No single males? Why not??

[good times]

I think your probably right ES, I am beginning to believe that I would have had to be one to really understand. I will say that when we first started I thought all single men in the lifestyle were just jerks looking for an easy lay. Over the last couple of years mainly due to guys like yourself on this board who's views on the subject I have come to respect, I think I have progressed to the point of admitting that I just don't quite understand. The only real effect it has had so far is I don't avoid the single males at the clubs like they have the plague or something, and have in fact become friends with a couple of them. But I will keep reading the posts and, hopefully, one day understanding will dawn on me, because this is the one thing in the lifestyle that still leaves me perplexed.

[freakgolfguy25]

As a single male I don't belive in that all we want is sex. I would like to find a couple, sf or sm that wants someone to travel with. I belive sex is just a bonus if everything goes well! That is all I have to say.

[supershadow]

I find that it is mostly the husband fear that we WILL fuck their wives better than they can. If the wife is satified why is she out fucking another guy? This is like working at the buffet but are still hungry, why would that be? It is because the food is nto satisfying. So hubbies try to make thenselvs more important by cock teasing with their wife. Yes it is cock teasing same as a woman or same as a gay man. Anyways the wife is being polite to her husbands pocketbook by keeping him around, and fucking us real men.

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by supershadow

I find that it is mostly the husband fear that we WILL fuck their wives better than they can. If the wife is satified why is she out fucking another guy? This is like working at the buffet but are still hungry, why would that be? It is because the food is nto satisfying. So hubbies try to make thenselvs more important by cock teasing with their wife. Yes it is cock teasing same as a woman or same as a gay man. Anyways the wife is being polite to her husbands pocketbook by keeping him around, and fucking us real men.

Thanks for posting the biggest load of bullshit I think I've ever read here...

I take it as I am sure you meant it - as a gaff, something to stir the pot - so with you, I laugh...

But - if on the off chance that you honestly feel that you are making a valid point, I'd like to point you to this very relevant thread. It should be enlightening reading...

Better Sex With someone else

Spoomonkey

[supershadow]

Thank you for the thread. It is nice that the women were being polite and the men decieveing themselves.

[Spoomonkey]

So why does your wife want a MFM? I am sincerely curious... Perhaps there are some tricks that we can share with you to help you please her better. We are an open bunch...

Spoomonkey

[curious24]

OMG.. this guy is a complete moron. I say ignore him.

[HarleyGirl26]

why not allow single guys at least for the couples that just want a male to play with them. There seem to be a lot of couples that are just looking. Why not even things out there are females looking for single females so why not the other way around this is the new millenium.

[VegasLee]

Originally Posted by supershadow

This is like working at the buffet but are still hungry, why would that be? It is because the food is nto satisfying.

One of the business that Laura and I own is a Hot Dog company here in Vegas. We love Hot Dogs! No less then once a week we go out and eat Hot Dogs from another company someplace in Vegas. We don't do this because we don't like our Hot Dogs, Hell, we have the best Hot Dogs in Las Vegas!!! We do this to make sure we have the best in Vegas! You don't know that you have the best until you get out and test the rest!

I think someone posting here does not have a clue about what food and the lifestyle is about.

[WesternSwing]

Not only is supershadow a moron, he has some serious issues.

Mr. WS

[WoodyInSoCal]

Originally Posted by OhioCouple

I guarantee you that you will get a ton of responses in addition to a lot of pictures that you just would prefer not to see. This alone is enough to taint the image of the single male. Top that off with a club on a night where singles are allowed and it just becomes a done deal in the way of thinking.

I hope you will all remember that males are raised to be the pursuers. We are told to step up and offer ourselves to those females that we find attractive.

I would categorize couples who swing in four ways: A. those interested only in females; B. those interested only in males; C. those interested only in other couples; and D. those who just like to meet others and enjoy.

The swinging couples in category A and C sometimes get purturbed by males who are presenting themselves (sometimes crudly or insensitivly) as candidates. I can only say that those males who do so in ways that offend are being dealt mixed messages. If you read more than a few profiles of couples or single females interested in males, you will read that they want someone who is "hung" or more than 7 inches or something like that. So, when browsing a site and seeing that an attractive woman or couple is open to receiving mail from them, they may fall into the trap of putting everyone together with those interested in "big" guys. (and please, I've been swinging long enough to know that size DOES matter)

I have been shunned by many couples because I'm honest enough to present myself as I really am - single. How many of you respond to a post from a couple when you haven't got a clue if the sender really is a couple?

But frankly, when I host parties (I've been doing so for over 7 years) the ones that are the most successful are those where the invited single males (pre-selected by females who have attended in the past) turn out to be the best get togethers.

I also have asked the attending couples whether they like the extra males in attendance and generally the females say "yes" and their husbands say "no". Swinging is supposed to be primarily for the females. Us males get rewarded by first pleasing the woman we are with and then receiving her gifts in return.

So, grumbling husbands, think about your positions on this issue. And ladies, if you really don't want to be innundated by email from single males, please block it and make sure your profile clearly indicates that you aren't interested.

And if you go to a club where single males are in attendance and you aren't sure about how it will go, I suggest you do one of two things; pick one where the number of single males is restricted. Ask the hosts about male/female ratios. It shouldn't be more than 2:1 and that includes the husbands.; or don't attend any club that allows single males.

It'll save lots of hurt feelings and angry responses to unwanted mail.

P.S. I might add that I have been to plenty of parties where the single males were quite well behaved, but the husbands were insulting, aggressive and altogether unwilling to consider the needs of the females they were approaching. Just because the male is being a pain doesn't mean he is single.

[HotMama]

Wahhh WAHHHH

Someone get Woddy a Tissue.

[BradAndJanet]

Originally Posted by HotMama

Wahhh WAHHHH

Someone get Woddy a Tissue.

HotMama, I don't understand your response. I think Woody made some good points in his post.

-B

[HotMama]

Originally Posted by BradAndJanet

HotMama, I don't understand your response. I think Woody made some good points in his post.

-B

Good points maybe, but not without complaining about how he is an "honest single male" and he has been shunned by people because they are looking for couples..... If you are single male and get mad because people WHO DONT WANT SINGLE MALES don't talk to you. There is a problem.

also have asked the attending couples whether they like the extra males in attendance and generally the females say "yes" and their husbands say "no". Swinging is supposed to be primarily for the females.

WHAT? It is a couples sport... More crying..."its the husbaands keeping the single males down!" He was so upset he took a poll at a club.

So, grumbling husbands, think about your positions on this issue. And ladies, if you really don't want to be innundated by email from single males, please block it and make sure your profile clearly indicates that you aren't interested.

Oh yeah, clearly marking the profile always works


He just sounds like one of the single males looking for a cheap and easy lay.

I can see thru the hogwash.

He should have just said "cockblocking husbands are ruining my chances of getting laid by an easy girl that wants me" psssstt... There are places you can go where the girls do not have husbands....(A BAR)

[dutch51]

We don't mind there being single males at the clubs we've attended- there are couples and other women looking for single males, so they should have their opportunity to hook up as well. And we've enjoyed talking to lots of people regardless of marital status. Everyone should be respectful of others' boundaries and preferences, and this applies to singles as well as couples. Our only problem comes with emails in response to our online profile- we *clearly* state NO Single Males, no couples in which only the male plays, etc. numerous times throughout the profile, and even list our interest in single males as 0, but we still get too many emails where the guy is coming through our town and wants to meet me that evening for some hot and heavy sex. The emails come from "couples" so they get through our filters. And some of them get persistent so we have to block their address.

We aren't against single males, and know some great guys to have as friends, it's just that we're having fun with the couples thing and that's where our interest lies right now.