Newbie Single Female: What to expect

carmel hottie · 10-09-2001, 07:19 PM

I will be attending an up cumming event very soon as a single and I really don't know what to expect. Would like to hear from other single females & couples on the first time experience.

***JustAskJulie*** · 10-10-2001, 11:42 AM

Unless you like lots of guys pawing at you, I hope this is a couples/single females only event that you are attending. The female halves of couples get pawed enough at events where single guys are invited.. so as a single female you can be sure that you would get it even more.

Now, assuming this is a couples/single females only event.. you'll probably really enjoy yourself and while you may still get pawed by some of the males, you will be extremely sought after by many couples there looking for a female to have a 3-some (hope you are into that).

Just keep in mind that no matter if you are going there alone or who is there.. no still means no and if you aren't comfortable with someone or something that someone asks you to do... that is your right. If you have a problem with anyone at the party, let the hosts know and hopefully they will take care of it.

Julie http://www.swingersboard.com

danc694u · 10-10-2001, 12:26 PM

Expect to have fun

Do not hide in the corner though.

Be prepared for attention

Although, I disagree with Julie about the pawing, it does happen. It's easy to stop though. Just say NO.

We've also seen many single females go home alone.

pelagic argosy · 10-10-2001, 09:47 PM

From my experience at clubs, single females get pawed by single guys, married guys, and married and single females! If you are reasonably attractive you will get hit on hard. It doesn't seem to me that marital status makes much of a difference, aggressive people are aggressive, married or not.

Make sure you know what type of activities goes on at the club/party you're going to. There might be some things that you're not willing to do, and you might want to avoid those clubs.

Newbie · 10-11-2001, 12:24 AM

Is this Carmel Indiana? If so, we only live an hour or so from you. We too are new to this. Maybe we could "chat" about this!!!!

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10-09-2001, 07:19 PM	#1 (permalink)
carmel hottie Registered User Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 1 Location: Baltimore, MD	Newbie Single Female: What to expect I will be attending an up cumming event very soon as a single and I really don't know what to expect. Would like to hear from other single females & couples on the first time experience.

10-10-2001, 11:42 AM	#2 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,260 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	Unless you like lots of guys pawing at you, I hope this is a couples/single females only event that you are attending. The female halves of couples get pawed enough at events where single guys are invited.. so as a single female you can be sure that you would get it even more. Now, assuming this is a couples/single females only event.. you'll probably really enjoy yourself and while you may still get pawed by some of the males, you will be extremely sought after by many couples there looking for a female to have a 3-some (hope you are into that). Just keep in mind that no matter if you are going there alone or who is there.. no still means no and if you aren't comfortable with someone or something that someone asks you to do... that is your right. If you have a problem with anyone at the party, let the hosts know and hopefully they will take care of it. Julie http://www.swingersboard.com __________________ Julie Owner/ Admin http://www.swingersboard.com

10-10-2001, 12:26 PM	#3 (permalink)
danc694u Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 546 Location: Birmingham, AL Status: couple	Expect to have fun Do not hide in the corner though. Be prepared for attention Although, I disagree with Julie about the pawing, it does happen. It's easy to stop though. Just say NO. We've also seen many single females go home alone. __________________ Phonies and Fakes Need not apply. We're as real as it gets, and don't have time to be wasting on dumbasses.

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10-10-2001, 09:47 PM	#4 (permalink)
pelagic argosy Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 54	From my experience at clubs, single females get pawed by single guys, married guys, and married and single females! If you are reasonably attractive you will get hit on hard. It doesn't seem to me that marital status makes much of a difference, aggressive people are aggressive, married or not. Make sure you know what type of activities goes on at the club/party you're going to. There might be some things that you're not willing to do, and you might want to avoid those clubs.

10-11-2001, 12:24 AM	#5 (permalink)
Newbie Active Member Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 10	Is this Carmel Indiana? If so, we only live an hour or so from you. We too are new to this. Maybe we could "chat" about this!!!!

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