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| Here to Stay Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 13 Location: boston Status: single male
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hey. im a 28 single male. tomorrow im goin to my first swingers party solo... just something i always wanted to check out and experience. what should i expect going solo? i kinda got goosebumps and butterflies think bout it |
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| Julie's Helper Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 4,679 Location: Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania Status: a very married man Swing Lifestyle Name:SW_PA_Couple
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Hide under a bush and make a noise like a carrot. A cute little bunny will find you ![]() Seriously, have a good time. First time is always great, whatever happens. |
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| Laura's Male Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 1,951 Location: Las Vegas, Nevada Status: Laura's Male
| Well tell people to expect NOTHING at all. Go and be social, don't get drunk and have some fun. Never go expecting sex at all. If it happens then it is a bonus. People built up visions in their mind that reality can never compete with. Don't! This is nothing more then a party. I am sure you have been to many parties. Only difference is that if you find people that you click with you could end up NAKED! ![]() Keep it simple and you will have a good time. Try to make it what you "Think" it is going to be you will be greatly let down. |
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__________________ You all laugh at me because I am different. I laugh at all of you because you are all the same. | |
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| Here to Stay Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 13 Location: boston Status: single male
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im not going in there expecting any sex or anything like that. im going in open minded and gunna keep a positive attitude. soak in the experience. meet new people. and whatever happens happens
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| Here to Stay Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 13 Location: boston Status: single male
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had opportunity for sex but declined. just wasnt feeling the females at all... but all in all good experience. talked to the regs and made some good connections. they asked me to come back and told me which parties to attend with lots of single females
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| Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,288 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard
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At least you had a good time and that's the most important thing. Second is that it sounds like you made a good impression and with any luck they'll invite you back and you'll be even more comfortable the second time around.
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| Here to Stay Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 59 Location: British Columbia, Canada Status: Single Swing Lifestyle Name:TastyTreats4U
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Congratulations on following through with your first party. Sounds like you handled yourself quite well . |
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