How Exactly do I find an attractive girl that is into swinging??

[funseeking2010]

I havent posted much but I have a question. I am a 25 yr old male and have been with several women throughout my college days, and when I promoted for clubs they paid me to bring a certain amount of girls to thier clubs...... and I have never met a chic thats into swinging?? I live in the DFW area and guess Im not sure what Im doing wrong. I am currently single but would love to find an attractive girl that is into it. I have met a few couples that are into swinging but they arent really my style if you catch my drift..... any suggestions?

[Coupleerotic22]

If you want to find acorns, look under an oak.

Looking for swinging girls in vanilla clubs is like looking for a needle in the hay stack. Try joining a swingers site and going to swingers socials.

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by funseeking2010

I have met a few couples that are into swinging but they arent really my style if you catch my drift.....

Sometimes I'm a little slow in catching drifts. This is one of those times.
Can you explain further?

[LikeMinds321]

funseeking2010
Registered User


Join Date: Jun 2010
Posts: 2
Location: Arlington unfortunately
Status: Single Male/Kinda Couple


Sometimes I'm a little slow in catching drifts, too. Here is what you said in your introduction thread:

Originally Posted by funseeking2010

Hey guys.... looking to gain a little knowledge from everyone here about the lifestyle. Dont want to look like an ignorant prick by saying this but I am a very attractive male looking to find very attractive couples. Possibly even meet another attractive female that I can be with that enjoys the lifestyle. Thanks for having me

And what do you mean by "Single Male/Kinda Couple?" Do you have a steady girlfriend who doesn't want to swing and so you're looking to replace her with another girlfriend who does want to swing?

LM

[Edison Carter]

...and with the above review, he was BUSTED !

[Coupleerotic22]

There are times I read the forums and it brings a about a mental image of a cat, sitting there regal and peacefully. In front of the cat is a mouse being very still. Every so often the mouse moves, and cat slaps its paw down in it to put it back in its place. Then goes back to looking regal until the mouse gets out of line again.

As LikeMinds321 purrrrrssss.

[Alura]

Originally Posted by Coupleerotic22

As LikeMinds321 purrrrrssss.

Yep! She's very special; we're lucky to have her!

Alura

[Alura]

Originally Posted by funseeking2010

I havent posted much but I have a question. I am a 25 yr old male and have been with several women throughout my college days, and when I promoted for clubs they paid me to bring a certain amount of girls to thier clubs...... and I have never met a chic thats into swinging?? I live in the DFW area and guess Im not sure what Im doing wrong. I am currently single but would love to find an attractive girl that is into it. I have met a few couples that are into swinging but they arent really my style if you catch my drift..... any suggestions?

If you're seriously interested in the lifestyle and want a wife to share it with, try the following:

1. Meet a woman.

2. Be honest with her in everything about your life. Don't try to con her into bed.

3. Make an agreement with her to never become angry about a question which is asked and always answer it honestly and completely.

4. Ask her "How do you feel about swinging?"

If her answer is positive, do everything you can to nurture the relationship. If she kicks your ass out the door, look for another woman.

Alura

[MsGoneWild]

Originally Posted by Coupleerotic22

If you want to find acorns, look under an oak.

i think you are my favorite person


Anyway... OP; Single women in the swinging world seem to be rare. Attractive is somewhat subjective at best..

Coupleerotic's advice is the best. But your problem is that you're a single guy. Getting into clubs is going to be hard. Your best bet is probably to make a profile on a site like Swing Lifestyle and see if you can find girls interested in you.

I'm part of a couple, but play as a single. If i saw your relationship status I'd steer clear. I like things cut and dry when it comes to that. Open relatonship? Awesome. Dating around? Okay.. Looking for some strange outside your relationship? No way. I dont do the "married but not to each other" either. If that helps any.

[Coupleerotic22]

Originally Posted by MsGoneWild

i think you are my favorite person

Why thank you very much!

To OP: MsGoneWild is correct. I should have said that in my first post. Looking for a single women (interested in single men) is still very tough, but at least you can be some what sure they are involved in swinging. Then the question becomes are they looking primarily for single guys, couples or other women.