Attractive male not knowing where to start

[Dpcurious7733]

I have never done anything like this before. It is something I have been interested in for a long time. I am simply into group sex. I had a threesome with two girls many years ago when I has no clue what to do. Maybe that's why I'm intrigued by 2 males and one female. I'm 100% straight it just turns me on that a girl could enjoy sex so much. Not to mention I think it shows extreme confidence in the girl taking on two guys at once which is so hot. I always thought it may happen spontaniously but maybe I'm being naive. I'm not one to go putting my picture up online. Anyone have any advice??

[Dpcurious7733]

I an attractive male who isn't necessarily a casanova with the ladies. I'm kinda shy normally. I've always had a fantasy of pleasing a woman with her man. I'm straight I just think it's a real turn on. Any ideas where to start? I've never thought about truly acting on it before. But I'm recently divourced and am just looking to fullfill some lifelong fantasies. Any advice would be great. I'm not totally opposed to searching online but it seems to be a scam. Thanks for your help all.

[DigginIt]

There are several threads across this board about the role of single men in swinging. I would suggest reading those first as you want to ensure that you do not breach any etiquette. First and foremost, your role in a threesome is to please the woman. It's not about the woman pleasing you but if you do your job well then you will reap the benefits. You will run across women who like the dirty, hot sex and the challenge of multiple men but I think more often you will run across many couples who just like the gentle attention of multiple men attempting to please them. Very important you know the difference

While the sites are filled with many people who claim to be a couple or single female that actually turn out to be fakes, there are many good couples you can find through the sites. If you truly are attractive and you can back that up with being polite and charming then you might find yourself a hot commodity. The shyness may hurt you unless you leave it at the door when you hit the bedroom.

If you develop a good reputation then you will get invited to house parties, etc. and that could increase your chances but just remember, your reputation is all you have and these circles are pretty tight. Word spreads quickly about you.

Lastly, you can try a club but just expect that there will be lots of single men that you will be competing against. It's a tough game and you have to set yourself apart from the others.

Good luck.

[meandmyhotgirl]

Originally Posted by Dpcurious7733

I'm not one to go putting my picture up online. Anyone have any advice??

well, I would suggest that you DO post pictures on these sites. A profile without a picture usually turns the viewer off to looking at you're profile. What I do, since I am a bit paranoid when it comes to someone seeing a picture of me online, is edit them. You can simply black out your eyes or your entire face and still show a nice picture of your figure. I would say that you should not just post pictures of anything x-rated, but you can take some so if someone DOES want to see them you can send them via e-mail or PM. Also, women usually like it when you smile in a picture, so if you have a nice face shot, just crop the picture or black out the eyes like I said before. This should definitely help you get more responses.