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Old 05-06-2010, 09:28 PM   #1 (permalink)
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hey. im a 28 single male. tomorrow im goin to my first swingers party solo... just something i always wanted to check out and experience.

what should i expect going solo? i kinda got goosebumps and butterflies think bout it
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Old 05-06-2010, 09:49 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Hide under a bush and make a noise like a carrot. A cute little bunny will find you

Seriously, have a good time. First time is always great, whatever happens.
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Old 05-06-2010, 10:01 PM   #3 (permalink)
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what should i expect going solo?
Well tell people to expect NOTHING at all. Go and be social, don't get drunk and have some fun. Never go expecting sex at all. If it happens then it is a bonus.

People built up visions in their mind that reality can never compete with. Don't!

This is nothing more then a party. I am sure you have been to many parties. Only difference is that if you find people that you click with you could end up NAKED!

Keep it simple and you will have a good time. Try to make it what you "Think" it is going to be you will be greatly let down.
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Old 05-07-2010, 07:10 AM   #4 (permalink)
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im not going in there expecting any sex or anything like that. im going in open minded and gunna keep a positive attitude. soak in the experience. meet new people. and whatever happens happens
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Old 05-08-2010, 06:23 AM   #5 (permalink)
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had opportunity for sex but declined. just wasnt feeling the females at all... but all in all good experience. talked to the regs and made some good connections. they asked me to come back and told me which parties to attend with lots of single females
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At least you had a good time and that's the most important thing. Second is that it sounds like you made a good impression and with any luck they'll invite you back and you'll be even more comfortable the second time around.
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Congratulations on following through with your first party. Sounds like you handled yourself quite well .
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