

Considering the fact that there is so much bi-male disgust, in the swinging community, the straight community, the homosexual community and the religious community, most bi-males keep their sexual preferences to themselves.

How can you tell if the guy you are with is bi? You must have some way of knowing because you don't like them!

John.

BigDawg · 09-02-2002, 11:12 AM

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Originally posted by youngandfun19m:
I don't know, what the deal is, I know this sounds odd but, nobody seems to like young bi males. I'm 19 and bicurious, and virgin...I'd like to think that people would appreciate someone not broken in and basically be sure that they have no diseases and things but I guess not. What do you fellas think? I don't know, I give up he he. Does anyone feel the same way?

The main reason another bi or gay male would hesitate to have sex with you is because so many bi "curious" males change their minds once it comes time to "do the deed". Many find the idea a turn on but the real thing in a lot different. I know for me, the event was a lot different than what I had imagined. BTW - Did you mean by a virgin that you had never had sex with ANYONE or just not with a man? If you haven't had sex with anyone you could just as easily say you were hetero curious. :-)

Big Dawg

BG_Gloryhole · 09-15-2002, 08:58 PM

Why doesn't anyone ever use my term?

I'm gay, but straight-curious.

Tehehee! Come to me young pup and I will teach you the ways of the world!

cuteNsingle · 10-12-2002, 02:35 PM

It's been almost 6 months later...has anything changed? I'm just curious... I'm looking for a woman to break me in. I don't want to wait for my wedding nite to realize that I'm 100% gay. I'm a "virgin" to str8 sex and no one seems to want me either. :-(

I had a BF who I lost my virginity to and when it comes to relationships no one seems to understand the whole Bi thing or the BF thing either. They see it as I can't make up my mind.

I see no problem breaking someone in as long as it's a one nite stand.
Some guys and some girls make a huge deal about losing their virginity, I know I did. I finally lost mine at 23 and it was everything I ever wanted and more.

sportync · 10-15-2002, 12:10 PM

As far as the virginity thing goes, I think it's kinda over-rated. I'm really glad I lost mine, and never for a moment did I consider trying to find it again(lol), but the experience itself was not that memorable. It involved a 40 mile motorcycle ride in the freezing cold to an apartment we could use, some hurried coupling, then 40 miles back on the same motorcycle. My first three-some with two women....now that was a memorable experience!!! Sportync

10-18-2002, 11:03 AM

My 27 year old wife is definately into younger guys, preferably 18 to early twenties. She really likes the idea of breaking in young virgins because it turns her on when a guy cums really fast as long as they can keep going, which usually isn't a problem for them since they're young and crave as much as they can get. Older women and younger men are a perfect fit because their sexual peaks coincide. Guys peak early and women much later. The bottom line is that it works and it's very erotic for her, for him and for me.

Brian and Jo · 10-19-2002, 12:24 AM

Maybe I am selfish but when I have sex with a man I want him to be experienced. While it may be interesting for some women to initiate a male virgin into his first sexual experience I am sure that it would not be particularly satisfying for me. I want a man who knows what he is doing so that the sex is good for both of us.

Jo

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04-23-2002, 02:15 PM	#1 (permalink)
youngandfun19m Registered User Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 2 Location: DFW	What do you think of young male virgins? I don't know, what the deal is, I know this sounds odd but, nobody seems to like young bi males. I'm 19 and bicurious, and virgin...I'd like to think that people would appreciate someone not broken in and basically be sure that they have no diseases and things but I guess not. What do you fellas think? I don't know, I give up he he. Does anyone feel the same way? __________________ Wanting to please all I can

08-26-2002, 07:45 AM	#3 (permalink)
highlander Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 143 Location: Portland,OR	For men, loosing your virginity is an event that can have a profound effect on the rest of your life. I've known a lot of guys that had rather horrible experiences in this regard(i.e. their first sexual experiences were with prostitutes or women trying to get another boyfriend jealous). I really don't think this society has much empathy or compassion for younger men-particularly in the sexual arena. My own advice: try to find an older woman that is very giving and has a good relationship with a man you respect. Many younger girls want more experienced partners--and one thing you don't offer as a virgin is experience. Even women that are outwardly very traditional don't really have much patience for men that are less sexually experienced than they are. quote: Originally posted by youngandfun19m: I don't know, what the deal is, I know this sounds odd but, nobody seems to like young bi males. I'm 19 and bicurious, and virgin...I'd like to think that people would appreciate someone not broken in and basically be sure that they have no diseases and things but I guess not. What do you fellas think? I don't know, I give up he he. Does anyone feel the same way?

08-31-2002, 03:20 PM	#4 (permalink)
rainpuppy50 Registered User Join Date: Nov 2000 Posts: 1 Location: Jackson County,Ok.. Status: Female (couple)	Well, I will probably get crucified for this one, but, here goes. I am a 44yr. old female. I Love having sex with younger men. The thought of a virgin is something that I think I would enjoy tremendously. Thr reason being, I like men that are willing to do what I like and I like most all sex, but I also like the idea of showing a man exactly how and what to do.Most older and experienced men feel threatened or pressured by this. Also, I like the idea of knowing that some younger woman down the line may have a lot better experience because someone took the time to show her man how to really please her rather than just let him guess and hope he is doing good. Personally, I do NOT want a bi-male, whether young or older. I want my men to be Straight. My women ...now,that is another story. __________________ Cathy

09-02-2002, 11:12 AM	#6 (permalink)
BigDawg Active Member Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 36 Location: Southern California	quote: Originally posted by youngandfun19m: I don't know, what the deal is, I know this sounds odd but, nobody seems to like young bi males. I'm 19 and bicurious, and virgin...I'd like to think that people would appreciate someone not broken in and basically be sure that they have no diseases and things but I guess not. What do you fellas think? I don't know, I give up he he. Does anyone feel the same way? The main reason another bi or gay male would hesitate to have sex with you is because so many bi "curious" males change their minds once it comes time to "do the deed". Many find the idea a turn on but the real thing in a lot different. I know for me, the event was a lot different than what I had imagined. BTW - Did you mean by a virgin that you had never had sex with ANYONE or just not with a man? If you haven't had sex with anyone you could just as easily say you were hetero curious. :-) Big Dawg __________________ Big Dawg and BB

04-23-2002, 06:23 PM	#2 (permalink)
MiCpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2000 Posts: 106 Location: MI	Why would someone want to take the time to have to teach a virgin how to do things when they could be enjoying sex with an experienced partner? Single males are a dime a dozen. We do play with them but we'd never play with a virgin for several reasons. 1. Someone's virginity is a very special thing that should not be wasted. Find a girl you really care about and want to share that with and make a memory of it. 2. When we do play with single guys we want guys that know what they are doing and can help make the evening enjoyable for all of us. S&J

09-02-2002, 07:39 AM	#5 (permalink)
Flori_DAMAN Previously of MichiganCouple Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 2,100 Location: Vero Beach Florida Status: Single Male	I'm just curious rainpuppy. Considering the fact that there is so much bi-male disgust, in the swinging community, the straight community, the homosexual community and the religious community, most bi-males keep their sexual preferences to themselves. How can you tell if the guy you are with is bi? You must have some way of knowing because you don't like them! John.

09-15-2002, 08:58 PM	#7 (permalink)
BG_Gloryhole Active Member Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 10 Location: Bowling Green, KY	Why doesn't anyone ever use my term? I'm gay, but straight-curious. Tehehee! Come to me young pup and I will teach you the ways of the world!

10-12-2002, 02:35 PM	#8 (permalink)
cuteNsingle Registered User Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 1 Location: NY	It's been almost 6 months later...has anything changed? I'm just curious... I'm looking for a woman to break me in. I don't want to wait for my wedding nite to realize that I'm 100% gay. I'm a "virgin" to str8 sex and no one seems to want me either. :-( I had a BF who I lost my virginity to and when it comes to relationships no one seems to understand the whole Bi thing or the BF thing either. They see it as I can't make up my mind. I see no problem breaking someone in as long as it's a one nite stand. Some guys and some girls make a huge deal about losing their virginity, I know I did. I finally lost mine at 23 and it was everything I ever wanted and more.

10-15-2002, 12:10 PM	#9 (permalink)
sportync Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 232 Location: eastern north carolina	As far as the virginity thing goes, I think it's kinda over-rated. I'm really glad I lost mine, and never for a moment did I consider trying to find it again(lol), but the experience itself was not that memorable. It involved a 40 mile motorcycle ride in the freezing cold to an apartment we could use, some hurried coupling, then 40 miles back on the same motorcycle. My first three-some with two women....now that was a memorable experience!!! Sportync __________________ this ain't no dress rehearsal

10-18-2002, 11:03 AM	#10 (permalink)
<jasonandkelli> Posts: n/a	My 27 year old wife is definately into younger guys, preferably 18 to early twenties. She really likes the idea of breaking in young virgins because it turns her on when a guy cums really fast as long as they can keep going, which usually isn't a problem for them since they're young and crave as much as they can get. Older women and younger men are a perfect fit because their sexual peaks coincide. Guys peak early and women much later. The bottom line is that it works and it's very erotic for her, for him and for me.

10-19-2002, 12:24 AM	#11 (permalink)
Brian and Jo Brian and Jo Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 238 Location: Ontario Status: Couple Blog Entries: 3	Maybe I am selfish but when I have sex with a man I want him to be experienced. While it may be interesting for some women to initiate a male virgin into his first sexual experience I am sure that it would not be particularly satisfying for me. I want a man who knows what he is doing so that the sex is good for both of us. Jo

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