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BBgurl · 06-19-2003, 11:47 PM

How do thin or average size people feel about bbw's swinging solo? Do you think BBW's should only swing at BBW parties? What are your feelings on this?

***JustAskJulie*** · 06-20-2003, 12:13 AM

BBW's should swing anywhere they want, single or not. If you have confidence in yourself it will show and others will want to be with you.

fun_pairTX · 06-20-2003, 02:50 AM

Girl, if you got it going on just go for it.

BBgurl · 06-20-2003, 07:25 AM

I asked because I want to branch out and go to events not just for bbw's. I have done the couple swap, and that was good, just looking for something on a larger scale...

ciscosv · 06-20-2003, 03:19 PM

Hi BBgurl. I am the male half of a couple. I am also pretty thin. I personally dont think that size is important at all. As everyone one else said...Go for it!

BBgurl · 06-20-2003, 03:31 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by ciscosv
Hi BBgurl. I am the male half of a couple. I am also pretty thin. I personally dont think that size is important at all. As everyone one else said...Go for it!

I think the problem is more from other women, men have been more than accomodating!

fun_pairTX · 06-20-2003, 06:59 PM

Its cause us men have figured out that there is better pushin with a bigger cushion. Not to mention the fact that with larger women you aren't going to get your ears bruised from a pair of bony thighs......................Black and blue ears are a dead giveaway.

LarrySmith · 06-30-2003, 02:34 PM

Attitude. That's what's sexy. A woman dressed up in a way that tells the world that she feels sexy, a personality that says she feels sexy, friendly disposition, that is what catches my attention.

ArcaneReference · 06-30-2003, 06:38 PM

Physical attraction plays a bunch into it though - it's not all personality and the "click", people have to get past an appearance to see if there is a "click" or "chemistry" and it's then really a matter of whatever turns you on. Quite often I have seen posted on these boards "physical appearance" and "how they present themselves" [as to whether or not one is attracted at a meet and greet]. Some people are attracted to BBWs, some are not.

I know a lot of completely aerobicized and toned women who are complete bitches and I wouldn't fuck with someone elses' pussy and a third person pushing.

Swing where you want and do whatever pleases you.

New&LovingIt · 07-01-2003, 02:41 PM

What does BBW stand for?facelick

BBgurl · 07-01-2003, 02:44 PM

Big Beautiful Woman

OhioCouple · 07-01-2003, 07:32 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by LarrySmith
Attitude. That's what's sexy. A woman dressed up in a way that tells the world that she feels sexy, a personality that says she feels sexy, friendly disposition, that is what catches my attention.

I agree wholeheartedly here. Attitude and confidence in ones own self is what attracts our attention. Sexy comes in all sizes, shapes and colors. Some can have the body of an Adonis or a built like Barbie, but if their attitude and personality do not reflect a warm individual..... it is a HUGE turn off. There is nothing worse than a bad attitude, poor self esteem or arrogance.

LarrySmith · 07-01-2003, 07:47 PM

Yeah, I've had enough experience with "ugly" personalities.

Flori_DAMAN · 07-02-2003, 05:45 PM

I would venture to say that swingers represent a great cross section of our population. Most of us are overweight to some point. The hundreds of swinging parties that I have attended demonstrate to me that BBW's have just as much fun as LBW's.

John

bear_n_bunny · 07-04-2003, 08:41 PM

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Originally posted by BBgurl
How do thin or average size people feel about bbw's swinging solo? Do you think BBW's should only swing at BBW parties? What are your feelings on this?

As several others have said, whatever you feel comfortable with, go for it. However, as someone who has had some experience with both BBW and non-BBW swing groups, you will run an increased chance of getting the cold shoulder with some of the "mainstream" swinger groups and clubs, especially those with larger incidences of "Barbie and Ken clones".

Sad to say, there are some major-league assholes out here. This does not mean you will run into any, but if you do, don't be surprised.

Frankly, past experience has shown me that I would be more likely to have a good time with, and hence more inclined to engage in, a friendly romp with a "beautiful person" like you than with the average "beautiful person" with a body by Fisher...

In any case, go forth, darlin', and take no prisoners...

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06-19-2003, 11:47 PM	#1 (permalink)
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06-20-2003, 12:13 AM	#2 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,291 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	BBW's should swing anywhere they want, single or not. If you have confidence in yourself it will show and others will want to be with you.
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06-20-2003, 02:50 AM	#3 (permalink)
fun_pairTX Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 1,185 Location: Ennis, Texas Status: Couple	BBW's and Swinging Girl, if you got it going on just go for it.
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06-20-2003, 03:19 PM	#5 (permalink)
ciscosv Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 755 Location: Redford, Michigan Status: Married Couple	Hi BBgurl. I am the male half of a couple. I am also pretty thin. I personally dont think that size is important at all. As everyone one else said...Go for it!
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06-20-2003, 07:25 AM	#4 (permalink)
BBgurl Active Member Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 44 Location: Kentucky Status: Single	I asked because I want to branch out and go to events not just for bbw's. I have done the couple swap, and that was good, just looking for something on a larger scale...

06-20-2003, 06:59 PM	#7 (permalink)
fun_pairTX Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 1,185 Location: Ennis, Texas Status: Couple	The reason is obvious........... Its cause us men have figured out that there is better pushin with a bigger cushion. Not to mention the fact that with larger women you aren't going to get your ears bruised from a pair of bony thighs......................Black and blue ears are a dead giveaway.
	__________________ fun_pairTX

06-30-2003, 02:34 PM	#8 (permalink)
LarrySmith Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 112 Location: Northern VA Status: Male half	Attitude. That's what's sexy. A woman dressed up in a way that tells the world that she feels sexy, a personality that says she feels sexy, friendly disposition, that is what catches my attention.
	__________________ Nothing is foolproof, for it inevitably underestimates the ingenuity of the fool.

06-30-2003, 06:38 PM	#9 (permalink)
ArcaneReference Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 157 Location: British Columbia Status: Couple	Physical attraction plays a bunch into it though - it's not all personality and the "click", people have to get past an appearance to see if there is a "click" or "chemistry" and it's then really a matter of whatever turns you on. Quite often I have seen posted on these boards "physical appearance" and "how they present themselves" [as to whether or not one is attracted at a meet and greet]. Some people are attracted to BBWs, some are not. I know a lot of completely aerobicized and toned women who are complete bitches and I wouldn't fuck with someone elses' pussy and a third person pushing. Swing where you want and do whatever pleases you.

07-01-2003, 02:41 PM	#10 (permalink)
New&LovingIt Registered User Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 1 Location: PA Status: Single Female	Question..... What does BBW stand for?facelick

07-01-2003, 02:44 PM	#11 (permalink)
BBgurl Active Member Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 44 Location: Kentucky Status: Single	Big Beautiful Woman

07-01-2003, 07:47 PM	#13 (permalink)
LarrySmith Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 112 Location: Northern VA Status: Male half	Yeah, I've had enough experience with "ugly" personalities.
	__________________ Nothing is foolproof, for it inevitably underestimates the ingenuity of the fool.

07-02-2003, 05:45 PM	#14 (permalink)
Flori_DAMAN Previously of MichiganCouple Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 2,100 Location: Vero Beach Florida Status: Single Male	I would venture to say that swingers represent a great cross section of our population. Most of us are overweight to some point. The hundreds of swinging parties that I have attended demonstrate to me that BBW's have just as much fun as LBW's. John

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